婚姻即将破碎该怎么挽回

　　hunyinjijiangposuigaizenmewanhuihunyinshenghuochanshengpanbianshiqingshibushishuohunyinhejiatingcihoujiumeiguanghui，quanshiheianzhiguangni?zhenduibeiguanzhuyizhederenlaijiang，yingduipanbianquebuzhonghuixianrudaodaonaonu，baochou，bugan，zenghendengbuhaodeqingxuzhong，laojuedecihouhunyinshenghuoyuelaiyuecaogaobiande。zhenduileguanzheeryan，hunyindebeipanshiyijianbuyukuaishiqing，huiyoushang，huitongchu，danzaitongchuyihouyaowenzishen，gaizenmechulizheijianshiqing，shifouyounenggougenghaodijiejuewentidefangshi。

　　youguanhunyinbeipanyihou，keyixiufuhaoguanlian，nenggourangnidehunyinshenghuozaixianwangrixingfu，nengfourangzishenhunyinshenghuobiandeyouqidai，liangrenshifouzhongguiyuhaodashihuaxiaoni?

　　dangrankeyile，shinenggouxunzhaorangxianghuzhijianguanliantigaodefangshi，haikeyirangpanbianbianchengliangrenzhongxinhuodezaishengdeyigezhuanzhediande。panbiancongtongkuchenglebicizhijianlajinjulideyigehaodejihui，shihuxianggenjuzhenshidexingfudangzhongfazhandekaiduan。

　　zenmenenggouzaikunanzhongxunzhaojiejuewentidebanfani?xuyaoxiufuguanxi，bixuwanchengzheijigefangmiandegongke，huoshidoushijiyunaxiedejichuzhishang，ruguolianshizhedeyongqidoumeiyoudehua，woyezhinengshenbiaoyihan，zheigeqishishigerendexuanzedelu，zhongshinigerendeyixiang，meiyigerenxuanzedelubutongleixingde。

　　1、xiufuguanxideshouyaotiaojianshi，waiyufangbixuwanbihunwaiyiqieqinmiguanxi，yishidaolejiaduizishendeshijiyiyizhiguanzhongyao。xiangyaoweizijidexingweifuze，nenggouweizijideshenghuochengdan，erfeiduobiliangrenguanxinanti。

　　xiufuguanxiyeshixuyaoyouchengyihexinxinde，yeshiyaoconghuigengshencengcidebixuzugoudenaixinquweijiebeichuguifangjingshenshanghaide。

　　waiyufangxuyaorangzijizijiconghunwaiqingguanxilijietuochulai，yebushiyigejiandandeshi，bingbushinishuofangkaishoujiunengfangshou，zhujianbushiyitian，wanbiyebushiyitiande，zheiyiguochengnixuyaojingguo：hunyinlidehushi，tanxunganqingjituo，ceshijiyu，daoqinggandejituo，beifaxianleqianneijiu，jiaolvbuandecuican，faxianzhihoubeizhizedekuijiuhebuan，duanlianrenbushezhiqing，neizaidonglidequexian，wailiqianche，daotihuiqinqingdewennuan，jiejuehaohunwailian，daolangzihuitoujianlixinrenguanxi。quanguochengaiguotongguodezhuanyerencaiyoushenshendiganshou，limianhenduofuzadeganqingkangzheng。

　　waiyufangbixujiandingzijixinyang，duizishendezheifenganqingshuowonengjianjuefenli，conglaimeiyouxiangguoduisunhairucida，duibuqi，worujinnenggouzuodianshenmeshinitongchujianshaoyidian，kanjianzheiyangdetongchu，wojiuxintongzhuihuimoji。tongguozijideyancibiaodazijijianqiangdeyizhi，xuanyongyouxiaodefangfalaiwanjiunimendehunyinxingdong，zheijiushirangbeichuguifangkanjiannidechengxin，xiangyaojiduifangyicijihui。erfeijizijidebanlvshuo：“bangwoyiduanshijianjiejueba。”zheijuhuaqiantaicijiushi“bangwoyiduanjiyuzaicishanghaini，wohenwugu。”yigerenchuguizheyaoshimeiyouwanqiangdeyizhiliquduanqingrendehua，jiunengjizijixuduodeyuanyinlaifuzhutishengzheiyangdeganqing。

