挽回爱情秘籍：说分手之后怎么挽回

 shuofenshouzhihouzhihouzenme wanhui ?maodunzairenjijiaowangzhongshishifenpubiande。keshi，dangnichajuechuyu1gemaodundangzhongerzaochengnideqingganchuxianfenlichulaidezhuangkuangxia，neimazongyouqidaidedaojijizhudongdejieguo。xiabian，wangbianwanhuiaiqingmiji，jiuyaonidexinrenshuofenshouzhihouhuidaonishenbian。

挽回爱情秘籍

1.开启沟通交流的大门口。

 fenshouzhihou，zaicixiyinzhuairenhaoxiangshizheixiangyanjundemeirirenwu。shubuzhi，yuliangdifenjuhoujinxinglianluozuiguanjiandedingyishizhenshilingtingnideairenbingzhongshitadeyaoqiu。dangnichangshigangkaishitanhuaneirong，yexudeairendouhaimeitiqianzhunbeihaotanhuaneirong，neimaguanjiandejiushinirangnideshijianheshineikongjian。niyaoshuomingniduiairendeyaoqiuhenbijiaomingan。

 shizhegenjutongdianhua，faxinxihuogenjudianziyouxianglianluonindeairen。jianyidishuo，rutong“woxiangyaogennitanyitanzheiyangdeshiqing，nikaiqilemeiyou?” jiaruninbeihushi，qiewufanfutonghuahuofaxinxi，liuyanbanliuyanbingbiaoshuninxiangtaolunchanshengdeshier。ninbixudengninindeairentiqianzhunbeihaokaizhanhuihua。

 jiarunindehezuofangxiangyaoyuningongxiangyouguantichufenshoudexinxineirong，qingsheding1geshijianqinshenpengmian。gonggongchangheshi1gefeichanghaodetiaoxuan，youyutamenshizhongxinghuade。zheizhongtiaoxuanshichumenhedaliangkafei。jiaruzuixihuandaliangdeyinsibaohu，ninengyikuaierliuda。

 fangzhichuxianzainideairendejiali，daxuehuoyewuliuchengdizhiweijingxuanbu。zheinenggoubeichengzuoweibeiletadejiexian，bingjianghuizaochengdaliangdemaodun。fanguolai，zaizheiduanshijianliuyiairendexinyuan，bingzhongshitadejiexian; jiarutabutiqianzhunbeijiannihuotaolunzheiyinanti，neimaqushitakenenghuizhishishenhuadedikang。

2.沟通交流零距离。

 dangchangshichulimaodunshi，yibianqudechenggongdadaorangbuhuojiejuefangfa，keyilingjuligoutongjiaoliunanti。lingjulichupengyubawolingyifangchangshuodeneirong(xinxineirong)hebeijingtu(yudiaohezitaidengfeiyuyangoutongjiaoliu)degongzuonengligengqiang。

fangzhifaxinxi，dianziyouxianghuodianhuahuihua。zhinengyingyongzheizhongfangshidegoutongjiaoliunenggouchuangjian1geqinshenpengmiandeshijian。

shizheyugaigongzuorenyuankaizhanlingjulidejianmian，tantaoshoutoushangdenanti。

3.要有信心。

 xinxingoutongjiaoliushitantaoguanliannantishishidexiaogongju，youyutazhiliyuyishidudefangfabiaoshuzishendetihuiheyaoqiu。yingyongxinxinfangfahuitishengnidexinxineirongbeipubianjienadegailv。

 yaoliji，danshidangxin。jiaruniyaoxiufuguanlian，lijiyouguannidexinyuanjianghuishiyoulide。biru，ninengshuo，“woqueshixiangzainiwozhijianxiufuwupin，wobuxiangshiquni。”

 yingyong“wodeshenming”，biru，“wojuede____，ruguoni______。”biru，nijianghuiyaoshuo，“wojuedenaonu，ruguonizhuanshenlikaideshihou，erwomenyiqitantaodenanti。”nihaikeyibiaomingnaxieniqidaixiaduocineiyangzuo，liru“nijuededaoshihourenmenkeyitaolunzheiyinantima?”

