女人应该如何看待男人出轨？

 nvxingdouhuihenanshengcheshangguanlian，haihuijiuchanbuxiu，wulunshilianqinghuanshihunyin，quanshizheiban。hunyinzhongzailangmandeshidoubidanshiliangrenshouwanshoumanmanbianlao，yishengxiangshou，danbaochineiyangdeganqingxinyuanderenyouyoushiduoshaoni?yishizhuxingyizhibujinrenyi，hunyinchangchangchuxiangezhonggeyangnanti，liruhenbijiaoyanzhongde1genanti——waiyu。nvxingyingdangruhekandaichuguinanrenzheijianshiqing?huazhenqingganweininxiaojielejidian。hunyinxintaizixunyoushenmeyong?ruhebaituohunyinxuanwo?

1. 寻找缘故。

 wulunruhe，shierzaoyichansheng，shouweiguanjiandejiushishuozhaodaotawaiyudeyuanguhedajiahunyinzhongdenanti，nenggouchuli。waiyuzheiyangdeshiqingyebingbushisheixiangyaochanshengde，huoxushilingyifangyizhenziganqingkumen，yuanyixunzhaokuanweicaihuizuochubaoqianjiazhong、lianrendeshier，danzheidoushiyinweiduifangdecuxindayi，meiyoulijiliuyidaolianrendezhuangkuang。hunyinxintaizixunyoushenmeyong?yincibubiyishangqujiunuma，xianlizhi，zaijiejuekunnan。congshuangfangquzhaoyuangu，jiaruhaixiangwanhuiganqing，wanjiuhunyin，haiyaoxuehaorenyishi，bubibatabiguojin。

2. 解决困难

 dajialijinghuxiangshangyi，zaoyilejienantishisha，nijiulijichulihaonanti。hunyinbixufuwuchengnuohezhongshi，danruozhongshizaoyimeiyou，bubirenweihunyinjiumeile，kuanrongshihunyinchuxiannantiyihoufeichangbixudewupin。meirenxiangyaojienalianrendepanbian，danchanshenglejiushishuochanshengle，danxinzaoyishizheizhongbubiyao，chulisuanshibixu。jiaruniyaoaita，huozhebukenjiazhongliekai，nijiutiaoxuankuanronghebaorong。

 ruhebaituohunyinxuanwo?renwuwanren，shunengwuguo?kuanrongheyuanliangnenggoujiejuelianrenzhongjiandefenqi，shouweiliangrendehunyin。tazuocuoshi，nibubijiqiefourentafengbishizishendeqinggan，huazhenqingganjianxindajiahuanshinenggouyoujianglai，jilingyifang1gegaiguozixindejiyu，dajiahuigengweihemu、xingfukuaile。youyutalejiezhiyaonicaihuishitaneixinneizhanbuxidemingdeng，nidebaorongheyuanliangzaoyizhongxindianranledajiadeqinggan。

3. 放开手

 hunyinxintaizixunyoushenmeyong?youdehunyinnenggouwanliu，danbingbingbuyidingdehunyinchangyouqidai、bixuquwanliu，yixiehunyindecunyoushizheizhongtongchu，fangkaishoufandaoshizheizhongtuolikuhai。tangruotaduizheixiehunyinzaoyimeiyoujinian，neiwanliudoushiwuyong，nideyangqiuhekuanrongzaitayanzhongjinjinwuchi。biediuleren、diulehunyin、diuleganqing，yeyaodiuren、diumian。