处理婚姻矛盾技巧有哪些？

huazhenqingganaiqingguwenjuedehunyinzhongxuduonantibingbushimouzijidaozhide，1genantichuxiansuihoubicimeiyouyijijizhudongdexintaiqujiejue，nantijiuyulaiyubijiaoyanzhongle。liangdifenjudehunyinnengjianchiduojiu?ruhemianduilinjiehunyin? ruhejingyinghunyin ?

1.jianmorijianbianchengzheizhongxiguanxing

ruhemianduilinjiehunyin?dangfuqijianfashengzhengzhizhengzhiyihou，youxierenhuitiaoxuanlengchuli，quandoubuyongshuo，jiushishuolengzheyizhanglianmomodidezuohaozijideshier。huazhenqingganjuedebubidianjizheneiyangnenggourangliangrenlizhi，lizhiyihounantijiuhuichuli，zaifuqixiangchuzhong，jianmozongshirangnantiliucunxialai，bukeyiduofangmianchuli。ruguonantibijiaoyanzhongjiuhuiweihaidaoliangrendeqinggan，weihaifuqiganqing，yaowanhuiganqing，wanhuihunyinjiudelijibajiejuewentihao，erbingbushidengnilingyifangquchuli。

2.pengdaonantiaizhaotuoci

ruhejingyinghunyin?xuduorenpengdaonantixianxiangdebingbushiruhejiejuekunnan，zhishijizijizhaoyuanyintuocituiwei。neiyangdegerenxingweizongshiranglianrengengweinaonu，duinigezhonggeyangweiman。pengdaonantizhaoyuangushibixude，danbingbushijizijizhaotuoci、yuanyin，yaoxuehaodakaixinfeilingtinglianrendejianjie，yijushierdeqingkuang，zuihoumingquetichuquanjuxingdejianyi。jiarumeiyicipengdaonantinidouzhaoyuanyintuiwei，hunlianwentihuoxushiquchuli，buqingchuganqingzenyangwanliu，ruhewanjiuhunyinmeishier，danbubizuoxierangnantiebiandeshier。wojuedefuzerenbingmeishenmebutaihao，renyishinenggoujiniwanjiuaiqing，zhengjiuhunyin，jiejuedajiazhongjiandefenqi。

3.不可以管理自己