交友相亲：相亲的正确打开方式

 xiangqinliaotianyinggaizenmeshuoni？suizhunianlingdezengzhang，nifaxianzijiyilaishejiaoquanxiao，renshiderenbuduo，pingshijiechudebushitongshijiushipengyoutongxue，erlaishitiaoti，nianqingdeshihouduijingjibumanyi，jingjidadaodeshihouduinianzhanghuowaimaobuhaobuman，yihuangguoleshihunnianlingjiushoufumudezhishixiangqin，xiangzhaogeheshiyoukekaodenvhaifaxianzhiyouxiangqinle。neimedabanquxiangqindebanfayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanjiaoyouxiangqindewenzhangba。

 genjuwozuzhiheguanchadexuduoxiangqinshangmiandeqingkuang，queshihaiyouyixiehaonvhai。yinweinidefumuyijingbangnishaixuanguole。diyicixiangqinhenzhongyao，zhijieyingxiangnimenyihoudefazhan，danshihenduoxiongdixiangdexinyidenvhaibuzhidaoruhequzuo，zongshibawobuhaonaxiexingweijiafen，naxiexingweijianfen。rujinnimenyaozuodejiushi，genzhewoxue，ranhouzaichuliandeshihoujiupiaopiaoliangliangde，jibenshangyeshiweiyideyicijianmian，baneihaoguniangdexinjiwozhaixialai!

 zheimezuo，jinengrangnizhanjuyidingdeyoushi，tongshiyounengrangnikuaisushibienvshengleixing。zhunzebubitaigao，zhiyaoliechuhexinxuqiujike。ciwai，quebaojinkenengdishoujidaoyouyongdexinxi，nide“biaozhun”jiangshijieshaorengengduodizhanshitamendemubiao，bimianyinjingchangfawenerzaochengdeyali。xiangqinliaotianyinggaizenmeshuoni？yidanzhunbeihaole，shoujidaolexinxi，jiuhuihenkuaiduimubiaojinxingfenlei。

一、剩女类型。

 zheiyangdenvxingdaduozai25suiyishang，yibandoubijiaoduli，gongzuonengliqiang，shehuijingyanfengfu。beichengwei“shengnv”deyuanyinshitamenyangaoshoudi，yudaohaodeshiqingjiuxiangbutong，yudaoyibanrenjiukanbujian，yudaozhazhajiugaoao。zheiyangdenvxing，daduohuiguanzhunanxingdeshehuidiweihecaifujiazhi。

 ruguonizhidaotaxiangqindeshihouhenaoman，nijiuhuiduitadejuzhichizhiyibi。wandaodeshihoubietaizaolai，kantayiyanjiuzou，kantayiyanjiuzou。youhuolideqifenbudengyuyoujiazhi。

二、父母强迫的类型。

 dabanquxiangqin，yixiefumu，dangniyijinrushehuijiuxiangdaonikuaisudizuzhijiatingshi，jiukaishiqiangponiqujieshiduixiang。xuyaomianduizheizhongqingxingdenvxingxiangqinbingbushaojian。zheizhongnvxingyibandoushinianqingde，nvxingjinglijiaoshao，shenghuofangshidanyi。zheileimubiaoouerhuiyouhengaodequanzhong，dabufenshuyuzibizhengleixing，suoyinimenkeyiduokaixiehuati，shizhexiangbicishuxidelingyuzouqu。liru，yikaishikeyiyisuiyidefangshihepingdandezhutijinxinghudong，zhihoukeyiyihuixieyoumodefangshilaifenxiangbeishangdexiangqinguocheng，jianligongminghoukeyizhankaigengduodehuati。

三、实体类型。

 wuzhihuadenvren，waixingyibandoubucuo，daduohenxurong，tamenzhuiqiugenggaozhiliangdeshenghuo，zijiquewulichengdan。danshi，jihumeiyouwuzhifangmiandenvxingnenggouzuodaoneiwaijianxiu，tamendeneixinfeichangkongxu。tamendeshijieli，yexuzhiyoulvbaobaoshicongbiedenanrenneilizhaqulaide，huozheshimouzhongmouzhongshechipin。

 jiaoyouxiangqin，duizheileiwuzhixingdenvren，niyaobiaoxianchuyizhongwusuoweidetaidu。buguantazaishuoshenme，nidoubietaijidong。jiniyigemanmanshuxideguocheng，zhiyaodapotamendewuzhiwaiqiao，lijituijinguanxi。