婚姻是什么?如何拯救婚姻？

xianrujin90houlihunzhujianzouqiangdeshidai，xuduofufuyouyuyizhenzizaiqitoushanglihunle，yihouyouhuihenxiaochen。yuanyiwanjiuhunyin，wanliulianren，youyucongxinlieryan，tamenbushixiangyaofenlide。nanaxielaijiejiunidehunyinni?ranghuazhenqingganjianjiandiduinishuo。  hunyinshishen me?hunyinwentixintaizixunyouyongma?

1.不太好，说清晰

badajiadenantibaifangzaizhuomianshangshangqu，jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaonideduifangjiujingshishenmeyuangupeinifashengzhengzhi，neidajiadenantizhongjiushiquchuli。yaoxiangchulihunlianwenti，gaijinfufuxianghuguanxi，jiubanantishuoqingxi，zhaodaojiejuefangan。jiarujiniyihuo，huazhenqinggantiyinichengzhidibiaoshunideyaoqiuhezaodongbuan，bunengyongweixiehuozeguaideyudiao，neiyangnideduifangjiuhuichangkaixinfei，peinigonghua，dajianenggouyougengqiangdegoutongjiaoliushijixiaoguo。jiarujinjinyixinmaiyuan，baweimanbiexinli，neijiushimeiyoushijiyiyide。

2.lingtinglingyifangdejianyi

hunyinwentizixunyouyongma?dangliangrenzuozhelaigoutongjiaoliudeneishihou，nikeyizuodeshizhenshikaiqizishendezi，yongxinyongxintingta/taneixindeniantou。wulunduiyucuo，bubijiqiebianbo，xiantingta/tabahuajiangwan，lizailingyifangdeguandianquxiangzhe，duojianlingyifangkaolvdao，woyehuigaoqingchuta/tadexinlitihui，woyehuiyoudalianglejie。

3.爱和了解

hunyinshishenme?airenshisha?jiushishuonenggoupeiniyibeizi，peinixiangsuiyishengdeairen。kandaiduifang，huoxuyaoxiai，duinideduifangyunxuqingyi，ranglingyifangtihuidaonidezhenxin，lianrenzhongjianduoyidianjinmidegerenxingwei，liangrendeqinggancaiburongyisuizhishijianbianqian。zhenduita/tadezuofa，jibianneixinyouyihuoheweiman，nihaiyaobaozhenglejie、kuanrong。huazhenqingganxiangjiaruneiyang，hunlianwentidaziranhuijiangdi。

4.新的起点

 hunyinwentixintaizixunyouyongma?xiangnideduifangbaozhengzishenkeyigaiguozixin。fuwuchengnuolehaiyaoqueshibaozheng，zheibudanjiushinide1gexindeqidian，doushidajiaqinggandexingangkaishi。yuanyiwanhuiganqing，jiejiuzheixiehunyin，haiyaoqueshifuzhushijian，ranglingyifangjiandaonideqinfenhegenggai。