女人亮红灯怎么挽回婚姻

　　nvrenlianghongdengzenmewanhuihunyinzaiganqingzhanghezhong，meiduilingyibanzongyaojinglidafengdalang，youshihou，yishidechongdonghuocuxindayi，kenenghuishihunyinshenghuozheisouxiaofanchuanjijikewei。danqingjizhu，zhenqinghaosihaiyangzhongdezhilumingdeng，buguandafengdalangduoshao，doukeyizhiyinwomenzhaodaochukou。jiarunizhengmianlinzhehunyinshenghuodejiongjing，xiangyaotongguozuizhenzhideyujuquwanliunideqizi，neiyang，benwenjiushini“jiushengyi”。xiamian，rangwomenyiqitanxunneixienenggouchudongxinling、wanhuiganqingde“aidegaobai”!

　　yi、kaichangci：rencuo，zhenxinshiyidaoqian

　　1. “qinaida，duibuqi，wozhendecuole!”

　　zheihuakanqilaijiandan，queyouzhejudadeliliang。tazhijieertanchengdichengrennizijidebuzhengque，meiyoubandianyangaihehuibi。jilao，zhenchengshiwanhuiganqingdediyibu，yeshihenzhongyaodeyibu。

　　2. “womingbaiwozuijindegerenxingwei(huoyanci)shinishoushang，woshenganneijiuhezize。”

　　shijiqiangdiaonibuzhengque，rangtazhidaonimingbaizishencuozaina，neiyangtacainengkanjiannidechengxinhesikao。

　　3. “wocongmeixiangguowodexingweihuidaijinirucizhidadesunhai，wozhendehenhouhui。”

　　biaodanidekuijiu，rangtazhidaoniduitatongchushenyoutihui，nicaishizaifuyansaize。

　　二、共情力：怀恋过去，憧憬未来

　　4. “jidewomenjielehunneishihou，nishuoguodeyaoyiqibaitoudaolao，wodangshijiuanxiajuexin，yidingyaorangnichengweishijieshangzuixingfuderen。kexianzai，querangnishiwangle。”

　　genjuhuailianguoqudexingfushiguang，gouqitaduinidegongqingli。yucitongshi，shitakanjiannicengduizheifenaiqingdezhizheyujianchi。

　　5. “womenyiqizouguoderizi，chongmanzhehuanxiaoheyanlei，danmeiyicijiannan，womenshixieshougongdu。wojianxin，zheiciyebuliwai。”

　　nvrenlianghongdengzenmewanhuihunyinzhuzhongdajiagongtongduguodejuedifengsheng，rangtazhidaodajiazhijiandeaiqingyouchongzuderenxingshenceng，keyidiyuyiqiedafengdalang。

　　6. “woxiangxiangzhejianglai，dajiashouwanshouzaixiyangxiasansanbu，sunbeihuanraozhexiqian，neiyifenxingfukuailebingmanzu，shiwomenjinshengjiaodadexiangwang。wobuxiangfangqizheiyijianglai，gengbuxiangshiquni。”

　　gouleyigemeihaodemingtian，rangqikanjiannichongjingweilaiyuqidai，jiqitazaizheiyijianglaizhongdezhongyaodiwei。

　　san、renzhenfansi：zhaochuyuanyin，fuwuchengnuogenggai

　　7. “woziwofansileliangrendeguanxi，wofaxianzijizai(shijiwenti)shangzuodebugouhao，wohushilenideqingxuyuxuqiu。”

　　shijiqiangdiaocunzaidewenti，rangtazhidaonijiuyijingrenzhenfansi，erqiezhaodaowentidebenzhi。

　　8. “wobufouren，woyoushiguoyuzisizili，zhiguanzhuzijidexiangfa。dancongjintiankaishi，wohuinuligenggai，wohuigengjiazaihuni、tiexinni。”

　　renkezishendequedian，haixunuogenggai。jilao，xingweibiyancigengweizhongyao，danzhenzhideyancishixingweidezhujian。

　　9. “womingbai，xinlaiyidanshiqu，jiuhennanzaizhaodao。kewoyuanyongwodexingdong，yidianyididizaicihuodexinren。”

　　zunzhongshihunyinshenghuodezhongyaoqianti，zhongjianxinrenxuyaoshijianheqinfen。danzhiyaonixiangtouru，jiuyidingnenggouzaicihuodetadexin。