挽回咨询：婚姻太苦怎么挽回老婆

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　　yixiashiqizhongyouxiaotujing，bangzhuzijiwanhuiaiqing，zhongxindianranaidehuoyan。

　　一、耐心倾听另一半的想法和感受

　　dangaichuxianliefeng，yaoxiangwanliuzhuta，womenyinggaifuzhuxingdong。erzuiguanjiandefangfazhiyibianshinaixinqingtinglingyibandexiangfaheganshou。yixiashuyuqizhongyouxiaotujingtinishiqiaidehuoyan：

　　naixinqingtinglingyibandexiangfaheganshou

　　pingdengjiaoliuzijideyaoqiuyuxiangfa

　　tanxungongtongaihao，tigaohudongjiaoliu

　　拉近关系，维持诚信

　　忘记往事，从头开始

　　genjuwaibuwangluoziyuantigaozijideyouhuoli

　　yongxintihuilingyifangbingbiaoshiaiyi

　　shangshuqizhongfangshidoukebangwomenwanhuiganqingbingshitazhongxindianranjiqing。zheiqizhongdiyizhongfangfa——naixinqingtinglingyibandexiangfaheganshou，gengjiashigenbensuozai。zairichangshenghuozhong，henduorendouhuihushilingyifangzhenzhenzhengzhengdexiangfaheyaoqiu，erzhizhuzhongzijideyaoqiu。yiner，zaiwomenxuyaowanhuiganqingshi，yaoshikebaochiqingxingdetounao，naixinqingtinglingyifangdejianyihekanfa，lejietamendeganshou，bingjijizhudongdiweiqichuangzaomeihaoshenghuodeshenghuohuanjing。

　　二、加重彼此之间的沟通，提升相同点

　　ganqingshiyigexuyaochixutouruheweihudeyigeguocheng。ruguonijuedeaidehuomiaokaishimanmanmiediaoshi，bufangchangshixialieqizhongyouxiaotujinglaiwanhuiganqing。

　　二、加重彼此之间的沟通，提升相同点

　　yigeyouxiaodegoutongfangshijiushixiufuheqianghuanimenzhijiandeganqingdeguanjiansuozai。changchangxianliaohejiaoliuyouzhuyuzengqiangqingganyulajinguanxi。quanmianlejienidelingyiban，lejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou，zheiyeyouzhuyudajiagenghaodilejieyuzhichibicizhijian。

　　zairichangrichangshenghuo，nenggouhuhuanchuangyixiangfakanfa，erqietantaogongtongdegerenaihao。tongguojubanyixiegongtongdehuodonghelvyou，dajiakeyitishengxiangtongdianheqinmigan。zheiyouzhuyutigaobicizhijiandeguanlianyuqinggan。

　　yidingbuyaorangbuyukuaixintaixunzhaozishengmanyanturangceng——weichikaifangkaixindeqifen，duoyifenlijie，duoyifenkuanrong，duoyixiehuanxiaosheng。zheiyangkeyibimianfenqihewujie，tigaoxianghuzhijianlijieyuxinlai。

　　三、造就意外惊喜，能让对方觉得被关注

　　hunyintaikuzenmewanhuilaopo，ruguogandaoganqingyijingqiaoqiaodecongwoshenghuozhizhongtaozou，huozheshiniyijingshiquaiqingdehuomiao，neimezheigezenyangwanliuni?zheilihaiyouqizhongyouxiaotujingnenggoubangnishiqiaidehuoyan。qizhongzhiyishichuangzaoyiwaijingxi，nengrangduifangjuedebeiguanzhu。

　　bulunshizaipingdanwuqiderilitou，haishiteshujierili，weibicizuoyixieyiliaozhiwaideshier，huishiaidehuoyangengweixiongxiongliehuo。liru，dangnidelingyibanhuidaojiashi，nikeyijita/tazhunbeita/tazuixihuandejiankangyinpinhuotesexiaochi，huoshitita/tazhunbeiyigelangmanerjingmeidewanfan。huoshi，zaiduifangdeshengrihuoshiliunianrilailinzhiji，ninengtita/tazhunbeiyifenteshudeliwu，zheigeliwuyingdangshihehuta/tapinweide，dantongshiyechongzuxinqiheyoutedian。

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　　zuizhuyaodeshi，zaojiuxinxidexingweixiangyaonirenzhenqutiexinlingyifang，guanzhuta/tadeyaoqiuhexihao，bingfuzhushijian。dangnidelingyibankanjiannideyongxinheduita/tagaoduzhongshishi，aidehuomiaobianhuiranqi，nimenzhijiandeguanxijiuhuigengjiamiqieyumeihao。