做好这五点，情感专家教你用婚姻情商挽回婚姻

 hunyinzhong，yixiefufujingchangyihuo：shibushiaiqinglaidaohunyinjiubidinghuibiansuan，bubianjinjinlinshi?shifoudangshilianaidetianmei，baitouxielaodaobaitoudaolaodexinxin，doujinjinlianggerenbuchengshuqidehuanxiangshijie?haoxiangbuguanfufudangshiaideduoshen，huozhelianggerenbiaozhunzenyangyouyi，shoudaoshiduoshaowenhuajiaoyu，chuzainaxiediwei，ruguotaruhunyin，shirijiufanguoyuexiaxiao，guoquzhuduoqingkuai、yukuaihekaolv，zhongjiuhuibeidanwang?ruhewanhuihunyin？ qingganwanhui zenmeban？

 hunyinjingyingdequebuyi，yuanbenjiushishuo1gedachuti，zibianliangduo，qizhang，henlingsui，youfeichangrongyiqianyifaerdongquanshen，hexiuyangxiaohaixiangtong，xiangkaizhanfengxianguankonghenjiannan。wojuedeyulaiyujishirendouguanniandao，hunyinbixuyunying，tamenyikaishijindaohunyinshi，yehuipingzheaihezizuo，jinxiaoshenwei，baochizhebiaocengshangdehemu，danshijianjiule，huochuxianleyixiezibianliang，zhongguifeichangrongyipulunanti。yinciyouderenguoduanrenqitunsheng，yiburennai，hanchangxintai，ganshoukuguoshizongyoulekaichangchangshuodeyihuo，juedehunyinjingyingmeiyouguilvxingkexun，naizhisuanchu“hunyinshiganqingdemuzang”deyiju。

zheiyidianer，kanqilaitongsuyidong，queshijiaonanbaozhengde。

(3)jijixintai：yunyongxintaikaolvzhuguanyinsu

 renmendeyiqiegerenxingweiquanshizaixintaiqingkuangxiakaizhande，xintaishirenmengerenxingweideyuandongli。qingshanggaoderen，mingbaizenyangzhengqueyindaozishendegezhonggeyangxintai，qudidazishenzhuiqiuwanmeidezongtimubiao。

liru。nidelaogongyizhimangliugongzuozhong，meiyoushijianpeizhenihexiaohai，niguidingguo，quezongbei“fuyanleshi”leshi。

qingshangdiderenfeichangrongyishenxianxiaojiqingxu——

ziwohuaiyi(tashifoubuaiwole?);

caiyi(shifouzaiwaibianyouhunhouchuguile);

duilimian(naoren，zhiwen，chadianhua，chaweixinliaotianjilu，caozongchumen)……

 gaoqingshangderen，youyuzhidaoyincixinxin，youyuxinxinyinciyouguishugan，zuoshifandaohuimingbaizishenjili，jiusuanshipengdaoburuyideshi，yehuimingbaizishenjili(diaozhengqingxu、shandongzishendefanmianxintai)，yongjiejuekunnandeshijiaoquxuanze——yincikaolvdaodeshi“zenyangqiadangderanglaogongmanmantishengduijiazhongdezijintouru”;

 liruxianhaowuyiwenlaogongzaijingjishang、qingyishangduijiazhongdenuli，suihoujiashangyidiudiubiequdexintaigenlaogonggoutongjiaoliu，“zhangfumeirigongzuozhongdaoneimawan，queshitaixinku，nannanjinqixuehaofayanle，bengchudediyiweicijuranshifuqin，heshinilaijiaota，rangtayaowomuqin?”

(4)huanweisikao：lejieta，yichaoguowuyishilianjie

 shangwenxushu，xuduorenxiguanxingyijiduren，zaiwuyishilishipianzhongyuzishende，yincifenbianjigerenxingweiyincishizisizilide，jilingyifangdetihuishi“buzaiyi，buzhongshi”。neiyangdepinciduole，huxiangjuedelingyifangmanbujiangli，zhangciyiwang，liangoutongjiaoliujiushengle，meiyicijiuzhiyoushangrendehua、lengbaoli、tuisang。zheileichoulvdeshiduole，jiusuanjiazhangliduanyekeyicuihuimeiduanjiankang。

 fanguolai，jiarunengduolizailingyifangshijiaokaolvdaoshier，tebieshizaishilizailingyifangderenwujiaosequxiangxiangtadetihui，lejietadeganqing，neimalingyifangxuduogerenxingweidouyibuwufalejie，niyejiuzhiruheyingduisuanshiyouyiyupengyouguanxiweihubaoyangde。

