挽回失败，大多时候都是它在作祟

1、buyuanjienatichufenshoukeguanshishi。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?yiqihenduonianzaojiupeiyangxianghuzhijianyikaodexiguanxing，haoxiangzuorinihaiyaohuanhuanxixihantazhangfu，dajiashangyuehaiyaofanganqunalilvxing，meibanfajienahurantichufenshoudekeguanshishi，buganhenduoniandeqingganjiuneimegebendongxi，qingjizhixiaxunzhaolingyifangdishengxiaqibubitichufenshou，duanxiaoxidianhuashoujiweixinchixusaoraolingyifang，biaoshuzishenfuhexingdepoqieyuanwang，qidaikeyongzheileifangfachudonglingyifang，lingyifangbudanbuyuanyifuhexinghaimaniyeshiyinhunbusandegoupigaoyao，fanjuedewanmei，jiwanliutishenglegengdananduxishu。ruhe wanhuihun yin?

2、chixubiaoshuhequebao。

 yibianzaiduanqineineiranglingyifangtongyizishenqiufuhexingdeniantou，buxidaijiafuchudaijia，naizhibuzaiyizhanshengzijidebiaozhunhedaodedixian，xianglingyifangzhiqian，baoqianhaibuzu，naxie“zhihouniyaoworuhewoyeruhe”、“zhihouwoquantingnidezenmeyang”、“worangnixiaguilehaibuhaoma”，zaifeilixingxingweidezhuangkuangxiaxianglingyifangzuochuzhuduofuwuchengnuo，ranglingyifangjuedewukenaihehexinfan。

 dannihushileyidianer，jiarujijuzhiqianjiunenggou wanhuidehua，dajiajiuburongyilaidaotichufenshouzheibu，zheibanbianyidedaoqianfangfabudanburongyiranglingyifanglingqing，haihuiranglingyifangganjuenijiushishuogeyizhifanshierjiuchengrencuowu，renwancuozhongjiubujiuzhengderen，gengweirentongzishenzuochutichufenshoudezheiyijuece，burannineimemeidaodedixian，yousheizhidaonijiexiaquhuizuochunaxiedeshier。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xiangzhengshigailebenshendexinxin，jiubuyaoshuoguoduodaoqiandehua，jijubaoqianfayiwang，jiugangkaishiyonggongjianjiuzhengbenshenquexianlaibiaoshunidechengxin，nidegenggaitabixukanhuode。

3、batichufenshougaodezhongrenjiezhi。

 jiduanhuaderenyongdaozheileifangfalaigongbu“renmenzaoyitichufenshou”zailingyifangneilishuayouyuegan，meiribizuodekechengjiushishuozaiweixinpengyouquanbaping，naxielizhijitang，naxielianggerenyiqishiduoshaoniandexiangpian，naxiemishidewenbendeng，xianggenjushenpangshehuiyulunbangzhu，ranglingyifanghuidaonishenbian，gengyounaizhiyangzhanglingyifangdebabamama，wangtudedaolingyifangbabamamaderenkelaishangtanliangrenfuhexing。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?chaojibiantai!shenjingzhi!meishenmezishenxiubuli!jiangshishenpangrenrangnidebiaoshi，meirenhuiyouyulianminxiezhudajia，qingganshiliangrendeshier，bierentarencaibuxiangyaoganyu，haihuiganjuenixintaizhuangtaichengshoulijiqihencha，genghuiranglingyifangjuedenibingbushizizunziai，gengweijiandingbuyizishenpeinitichufenshoushiduide。zuiguanjiande，tichufenshougaodezhongrenjiezhi，huikuodawanliuchengbenfei。

4、bumingbaitigaozijideyouhuoli。

 juedezishenzuomouxiesunhaibenshendeshiqingjiunenggou boqulingyifangyanzhu，yinghuilingyifangdexin，tashigengweibuzhengquedeniantou，haodezhenzhengdeaiqingxianghuzhijianxiyinzhude，youyuzaoyitaoyanyincitichufenshou，buguannizaishuoshenmezuoquandoubukeyiranglingyifangxindong，zhinengzaicixiyinzhu。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?biezaiyituimeiyouzengjia，haohaoditigaoziji，budanshiweinizishenjizhongzhuyilihuodeqianyi，nengdedaodaliangyixingpengyouguanxin，keyizaicixiyinzhuqiannvyoudeyanzhu，dangtazaidujiandaonideneishihou，fajuenidegenggai，huiduinizaochenghaoqixin，zheileihaoqixinjiushishuocijixingxiongxingheermengdeshifangfa，shitigaowanliutongguolvyouxiaodefangfa。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?meigerentaoyangenyitiandaowanfunengliangbaopengderendaoyikuaier，biezairenweizheileifangfanengzaicidedaolingyifangdeguanxinhegaoduzhongshi，jiusuanqudechenggong，youdeyejinjinlianminbingbushiai，xiangrangqiannvyouzaiciaishangleni，haiyaogaizhenggerenquedian，guohaozishendeyishizhuxing，rangzishenbiancheng1gequanxinshengjidezishen，caihuiyouyiwaidihuode。