婚介相亲:相亲之前

 hunjiexiangqinkaopuma？shishishang，chujuxiangqin，shuangfangdouyingjubeiyidingdetiaojian，bushiwuzhishangde，ershibaokuoxueli、xiangmao、renpin、pinzhi、jiatingbeijing、gongzuo、shourudengfangmian。neimexiangqinjingliyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanxiangqinnannvdewenzhangba。

jiarumeiyoushenme，jieshaorenyebuhuihaoxindijieshaonichulaixiangqin。

 rujinshuangfangjibendoushi80hou，youlewendingdegongzuoheshouru，jiatingbeijingxiangsi，youyugongzuoshangdeyuanyinhuoxinggeshangdeyuanyin，quanzibijiaoxiao，jiechuderenbijiaozhongyi，suoyichuquxiangqin。nvxingbilijiaoduo，jibenzai1.7zuoyou，yejiushishuo，pingjunxialaiyimingnanxingyaoyu1.7mingnvxingxiangqin。

 jieshaoyibanzaimiaoshujieshaoduixiangdeshihou，douhuiyouyixiewenzishangdexiushi，birunande170huibianchengnvde175，nvde70huibiancheng80，dangranhaiyougengyanzhongdeniuqu。

 hunjiexiangqin:yinci，buyaowanquanxiangxinjieshaorensuoshuodehua，xindayueqichengzuoyoujiukeyile。biexiangrufeifei，ruonvruotianxian，neiyebubichudazhongxiangqin。

 xiangqinjingli,nanshishengao，nvshiwaimaozaijieshaozhongshizuikaobuzhude。meijianguomian，suoyisuoyoudexiangqinzhedoubixubaqiwangjiangxialai!lingwai，youjidianzhidezhuyi：

关于媒妁之言。

 yi、「meishuozhiyanbukeqingxin，bushudemeishuozhiyanqianwanbukeqingxin」——jizhuzheijuhua，meishuozhiyanzongshirenbuzhubei「meishuozhiyan」dexinlisuoqushi，suoyi，ruguomeishuozhiyanshuozijishigeshuaige，neitayeshigeputongren，shuotayimiqiwuyishang，gujiyimiqigualing。youqishineixiezaihenduoshiqingshangdourenchumeirenderen，tamendeyancigengbukexin，zhiyugenniyouliyiguanxideren，gancuijiusuanle。

 er、yidingyaowenqingchu，meirenzuihouyicijiandaoneigerenshishenmeshihou，ruguoshi10nianqian，neime…10niandeshijianzuyirangyigeshuaiqidexiaohuozibiandeyongzhongfeipang，gengbietiweirenerbianle。

 yupengyoujieshaodeqinxiangbi，yufumujieshaodeqingengyouyoushi。xiangqinnannv,laoyibei，renshiyoutaiduodebutong，laoyibeidaduozhishixiangjiniyigeandingdeshenghuo，zhiyuliangrenaihaodedaolu，jibenhenshaokaolv。