 zaiwangshangyiqianyouyigenantizaochengledajiaqiangliefanxiang，“weihexuduorenningkezuozhecheneifaleng，doubuxiangyaomashanghuijiale?”，shangbianyouyigehuiyingkaiqilegongmingdian：“xuduoneishihouyinweiwobuyuanxiacheshi，youyuneijiushi1gefenjiexian。lakaiqichechemennijiushishuoyouyanjiangcu、shibaba、shidaerzi、shizhangfu，keshibingbushinizishen;qicheshang，zijiqicheshangxiangananjingjing，chouzhiyan，zheiyishentiguishuyuzishen。”

 lizaibuyiyangshijiaojiandaodefengjingshibuyiyangde。neimapengdaozheileixiabanlehuijialehoubukenduoshuohuadeairen，dangnizhiwen“ruheneimawancaihuijiale!”，jianghuinijuedeyouyujiaolvbuanerguanzhu，danzailingyifanglaikanjiushishuoyueshuli、shijiayali、xiangwaitui。

 lizailingyifangjiaoduguanchadehua，ninengshixiabuyongshuoguoduo，tahuizishenbangzhukaitaiyongcan，suihouguohouyaohaohaodixiangzhe，daodishinaerjilingyifangneimadadegongzuoyali，shiyuyanbeiyapo，shiyiqianmaiyuanjiazhongmeiyouqian、tabuzubenling，shipoxizhijianzhengchaotahuinanzuo……yizhiyuyaozheiban“zibaoziqi”。

(5)tishengziji：renjijiaowangnenglidoushiqingshangzhishangdezhuyaobiaoxian

 renjijiaowangnengli，shizijishiyongjiazhidefanying，doushiqingshangzhishangdefanying。juedaduoshurenrenweirenjijiaowangnengliweihaidejinjinchuruzhichangjingkuang，quebuzhidaozhenduihunyinjingyingdoushiyouweizhongyaode。

 “weishenghuo、shejiaoquanzi、bangonghuanjingchedimeiyoubingji，dangbingjidedianguoshao，bicixinlideqiyueshuwufachuangjianhuoshijiangu，jiuchanshengbushangzheizhongxiangjinlianqingfalvfaguidexiaoyonglaijibanhexiandingrenmen……biciwuxingzhongdeyueshulichuangjiandeyuegao，waiyudegailvjiuhuiyuedi。”

 hunyinbidingqianshedaoxianghudeyuanshengjiating、pengyou、lingdaoganbu，jiaruliangrendeshejiaoquanzinenggengduofangmiandezhonghe，jiangyouyiyuhunyindepingwen;meishenmebingjinaizhiyulingyifangshejiaoquanzijiaoe，dangfufuchanshengmaodunshi，jiufeichangrongyinongqiaochengzhuole。zhengshiruci，tigaozijiderenjijiaowangnengli，mingbaizenyanggenbuyiyangrenwujiaosederengoutongjiaoliujiaowang，duihunyinjingyingdoushihenguanjiande。

 liruyimingnvren，jiarupingchangyujiapojiagongguanlianyouliang，zhifencungan、donglijie、bujiaobuzao;yulaogongxianghupenyou，bingqieyonghupingjiayouliang，shi1geyouzhihuixingdenvxing;yulaogongyikuaiercanjiaguotadegongsilvyou，lejietademouxiepengyou，bingqieyinxiangyouliang……zheizhongguanlianzaidajiadefuqiguanxichuxianxiaoweijishi，shicujinhehaodezhongyaonengliang，youyurenchangyoucongzhongxiaoying，danzhoubianderendouganjueninhao，neimayaoshidajiazhongjiandenantibingbushiweifandaodedixiande，tadoushixinlibangnikaizhanhelixing——tajinjinyouyu……caineiyang，zhongjiupingchangtashihenhaodeziji。huoxu，zheizhiheshixiaofenqi，tangruozaoyinaoliyi、weifandaodedixian。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui？huashuohuilai，renjijiaowangnengliyebingbushiyuegaoyuegaode，tebieshizaizhenduinvxinglaijiang。nvxingrenjijiaowangnenglitaigao，huirangtadenanshengjuedezaodongbuan，“haoxiangyizhijiaojihua”，weifangzhidailvmaodefengxianxing，tahuibuyouzizhuzuochuxiandingnigongjian，naizhihuijiangdiduilaopohexiaohaidezijintouru，zheizhenduijiazhonghemushijiqibuliangyingxiangde。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui？xieleneimaduo，wojuedezuiguanjiandeneirongzhibuguoshi，hunyinjiaowang，shuohuazuoshiyaoyouhuanweisikao，zizunxinbingzunzhongbieren。huoxu，shuoqilaifeichangrongyizuoqilainan，renxinlishiduoshaodouliuzhelijizhuyi，dan，suoshudefangshibingbuyiweizherenrangyurangbu，jinjinyiquzhedefangfaquchaoguohunyinxingfukuailedemudi，gechudiaozheileiweiquqiuquandeniantouqugongjian，dajiadeganqingzaishiguangdeqingxixia，jingjiubushuai。