婚姻亮起红灯怎么挽回

　　hunyinliangqihongdengzenmewanhui，zheigefangfakanshangquhenyoudadaoli，mouxieqingkuangxiayequeshiyouxiao，dankendingshibunengdangzuowanliulianxidejinkeyulv。fangshiyaoduicunzaidewentikaolv，erbushimangmushengbanyingtao。

　　第1个坑：逃避法。

　　yizhongshiyouxuyaodetaobi。fangshijiushigenjuxiaotuilaihuanheguanxi，shiduifangrenshidaozijidebiyaoxing。liruwaichu、zouniangjia。youxierenqueshishidengdaolingyifangshiruo，danzheiyaomejiushilingyifangbenshenjiushiyinnixingliyi，yaomejiushilingyifangmeifazishiqilixiangyaonijiyulaodongjiazhi。

　　juedaduoshuzhuangkuangshishenmeyangzide?

　　lingyifangzhenduinidelikaigandaofeichangqingsonghenshushi，shenzhiduiyunidelikaigandaojidong。

　　nicaicailingyifangtichulihunxiangyaohuodeshenmeyangdejieguo?bianshiyunifenlidejielun。nizhudonglikai，qiahaomanzutadexuqiu。

　　yizhongshixiaochenxingtaobi。jiandandeshuojiushizuohaozijideshi，baochilianghaozishi，bazijidangshihaigang，nanshengdangzuochuan，xiangxinzhenanrenzaiwaimianzaizenmelangchizaohaihuihuijiale。

　　zheishiyizhongdianxingdedapoxinlizhuangtai。

　　zuihuaidedasuandaodishishenmeni?zaiwaibianwannile，zhidaobeixiganshiyongjiazhibixuyanglaoqingkuangxiaxiangqileni。

　　duobiwujiyushi，zhinengjileigengduodefenqi。yushanghunlianwenti，yidingyaojijijiejue，buyaoziqiqirendeqidailingyifangxiangtonghoulimahuiguotou。

　　ruguonifenshouwanhuizhongyushanglehenduowenti，quewulijiejue。neimenikeyilijiqinglaoshiliaoyiliao，shuoyishuonimendeguanxizhuangkuang，bangzhulaoshibangnifenxilingyifangxianglihundegenbenyuanyin，jiaodajiamashangniuzhuanjushidesilu，shoubashouzhidaoniwanliu。

　　di2gekeng：mangmugenfengtonglixinfa。

　　tonglixin，youbeibianchengshenru、huanweisikao，shitongguorenbenzhuyililunchuangbanrensuochanshudedingyi。gongqingnengli，zhideshiyizhongnenggoushenrubierenzhuguanshijie，lejiechanpinganzhideshuiping。youzhegongqingnengliderendoukeyizhanzaiduifangdejiaoduganshoushangdulisikao，lejiebierendeganshou，zengjin2gerenzhijiandeguanxi。

　　keshirendebenxingquanshizisizilide。meigerendouxiwangtarennenglijiezishendebeiju，manzuzijiyaoqiu，quebuyuanqutonglixinlingyifangdetongchu。

　　dangniqutonglixinlejietashi，lingyifangxiwangdeshininenggoumanzutadexuyao，jibianshisunhainizishendeliyi。

　　julishuoming，lingyifanghunwailianxianglihun。nilaigaozhitaninenglijietazaihunyinlidebiequ，yenenglijietaweishenmezheimezuo。

　　xinlishangyouyigegainianjiaozetaxinlizhuangtai。ruguoninenglijietacuowu，erqiechengrenzijibuzudeshihou，tahuibazijibuzhengquedangzuolisuodangran，keshijiangnidebuzhengquekuoda。

　　neinihuidedaoshenmeyangdechengji?

　　lingyifanghuijiangfuqiganqingpoliedezhuyaoyuanyintuidaonishenshang，qiuqiunimanzu。

　　hunyinliangqihongdengzenmewanhui，hunyinliangqihongdengzenmewanhui，yiweidetonglixinwanjiubulehunyinshenghuo，hainengrangduifangbanidangzuowogua。hunyinwentihou，dajiashuangfangshiboyiguanlian，nilijiebaorong，zhihuirangzishenlunluoweiguanliandiwei。

　　tonglixinkeyiyongma?keyong，danshidegenjushijiqingkuangyingyong，bukeyidangzuowanliudeguanjianzhanlvefangzhen。

　　di3gekeng：meiyouyiyitigaofa。

　　ninyoumeiyoutingshuoguoneiyangdehua：

　　“zishenjiazhibiangao，lingyifangziranhuibeinixiyinzhu。”

　　“zuijiadewanliushihaohaoaiziji。”

　　“ruguonizugouaizijishi，bierenjiuhuiaizheni。”

　　zheiyangdehuazaitedingchangheyouxiao，keshizaidaduoshuqingkuangxiazhiyoudangzuolizhijitangfushi。