老公面对妻子有外遇怎么办，怎么做才是对的

 waiyudeqizilunliyounaxie？qiziyouwaiyuzenmeban？bansuizheshehuifazhandefazhanqushi，nvrenhenanrendeyingxiangliquxianggongping，youyudajiadeguannianmanmandifashenglexiweidehuaxuebianhua。chuguinanrenjinguanshijiaozhangyoudeshi，shubuzhichuguinvrenyeshisikongjianguandeshierle。suoyourendoushiyouyizhongzhuiqiuwanmei，bianshihuiquyuduitahaoderenaijin，rutongdishiyongjiazhiderenhuiwanggaoshiyongjiazhiderenaijin，gaoshiyongjiazhiderenyiranhuiwanggaoshiyongjiazhiderenaijin。zheibiaomingle，dangyigerenbianchengledishiyongjiazhi，neimaniwufaxiyinyigerendexin。waiyubeilaogongfaxianzenmeban？

 dangyigenanrenfajuelezishendelaopochuguile，kendingshiqinaowubi，haoxiangzizunzaoshoulebijiaoyanzhongdecaita，keshiruguonihenaizheiyinvxingdeqingkuangxia，nikendingbuhuihenta，nifandaoguaiziji。zenmecainengwanliulaopo，dangnanrenyingduiqizichuguizenmechulihao?

一、短期内开展冷暴力

 qiziyouwaiyuzenmeban？ruguonixifusilexinshiyaowaiyu，cikenilairenkeniyiqianduitadebuzuguanzhuhehulve，tazaoyishiwufaxiangyiqianneibanaizheni，youyunicishijinjinzaihelixingtafangqinideyuangu。ercishinixuyaozuodeshirangshuangfangdoupingjingxialai，zaiduanqineineikaizhanlengbaoli，bubiquzhaota，gengbuguidingtahuijia，nineiyangzuojinjinyizhongdishiyongjiazhidegerenxingwei。shubuzhizenmecainengbianhuanweigaoshiyongjiazhi，xiamiankaizhandierbu。

二 、展现高使用价值

 waiyubeilaogongfaxianzenmeban？zailengbaolideqingkuangxiabingbushishuoniduiquanbushierquanshilengbaoli，ninengjinzaozhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhi。zhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhidefangweiyouhenduo，nanshengnenggoushenqian、panyanyundongdengcijixingdezhutihuodong。rangzishenderichangshenghuoyuelaiyuefengfuduocaiqilai，xuanzhuanzishendelixiang，kuozhangshejiaoquan，rangxifuerhouhuilemeinengheniyiqiduguozheizhongxingfudeshiguang。jinguanninengjuedezheizhongshiquanshizailangfeishijian，keshishijishangquanshizaigenggaizheni，jinicongzhanxianzhongyuelaiyuegengchuse。

三、学习培训竞争者优点

 jinguanniyingduiqizichuguizheiyijianshijuedezizunbijiaoyanzhongcuolie，keshinizaoyizhujiangaibianxianzhuangderichangshenghuo，keshinifangfohuanshitihuibushanglingyifangyouyiqiefanying，tadexinhaoxianghuanshigensuijingzhengzhe。cikenigaisisuodeshixifuerdeyaoqiushisha，weihetazhixiaihejingzhengzhezaiyiqi，erbutiaoxuangenggaihouchusedenizaiyiqi，ninengxuexipeixunjingzhengzhedeyoudian，quqijinghua，zuoyigegengdongnvrendenanren。

 waiyudeqizilunli，buyaoweiqizichuguierqinao，jiaruniaitajiuwanliuta，bubidengshiqujiyucaichajuezijihuanshiaitade，shubuzhijiyuyicicidebaibaidewailiu。wanliulaopozuiguanjiandeshijinjinweiraozheercixiyin，haijideyicishangkezhong，fuhedashimaikeleigeshuoguo：“zaiwomennengxiangyouzuipingpingdandandeyitiandeqingkuangxia，shijishangdajiabenzhibianhuisuizheergenggai。”yinci bubixiaoqiaozishendeyigexiaogenggai，huichuxianfeifandehuode。