　　liru：wohaihuigui，nibiejijiaole。yisishishuogaozhibeichuguifang，wolaile，niyejiubiejijiao，wohenzhongyao，nideshangtongwusuoweide。

　　waiyufangbixucongxinlirenshidaozijidexingweiduibeichuguizhezaochenglejidadesunhai，zijixiangweizijidexingweichengdan

　　2，beichuguizhebixujieshouwaiyukeguanshishiyijingfashengle，keguanshishifashengtongchubukeyibangzhunizhengjiunimendehunyin，bixucongtongchuzhongzhanxiaqu，buranxiufuhunyin，jiuxuyaoxuehuijiejuewentidefangshi，buranfangqihunyin，xiaosadezoukai。

　　duiyubeichuguizhedexinlinghaiyouhenduokunhuo，zongjielaishuoyouruxia：

　　l lingyifangpanbiandediyici，zeyiweizheyihoudouhuipanbian

　　l panbiandebianshi“eren”bunenghuodeyuanliangde

　　l panbianshibuaidewo，jiranbuaiwoyouhebiqinfenxiubu

　　l beichuguizhejiujuedezijishishouhairen，ganjuebeipanzhejiuyingdangxiadiyu，zaoshoumeiyigerendechize

　　l tayijingyoulewaiyu，zheiduanhunyinhaixingfuma?

　　l lingyifangyoulewaiyu，bicizhijianhaiyouaiqingma?

　　l lingyifangyoulewaiyu，jiushiwo“meiyoumeili”ma?

　　rendedanaobuduanlaoshihusiluanxiang，bapanbianbianchengyigecaogaobiandeshiqing，shiyouduoaiwenti，shirengepinzhinanti，shiaiqingbuzhongdenanti，deng，bachuguizhedangchengyige“fanzuifenzi”duidai，daizhezenghenkanshijianzishen。

　　hunyinjijiangposuigaizenmewanhuiyiqieyijianshidechanshengdoushiyoujijideyimian，jinguanpanbianduiyubeichuguizheshiyigebuhaodeshi，cunyouduisuochuguizheyizhongwuxingdeshanghai，rangbeipanzhechengdandaochuguixingweisuodailaidexiaojiqingxu，zaibuliangqingxudetuidongxiazhujianzhiyiziji，caiyihunyinshenghuo，kaishihuaiyirensheng，caiyiquanqiuganjuequanshiheiandeshijie，meiyouyidianguanghui。

　　ruguonishenchutongchuzhili，niyejiuwufakandaoshishizhenxiangsuoyou，fanershihuocongnizishenkanjiandeyigebiaocengbeihoudezhenxiang，nijiujuedeshizhenggebeihoudezhenxiang。

　　bixudaizheyiwenlailejieshiqingdezhenxiang?

　　jiujingzheiduanhunyinjinglileshenme?panbiandeshihuichuxian?shiwodewenti?huoshiwaiyufangnanti?huoshilianggerendeganqingfashengshenmeshinanti?

　　taweihexuyouzheizhongxingweini?weihexuanzewaiyuerbushixuanzelihunni?

　　daishangyanjiuwenti，dakainimenbicixindelvtu。

　　haixiangjixunimendehunyinlvtu，jiubixucongxintailizouchulai，shizijikeguankeguankandaiguanlian，zenyangjiejuelianxidenanti?

　　panbianjinidailaidesunhai，womenxuyaoshiniairenlejie，rangairenkanjiannidetongku，yaotabangzhunipingfu，tongshihaixuyaozhidaotadeyingduinideyongqihaipa。