挽回爱情:建立情感框架

xiyinzhulingyifangshiwanliudeliuchengzhishou，zhinengzhenshibawoqingganzhudaoquannenggouweichizhangqixingguanlian，neimajiagoudechuangjianjiuyouweizhongyaole。wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zaiwanhuiganqingyiqi，gaoqingchuzishenyulingyifangdejiagou，xianghuzhijiankaisheshihedejiaowangfangshi。lianqingzhongdehenduonantiguijieweiqilaiquanshijiagougaodizaochengde。ruhe wanhuiqiannanyou  ?

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mingqueyingxiangli，ganqingwugaodizhifen

ruhewanhuinanren?renmendouganjue‘wonianjibilingyibanda，wolidangrangzheta，wojiushinvshi，wogengyingdangmingbaizhaoliaoren’。yincijiushishichuchuhongzhelingyiban，jilao:niyeshilaizuonvyoubingbushilaidangmade。zhenzhengainiderenwuxuniduorang，dinghuiguanzheni。

jianchishishiqiushizunshoudaodedixian

wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?biebeiaimihuoleyanjing。xiaochaoxiaonaodeshier，nengkuanrongbuyaozaizaihu。keshizhenduipanbianni，zaoyaoni，qiwunijiazhongdeshibuyaozaizaishahuhukuanrong。nikeyilejie，heneiyangderendaoyikuaiershimeiyoujieguode。yincizaiaiqingmianqian，zhiyaonikeshoubiaozhunzunshoudaodedixiancaihuikanqilaiyouzhiqi，caihuiranglingyifangganjuexinhuaineijiu，caiyoucongtoukaishidejiyu。

要爱的张弛有度

 ruhewanhuinanren?nibukeyinaniaitazuoweituocikunfutadesuiyi。nishibushiganjue，woaitatajiuyanzhongzhiyouyouduziyigeren。nishifouhuitongdianhuachagang，tuituofanyuetadeshoujishang?tadedaxiaoshinidouyuanyizhangwo?jiarushiqingxianjiuzheng，beijiankongdeweidaohennanshou。