hunyinposuizenmewanhuizuihao,zaiganqingzhanghezhong,nanmianhuichuxianxiongyongpengpaideqingkuangxia。youshi,yibuxiaoxin,henyoukenengjiuyaolaoposhengqile,naizhinaodaolelihundechengdu。zheikeruheshihaoni?biezheji,zuoweizimeitipingtaiqinggandashi,wojintianxiaobianjiulaijiaodajiaruhewanliumiji,rangnimendehunyinzhichuanzaiciyangfanyuanhang!
一、看清现况,理性分析

zuixian,danglaopotichulihunshi,niyidingyaobaochilengjingxialai,buyaojinghuangshicuo。yaojizhu,buzhizhewuwei,yuefazaizheigeshihou,niyueshiyaolizhihebaochiqingxing。
找到问题的本质
nvpengyoushengqilihun,jueduibushiyishibanhuierdeshi。niyaohaohaodehuixiangyixia,xianzaiyoumeiyouzuoshenmerangtabuyukuaideshiqing,huoshishifouyouzhangqixinghulveduifangdeganshou。shigongzuoyalitaidahushilejiazhong,huoshipoxizhijianjiaolvbuanshinizaizhongjianjintuiliangnan?zhiyouzhaodaowentidebenzhi,cainengshibangongbei。
评定婚姻生活的情况
chukaizhaochuyuanyin,womenhaixuyaokeguanxingpingguyixiadajiahunyinshenghuodeqingkuang。nimendeganqingjibenruhe?youmeiyouhaizi?bicizhijiandejiazhongshifouyunxunimenjixuzaiyiqi?zhongzhongyinsudouhuiyingxiangniwanliuchenggonggailv。
二、真诚道歉,表示爱意
zhaodaonanti,yepinggulehunyinqingkuang,jiezhejiushixingweideshike。diyibu,jiushiweilexiangxifuzhenxinchengyizhiqian。
致歉要具体
biejuedeyiju“zhendeduibuqi”jiunengjiejuede。zhiqianyaojuti,yaoshuochunicuozaina,weishenmecuo,baokuonizhihouruheshezhi。liru:“xifu,wozhidaozijijinqiyinweigongzuomang,hushilenideqingxu,bingmeiyoupeiniqukannixihuankandedianying,doumeiyoutinifendanjiawu。duibuqi,woyihouyidinghuigai,xiwangninenggouqingyuanliangwo。”

表示爱意
hunyinposuizenmewanhuizuihao,rencuodeyucitongshi,haixuyaobiaoshuniduilaopodeaiyi。gentashuoninyouduomedezaiyita,duomedeaixizheiduanganqing。liru:“xifu,woxihuanni,woshizhendebuyaolikaiwo。wodehaizihaizheimexiao,taxuyaoyigewanzhengdejia。wokeyiweileniyuxiaohai,laigaibianziji,qufendourangzheiduanhunyinbiandeyuelaiyuehao。”
三、聆听需求,满足要求
zhiqianheqingyijinjinwanliudediyibu,gengzhongyaodeshiyaolingtingxifudexuqiu,dadaotayaoqiu。
用心倾听
jixifuyigeshuohuadejihui,rangtabaneixinqiangliebumanhenanguodoudaojinqu。bubiqieduanta,bubibianbo,yebuyaobianbo。nizhiyaorenzhendeting,youshihoujiyuyixiekendingdeyanshenhuoshidiandiantoubiaoshiniting。
满足要求
tinghouxifudexuqiuhou,nixuyaozixikaolvyixia,taxuyaoshishenme,nikebukeyimanzuta。liru,tayexuyuanniduopeibanta,duotiliangta,huoshixiwangninengdanfuqigengduodejiatingyiwu。zhiyaoninenggoubaozheng,jiuyidingyaojinlidemanzuta。
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