交友相亲：相亲是个技术活儿

 xiangqinliaotianyinggaizenmeshuoni？jiarunizhengzaijijijinxing“ziwoanpai”，nixuyaoquxiangqin。tandaoxiangqin，zheishiyimenyishu。youyicixiangqin，wojianguohenduocidoumeiyouchenggong，suoyi，yizhikazaizheigehuanjie。youyujianlejihumeicixiangqindouchenggongderen，zhishikazhulehoumiandelianaijieduan。neimedabanquxiangqindebanfayounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanjiaoyouxiangqindewenzhangba。

 nengzaochengrenmenzaixiangqinchenggonglvshangrucixuanshude，buyidingzhishixiangmao、xueli、shourudenggerentiaojian，goutongjiqiao，duiyixingxinlidebawowangwangyeqizhezhongyaozuoyong。

 yici，yougenansheng，tinglishaocha，danqitatiaojiandouhenhao，wulunshiwangshangrenshidenvhai，haishibierenjieshaodenvhai，tazongshixianduiduifangshuo：“wodetingliyoudianxiaowenti，buzhinishifoujieyi?”

yinci，tayijingxiangqinlehenduoci，nvhaimendoubujieyide。

 dabanquxiangqin，zhihou，tatingguowozaikehoudiaozhengcelve，xiantantanzijiyudaodetingliwenti，xiangqinliaotianyinggaizenmeshuoni？dengjianmianjicizhihou，tajiuhuiwennvhaiduizijideyinxiangruhe，ruguonvhaishuoduizijideyinxiangbucuo，tajiubazijidetingliwentigaosuduifang。

yinci，tazonggonggaosulelianggenvhai，lianggenvhaidoutongyijixuhetajiaowang，xianzaitayijingheqizhongyigejielehun。

 yuehuishixuanzeduixiangdeguanjianshike，jiuxiangdushiderenyongdianzhaoxiangyiyang，renheyigeweixiaodequexiandoukenengrangrenmendiudiaoshouzhongdeshitou，qukanbiede。danshiruguorenmenxianzaishitoulikandaofeicui，neimewaimiandexiaoxiacijiuwuguanjinyaole。

 yinci，xiangqinbingbuzhishirangniganjuedaozhencheng，ershiyaogenjuyixingdexinlilaihelianpaihechengxian，zheiyangjibushizhencheng，youbuhuiduizijibugongping，bimiancuoguoheshideren。

适于相亲的地方

 congqian，chenglideren，xiangjieshaoduixiangshi，jiumailiangzhangdianyingpiao，yizhangjinannvshuangfang，lingyizhangnazhedianyingpiao，zaidianyingyuanmenkoujianmian，yiqikanchangdianying，suanshixiangqin。

 jiaoyouxiangqin，shishishang，niyaozhenzhengtiyanguozheizhongxiangqinfangshidehua，jiuhuizhidao，zheishizuibuheshideyizhong。zheishikenengde，yibudianyingxialai，nimenshenzhikanbuqingchuduifangdezhangxiang。