分手后怎么挽回前任：有效情感挽回该怎么做

 fenshouzhihoujibenshangmeigerendouyoutongkugan。neixinyuanyizhuangxiugeduanzheileixinlidemeifaqingchudeshangxin，keshifandaohuikuaisukuosan，weiyidechulifangfashilingyifangfanhuizishendeshenpang。fenshouhouzenmewanhuiqianren?youxiaoqinggan☞ wanhui gaizenmezuo?

一、分手后怎么挽回前任：有效情感挽回该怎么做

fenshouhouzenmewanhuiqianren?youxiaoqingganwanhuigaizenmezuo?shijishang，wanhuiyou2geqiantitiaojian：zheishibukehuoquede：

 zuixianshitayiranhuanshiduijiniqinggan，tayiranaizheni，congmeigenggaixiangfa。qici，taduinanpengyouxintaidegenggaitahuidadong，zuiguanjiandeshi，bubirangtadenghoutaizhangqi。

 jiarutafenlihounenglejietadexintai，tajiuhuilejie，cishitahenjianghuihuixinrusihuiyinaichenghen，worenweitabuxiaodezenyangaixisuibianxuehuifangxiatahuibukaixin，tahuiyuelaiyueshifenchenlunhexiaochen。zuichu，zheijinjinmeitiandeyoushang。zhihouyexuhuijiejiuhemenjiuhuanghuangbukezhongri，zhengshuobaile‘aimodayuxinsi’。

 zuizhongtahuishiluoerchouqi。youshangzhihou，tatongchangyuelaiyueshierbujian，yincibubitahuidenghouzhangshijian，bubizongdianjizhetahuijijidixiatou。youyunanshengyoushihougengfeichangrongyizaoshousunhaibingqiebuyuanyingdui，tapazaidubeinipaijihuijuejiuqueshimeifachengdanerwanquanbenkui。

 dangtafenlishi，taganjuezishizhizhongwangbudiaoshi，zheihaihuiyoudianerxingdong。jinguantahenpashuo“womenhehaoba”，xintengnishilingerqiemeiyouqidai。keshi，congbiedecengmiannenggoukandechu：zaizheiyineishihou，ruguoniweichilizhi，wuxulengyanlengyuyanlidajijifengtajiuxing。

 zaizheiyineishihou，ninengfamouxiewenhaodeduanxiaoxi，huoshininengxuyixunzhaozhoubiandegezhonggeyangwuqudehuatitaolunlaitaohaoni。yiner，deyishuomingtahenpobujidaideyuanyihehao，ninengxiangqi“qinaidede，kuaidianerhuiyingwo”，wonengdenghou。tajianghuihuigengweitongku，dantabuyuanlijishuochuqu。dangnikanshangqushifenwuli，ninengyongfengqudexintailaibiaoda“hei，nihaijidewoma?”

 tatingjianlezheizhongkuijiuhezheizhongfadia，neixindianjizhe：“laikanwogengdanyou，taxiangyaozhaoliaowo，wowubibawojihuicaidui。”suihou，jibiannibudui，tayehuijijirenkezishendebuzhengque。nizhibixutanbainidaoshihouburongyizaiduinidashenghanjiao，youyutahuijinisangshicaozongerqiehaowuyiwenhuiquebao。

 dangniqueshifahuole，woyeburongyineimajiji。tahuishizhongduinifahuo，burongyilianluoni。suihouniyingdangjijiyutalianluo，erbingbushishuomingtahuinanguodeshishizaitaijueqing。ninengxuanyongzhiwendekouqizhongduitashuo‘zheiyiduanshijianweihebulianluowo?’，tayidinghuishuo‘jiushinitidefenshouzenmeyang?rujinhaiguaizijile’。

 suihoutashuo，“e，fenshoujiufenshouba，nandaoshuoniyongyuanbuzhidaozheiyinvshengchangyouxiaopiqima?niqueshipaoxialewo，”suihoutachouqishuotapengshangle。zaizheiyineishihou，tahaowuyiwenhuinaotou，ganjuenvhaidexinsihennanlejie。huoxutaqueshixiangyuwofenshou，suihoutagangkaishihongren。shijishang，zheijinjinnijizijizhaoloutibale。zainayihou，jinjijinliangbuyaoshuofenshousunhaita

 ruguonideyoushangjibenshangshiluoshi，qingxuhaowuyiwenhenbutaihao，nijianghuiburongyijuqinideshoujishang，yebuyuantongdianhua。cishi，nidechengxinshifenguanjian，ninengdadongta，yincibuguanzainaer，nidoushilijichuxianzaitayanqian，tahuijuedenanyizhixinde“bushiwotouyunyanhualeba”。

 suihoutazoujinta，jiletayigezhenxinshiyidexiangyong，shuo：“wocuowu，renmenweilaiburongyizaidajiadououle。”nidenanguohuibeinidelijikuanweisuodadong，renwei“weilaibixuyingshuoxienaxie，yibunaonuta，woqueshibukeyizaisangshitale”，suihoulaolaodijinbaota。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhuiqianren?youxiaoqingganwanhuigaizenmezuo?qingganshijingbuzhusuibianshuofenshoude。zaidiaojieyihou，wogailejiezenyangyubierengoutongjiaoliu，erqiegengweishuxindijiaowang。

 huoxu，fenshoudoushifenxuduozhuangkuangde。bingbushiquanbufenshoudepenyoudouheshizheizhongqingkuang。buguanzhuangkuangzenyang，jiaruwobushizhe，woyezhongjiuburongyilejiejieguo。