一个人要如何提高自己的自信心

ruhetigaozijizixinxin ？guanyuzixin，sheidoubunengjinimenyikeshu，bierenzhinengjinimenyikezhongzi，nimenquzijirangtafaya，tahuibuhuikaihua，huijiechushenmeyangdeguoshi，douzaiyunimenziji。xuduoyouyu、fangqi、shibai，doushiyuanyubuzixin。zixinshiyigerenchenggongdebibeixintaisuzhi，ranerzixinyeshikeyihoutianpeiyangde。fenxiangyigerenruhetigaozixinxindefangfa。

一、培养耐心

zixinqueshixuyaopeiyang，suoweide“peiyang”，jishishuobingfeichaoxikeda。suoyi，peiyangzixindezuizhongyaoqiantijiushiyaojubeinaixin，ruruoquefanaixinjiuyaopeiyangnaixin。meiyounaixindehuajiushenmedouzuobucheng，gengbietishenme“zixin”le。yousuochengjiu，jiuhuibansuizhezixindezengzhang。

二、习得并精通一种技能

jubeixuexinengliderentongchangdouhenzixin，fanguolaiyeyiyang，zhenzhengzixinderentongchangshiyinweixiangxinzijidexuexinengli。suoyimianduitiaozhandeshihoutamenbuhuipa，buhuixinxu，yinweitamenzhidao“dabulequxueme”。zixuenenglidejichushinaixin，erxiderenheyizhongjinengdouhuirangrengengjiadongdenaixindezhongyao，bingqietongshiyinweijubeinaixinyuxuexinengliergengjiazixin。zhiyaohuashijianzhenzhengjingtongleyizhongjineng，neimexuehuiqitayizhongjinengdeshihoujiuhuibiandegengqingsong——zheishiliangxingxunhuan。

三、相信积累的力量

zaidadeshitouyewufazudangzhongzifaya，zhiyinweizhongziyidankaishifaya，neixibaodefenliejinguansudubukuaidanquebujiantianriyongbuzhongzhi。dishuikeyichuanshidedaolisheidoudongdanyouhaoxiangsheidoubuxiangxin——chuyuqidianderenjiuhaoxiangshiyilixibaohuozheyidishui，dandaduoshurenquewuyiweihuozhexiwangzijizaiqidianshangjiuqiangdafengliyouruyishujiguang，danzheibuxianshi。yaotongguoxuexipeiyangnaixin，yunyongnaixinqudengdaizhangqijileizhihoukeyihuodedenanyixiangxiangdehaochuyuliliang。

四、了解自己的局限

womenyaoruhetigaozijizixinxin？meiyourenwusuobuneng。jiusuanyongyouzhenzhengqiangdaxuexinengliderenyewufazuodaowusuobuneng——yinweishijianbugou。youxielingyuqueshibixutianfen。zaizijiqueshibushanzhangdedifanggaizibeijiuyaozibei——zheimeiyoushenmebuhaoyiside。gaizibeideshihoubuzibei，jiuduoleyigexintaifudan——bingqiehaishiyongyuanbaituobudiaodefudan，zuizhong，kendinghuituoleizixin。fanshierzuodehaobiranrongyizixin，zuodebuhaojiuhennanzixin，danshihaimeishangzhenni，jiubeizheyigeyouyigedebaofu，nengzouduoyuan？nengzuoduohao？

五、凡事儿都要提前做足功课

dashengshuohuayehao，chuanzhezhengshiyeba，zuiduozhinengrangyigeren“xiande”zixin，erfeizhenzhengzixin。“zuozaidiyipai”kenengshiyinweijinshi，“kuaisuzoulu”wangwangshiyinweishijianguannianbuqiang——zheixiedouyuzixinmeiguanxi。zuorenheshiqing，tiqianzuozulegongke，xiangbuzixindounan。zixinbudengyuziyiweishi，ziyiweishiderenzuizhongdouhuibeixianshizalan。zhongguorenshuo“chengshizaitian，moushizairen”，xifangrenshuo“shangdideguishangdi，kaisadeguikaisa”，mougecengmianshangdoushiyihuishier：buyaolihuiyunqi（gailaideshihoutaziranhuilai），zhongyaodeshizhuanxinzuohaogongke。

