婚姻中要计较得失吗？如何挽回感情？

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一、情感里是沒有是多少之分的，必须两人相互的勤奋

wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zaiqingganlibiannulishifenbuqingshiduoshaode，zainijuedeniduilingyifangdenulixuduodeneishihou，yiqilingyifangyehuiduijinixiangjindeniantou，ruguonibuduanquguidinglingyifangdeneishihou，nishibushixiangguo，shifoulingyifanghaikeyibuduanquguidingni，neimadangliangrendouhuichixudeguidinglingyifangdeneishihou，neimadajialiangrenzhongjianyoumeiyoushenmeni?nulishifenbuqingshiduoshaode，meizheifennuliquanshiniganxinqingyuanquzuo，bubiquzaihusheiduosheishao，youyumeiyouduibixing，nikeyixuehaodeshirangzishendenuliduidajiadeqingganyouyi，nenggou shidajiadeqinggantiwenjiujiuxingle，neimaneiyangzaininulideneishihouwoyeburongyiquzaihule。

二、学好立在另一方的视角独立思考，让自身的努力最该

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