挽回男朋友的心：如何让他主动回来你的身边

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一、合理性以前的个人行为，为大家的关联减少分歧点

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?tichufenshouquanshiyouyuangude，yiban quanshilingyifangnanyirenshounidebutaihaodexiguanxinghuoshigerenxingwei，zaochengdajiadidaganqingbuguidian，tahuimeifahelixingnidegerenxingwei，congerxiangfenshou。yinciyaoxiangwanliuqudechenggong，helixingzishenzhiqiandegerenxingweijiukanqilaizhiguanzhongyaole。zuixiannibixujienadajiazaoyitichufenshoudekeguanshishi，youyuzhinengneiyang，shuochuqudehelixingneirongcaikanqilaikekao，jiarubukeyijienatichufenshoudekeguanshishi，neimajiujiyoukenenghuihuoxudeyaoqiuerhuihuaihelixingdezheiyigerenxingwei，huoxuzuibianshuojiena，gerenxingweishangquemeiyouxiangtong，neimazongshirangdajiadeguanlianbiandehenzao。

 jiexiaqu，jiuzanchenglingyifangshuodehua。zhinengruguonikeyigentalizaixiangtongguandianduidainanti，bubiqubianbotadeneishihou，tacaihuiyongxintingnishuodemeiyiduanhua，caihuijinidehelixingtingjinlaierqiesisuo。yaoshitajiangnidebiaoshutinglejinlai，caikeyirangdajiaxianghujiandefenqijiangdi，jinershiguanlianhuanjie，nenggouhuodehoubianwanliulingyifangdejiyu。

二、提升他对你的资金投入，使他合理性自身的个人行为

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?zijintouruyueda，yaoqiuyueduoda。zhinengdangtaduinidezijintouruchongzudashi，shunlichengzhangjiuhuifanhuinideshenpang。yuanyitishengtadezijintouru，zuixianbixubaozhengdejiushishuotishengzijideyouhuoli。youyuzhinengruguonideyouhuolishanglaileyihou，caihaiyoujihuitishengtadezijintouru。“youhuolijiaruchongzuqiangdehua，neimazuoyiqieshidoushibeijiena”jiangzishendewaiguanshejigengxingaizaodegengweixiyinzhuren，yiqijiangyishizhuxingguodegengweiduozhongduoyang，meiridouweichikailanglianghaodexintai，baozhengzheizhong，youhuoliyejiutigaoshanglaile。

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