六、注意细节

suhuashuo，“xingjiakanmendao，waixingkanrenao”。dangwomenguanzhuyiyangdongxizugoujiudezhihou，jiuhuifaxianzijiyouru“kailetianyan”yiban，nenggoukandaode，kanqingchudeyuelaiyueduo。zaizijibixuzuodeshiqingshang，yidingyaobaochizhuanzhu；bujinyaozhuanzhu，haiyaozhuanzhuhenzhangshijian。zhiyouzheiyang，caiyounenglikandaogengduodexijie，caiyounenglizuozugongke，caiyounenglichubianbujing。henduoshihou，suowei“chenggong”zhibuguoshiyigezhongjianzhuangtai，“gengdadechenggong”caishitiaozhan。hushixijiederendoubingfeiguyi，zhishiyinweigongfuweidao；gongfuweidao，“zhongjianzhuangtai”zhihoujiushigengdadeshibai。

七、培养从容的态度

zoulumanyidian，zitaizirancongrong；shuohuamanyidian，shengyinxiaoyidianbierenyenengtingqingchu。danzheixiedoushixingshieryi，guanjianzaiyunaozibunengman。dongzuotaikuaiwangwangzhishiyinweinaozitaimansuoyixiangdetaishaobugouzhoudao。youyanjiangjingyanderendouzhidao，shuohuataikuaishijishanggengkenengshiyinweijinzhang。yueyounengliderenyuerongyicongrong，yinweitamendenenglizuyishitamenzhangkongjumian。congrongbushinenggoumofangde，shiyangchulaide——kaoshili。

八、关心身边的人

yigerenruhetigaozixinxinni？sheidouxuyaoshenbianderendezhichiyuguanxin，zhengrushenbianderenyexuyaotazhichi、taguanxinyiyang。yuhenduorenxiangxindexiangfan，pengyoutaiduo，bujiandeyidingshihaoshier。yinweiguanxinyigerenzhichiyigerendoushixuyaohuafeishijian，ermeigerenbukeyuyuedezhongjixianzhizhiyouyiyangdongxi——shijian。xiaoxinxuanzepengyou，yinweinijiangyutamenfenxiangnideshengming。meiyouzheiyangdetaidu，jiubuhuiyouzhenzhengdepengyou。youneimesanlianggezhenzhengpengyouderen，douhuibijiaozixin。

九、不要轻易追求完美

wanmeizongshihaode，danbingbuzongshinenggouzuodao。shishizhuiqiuwanmeidexiachangzhiyouyige：biaozhunyuelaiyuedi。shenghuozhezheiyangdelizibibijieshi，henduoshengnanshengnv（shengnanshengnv）jiushizheiyanglianchengde。xuehuizaizheigebuwanmeideshijielibuwanmeidishengcun，shiyizhongnandedezhihui。shenkelijie“buwanmeicaishichangtai”derencaikenengzuodao“buhuiwuweidizibei”。pingjienaixin，xiangxinjilei，zaijiashangzhengchangdezhishang，jiusuanzuobudao，yenengzuodaogenghao，hebiguofenqiangqiu？

十、尽量独立，承担必要的责任

youweizherenzheiyangshuoguo：“yigerendexingfuchengduqujueyutanenggouzaiduodachengdushangduliyuzheigeshijie”。zheijuhuabaohanzheshenkedezhihui。henduodeshihou，duliyiweizhewanzhengdichengdanbiyaodezeren；nenggouyunyongzijidenenglichengdanbiyaozerenderenbiranxiangduigengjiazixin。yigerenbunenggouduli，wangwangjiuhuilunweitarendefudan，meiyourenbutaoyanfudan，erbeitaoyanderenzenmekenengzixinni？zixinderendouzhidaoyigejiandandedaoli，zijishiziji，bierenshibieren；zijideshiqingzijiwancheng，zijidezerenzijichengdan。

suoyi，jianlizijidebanfa，jiushirenzhenduidaimeiyijianxiaoshi。fanshizijirenweiyinggaizuodeshiqing，bulundaxiao，douyaorenzhenduidai，batachulihao，shouxianjizijiyigehaodejiaodai，rangzijimanyi。