 shiyonghetonglixin。shizhezhangwonideairenlaiyuanyunaer。fangzhitiaodinglunhuoqinshencaiquyouxiao。zhiguanxintaduichanshengshierdeqinshenjingli。jiangchuneiyangdehua：“womingbailenijuedefahuo。wonenggoukanjianninengzenyangjuede。“

qinghuiyingnanti，biru“tamenshuoniduiwomenfahuobingmeiyouhuaxiaochongzudeshijianpeizhenierhulveni，duibudui?”

4.防止积极主动的观点和攻坚。

 jijizhudongdegoutongjiaoliuhegerenxingweidemouxieshilibaohan：dashenghanjiao，mazanghua，dihui，zhaohuanxingming，shenxun，weixie，jiwuzhuodebiaomian，qiwu，rengwuheda。zheizhonggerenxingweibulitishengjijizhudongdeguanlian。

buguidingta，bubiguoduoguzhi，guanniandaoshenmeshihou“bu”daibiao“bu”。

挽回爱情秘籍

5.限定普攻沟通交流。

 pugonggoutongjiaoliubaohan：buyongshuoyiqieshier，fangzhi，hulve，yanzang，quconglingyifangyuanyide，meifazaibixushihuijue，huijuequanbuyiwu，zaiduoyushizhiqian，fangzhiyanguangchupenghepzui。bubifangzhizheiyinanti，zheiburongyizaochengmaodunchuli。shizhexinxindigoutongjiaoliunidetihui。

6.参加矛盾处理。

 zaishizhexiufufensuideguanlianshi，maodunchulifangfahenyouxiao。chulimaodunde1geguanjiangouchengshikeyirenkenidebuzhengque。mingqueniyeshizenyangweiliangdifenjuzuochugongxiande，bingjiangtamenfenpairangnideairen。weizheizhonggerenxingweizhiqian。

 qiangdiaoguanlianzhongdejijizhudongcengmianpeinizaiairenzhongjingyangdetedian。mingquetichuniduiyunitichufenshouxiangguandeqinpeidecengmianjianghuifeichangyouxiezhu。biru，nijianghuiyaoshuo：“nizhidaomawohenfahuo，danwoqueshihenxiexieninengjiangchunideniantou，binggenwoshuoniyaoyikuaierduguodaliangdekuaileshiguang。”zhiliyuhezuo，erbingbushiweihainideyiqiejiazhiquxiang。xianghudachenggongshishi1gehuligongyingdejushi。duijieguoyoujutiqidai。

7.服务承诺积极主动的转变。

 hunyinshenghuoheguanlianquanweizhuanjiazhuzhongguanxinchulininkechulidenantibingsheqibunengchulihuozuigainuliqinfendechabie。biru，chulinidedadangfabuguanjianpingjiadenantishi1gekechulidenanti，nenggougenjuxuexipeixunshidudegoutongdejiqiao(ruxinxin)laigaizheng。shubuzhi，nideairenjubeimouleinitaoyandexinggetedian(ruxinggewaixiangxing)denantijianghuibingbushi1gekechulidenanti; benrendeyixietedianjianghuibujubeiyanzhanxing。

zuixianlijilejienideairen，taxianggenggaiguanlian。jiarutashininjuedenenggourangbudekenqiu，neimaninnenggouyikuaierjiejuekunnan。

 jinideairenlejienixiangyaozuochugaidongzheileiguanliansuobibukeshaodeshijizhuanbian。ninengshuo，“woquexin____，____he____。” biru，ninengshuo，“woquexinhuadaliangdeshijianpeizheni，zainifaxinxihuodadianhuashizuochuhuiying，bingcaozongwodenaonu。”