挽回咨询：和老公离婚怎么挽回婚姻

　　helaogonglihunzenmewanhuihunyinzaihunyinshenghuodetuzhong，youshihoudexiangfahuowuhuikenenghuipohuaibenlaidehexie，ranghunyinxianrukunjing。erwaiyu，zheiyihenyanzhongdepanbiangerenxingwei，yeshiduifuqiguanxidehuimiexingdaji。jibianruci，yirancunzaiwanhuiganqingdekenengxing。wenzhongzhiliyuweinintigongyitaochuguihunyindehuifushouce，bangzhunizaizhongjianxinrenheqinggandaolushangzhaodaofangxiang。

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　　1. chuguihunyinxiubudeliucheng

　　►了解外遇的实质

　　zuixian，womenyinggaishenkelijiechuguideshizhi。chuguishihunyinlidezhongyaokunjing，tashenshendishanghaidaobanlvdeaiqing，dongyaofuqizhijiandexinlaigenji。danshi，waiyubingbushibukeraoshu，youshihou，tashenzhijianghuichengweifuqiguanxilidedazhuanzhe，cujinbicizhongxinsikaobicizhijiandeqingxu，jinerzhaodaoduiganqingdezixinxinhereqing。

　　►认清和面对困难

　　yaoxiubuchuguihunyin，zhuyaozhiwushizhimianwenti，ganyumiandui，jinertaruxiubuzhilvdediyibu。chuguidexingcheng，yeyufuqizhijiangoutongjiaoliudepinfa、xinlaidequeshaojiqizishenxuqiudebunengmanzumiqiexiangguan。yiner，zaixiufuguochengzhong，biciwubishenrufenxiziyidegerenxingweiyutaidu。

　　►重建信任的流程

　　xiamian，shiwomentaolunzhongjianxinrendeliucheng。guanjianzaiyulingtinghelijie。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，qingtingshidajianxinlaidezhongyaoqianti。yingduibanlvdechugui，lingyifangkenengshenxiannaonu、xinhanyubuzhisuocuodegudi。zheishi，yongxinqingtingxiandeyouweizhongyao，takeyibangzhuwomenshenkelijielingyifangdejingdiyudongyin，jiangdiwuhuiyupianjian。

　　qicibaorongyukuanrong。baorongyukuanrongdoushixiufuhunyindezhongyaohuanjie。suiranyiwangdeshangtongwufamomie，danshitongguozhenchengdejiaoliu，womennengyitongtansuowentidegenyuan，bingxunqiujiejuefangan。baorongyukuanrongjiangshiwomenweichihunyinshenghuodejianguqiaoliang。

　　►复建协调机制

　　fujianxiediaojizhishixiubuchuguihunyindeguanjianyibu。goutongjiaoliu，zuoweifuqiguanxizhongdehexinyaosu，zaichuguishijianhoutongchangshoudaoyanzhongyingxiang。weilenengfujianyouxiaodegoutong，fuqiliangrenwubiyitongzijintouru，nulishixianyouxiaogoutongfangfa。zhuyaobaokuozhenxinchengyigoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandexiangfaheganshou，bingtongguoquanmianlejielaicujinbiciderenke。

　　►yitongxiubujihuadezhiding

　　gongtongshangdingxiufujihuayeshibukehuoquedejieduan。chuguihunyindehuifushiyixiangfuzaqiejianjurenwu，xuyaoshuangfangbuduandenulihewusifengxian。yiner，zhidingyifenbaokuoquelixingweiliucheng、shikebiaoheyuqixiaoguodexiufujihuashishifenzhongyaode。genjugongtongnulijihuadezhiding，fufukeyigengjiamingxiankandaobicizhijiandeqidaiyumubiao，jinergengyouxiaodecujinxiubuguocheng。

　　►qingganbiaoxianyushifangchulai

　　helaogonglihunzenmewanhuihunyinzaifujianqingganlianjiedeguochengdangzhong，qingganbiaoxianyushifangchulaixiandegewaizhongyao。bicibixutongguoshidangdefangfabiaodazijideqinggan，bingxuehuishifangchulaiyiwangdeshangtonghebuman。shidubiaoshuheshifangqingxu，youzhuyujianqingxinliyali，cujinqingganlianjiedejianshe。

　　►langzihuitoubingzaiyiqishenghuo

　　langzihuitoubinggongtongshenghuojiushifujianqingganlianjiedezhongyaoshouduan。genjuzhonghuishuxidedifang，fuqizhijiannenggouganshoudaogengduodeguanaihezhichi。zaizheigeguochengzhong，yitongdeshenghuopinzhijiangjinyibujiashenbicizhijiandeqingganlianjie。

　　►寻求专业协助

　　ruzaixiubuchuguihunyindaolushangpengdaonanti，xunqiuzhuanyexinlixuezixunshihuohunyinshenghuoguwendebangzhujianghuishizuimingzhidexuanze。tamennenggoutigongyouzhideyindaoyujianyi，zhutuidajiaxunzhaowentidebenzhibingzhidingqieshikexingdejiejuefangfa。

　　►提高婚姻生活新意

　　chucizhiwai，tigaohunyinshenghuoxinyiyeshifeichangzhongyaode。tongguodingqideqingzhuhuiheteshudejinianri，fuqizhijiannengjinyibuqianghuaqingganshangdelianjie，weihunyinshenghuozhurugengduodeshengmingliyuyiyi。