如何让一个人回心转意

　　ruherangyigerenhuixinzhuanyi，xiubuyinsunhaiguoshenerzaochengdehunyinwentibixuzhenxinshiyi、reqinghechixubuduandeqinfen。yixiashuyushijiqieshiyongdewanjiuliucheng，ronghelelejielaopotihui、zhongjianxinrenhetigaolianxidehexinfangfa：

　　1. 认真反思并认错

　　lixingfenxisunhaidegenbenyuanyin，bulunshihulve、zhengzhi、panbianhaishiqitagerenxingwei。mingquezijibuzhengque，fangzhibianbohuotaobizeren。

　　zhenchengdaoqian，luoshidaoshiqing，liru“wozhidaozijineiyicihushinideqingxushinifeichangshiwang，duibuqi”。fangzhichangyongde“zhendeduibuqi”，rangtaganshoudaonidechengyi。

　　2. 聆听对方的情绪与需求

　　jijizaojiuanquankongjian，gulitabiaodaganshou，liru“nikeyigaosuwonideguandianma?wohenxiangting”。lingtingdeshihoubuyaoqieduanhuojiqiebiaoshu，biaoxianchulerenzhihetonglixin。

　　ruherangyigerenhuixinzhuanyi，liuyiduifangdeqingxushujuxinhao，lirulengmohuotaobihenyoukenenglaiyuanyumeiyouanquanganhuoxinhan，changshizhanzaitadeshijiaotihuitadetongku。

　　3. 用实际行动证实更改

　　yijusunhaideshijiqingkuang，caiyongshentilixing。liru，ruguoyinweihulvesuodaozhidesunhai，jijiguihuashijianpeizheta，canjiataguanxindeshiqing(ruyiqizuofan、kantaxihuandezongyijiemu)。

　　xiaoyouchixubuduandexingweidashierkongdongdefuwuchengnuogenggaoxiao，birumeitianfayitiaoguanzhuxinxi、bangzhufendanjiawudeng，zhujianfujiantaxinlai。

　　4. 复建亲密感和认可

　　congxijiezhujianxiubuhunyinguanxi，liruxiufurichangdeshentijiechu(rushouqianshou、xiangyong)，danshizhongshitajiezougan，fangzhirangtajuedegongzuoyali。

　　weichitoumingheyizhi，lirufenxiangzijiderichangfenpei、zhenchengzijideguandian，rangtajuedebeizhongshihezhongshi。