挽回男友的方法：男友说不爱了，还能挽回吗

 xiang wanhuinanyou dehuazenmeban?dangnanrenxinxinyaogen1genvshuofenshoushi，chukaiyaoshuo“wohenlei”，“renmenyouwenti”，“wojibushangxingfukuaileni”zheizhongtangerhuangzhideyuanyinwai，haiyaoshuo“wozaoyibutaiainini!”dangtingjiannanpengyoushuoneiyangdeyiduanhuashi，yexutaqueshiruguobuaile，yeyexushitahenpazaiaizhenile。nvhai，ruoniyizhizaizheishixiangwanliuta，qiewuzuochusichan，yangqiudegerenxingwei，buran，taliqunizhongaizongshigenghen，niyizhizaitaxinlideshiyongjiazhiyezongshigengdi。neima，zenyangcainengwanliu1geshuobuaizhenidenansheng?ruhewanhuinanren?

一、不必作出自贬身家的个人行为

 ruhewanhuinanren?dangdajiadeguanlianzhoubian，zhizhilingyifangyaopeinimingquetichufenshoushi，niyibianyaojizhewanliulingyifangxiubudajiaxianghuguanxi，yincihuicaiyonggeshigeyangnijuedeshiduidegerenxingwei。danzhengyouyuzheizhonggaoyaoqiugerenxingweizaochengdajiadeguanlianyanhuadeyulaiyucaogao，tongchangqingkuangxia，shenmegerenxingweihuizaochengdajiadeguanlianbuduanebian?

 ruhewanhuinanren?xianggenjulianminlaidedaoai。fenshouhourangzishenyuelaiyuefeichangcanhenkeling，shijuedabufennvxingdoushizuodeshier。tamenmailigaosutalingyifang，shiquleniyihou，niyuelaiyuezheibanbukanrumu，yuelaiyueshizaitaidekeling，xiangjiqilingyifangdezerenxinlaiwanhuiganqing。zheizhonggerenxingweishijidishiyongjiazhigerenxingwei，yiqiyehenjiduanhua。najiarenxiangyaoai1gehenkeling，henmeishiyongjiazhidenvxing?lianminhuandedeai，bushizhangqide，bushibeizuigaiaixide，nijinjinranglingyifangganjuezheixieqingganqueshiaicuorenle，ai1gehendijianderen，tichufenshousuanshituolikuhai。

二、摆正心态状态

 ruhewanhuinanren?ruguonimeifayingduizheishiliaoweijidetichufenshouyanlidajishi，renjiuhuifeichangrongyishenxianxiaochenhunhoudexintaizhizhong，quanburendoutianmanlefumianqingxu。buzhiyousheixiangyaogen1getianmanfumianqingxuderenyikuaieryishizhuxingni?yincijiejuefumianqingxu，yingyongyingduiqinggan，zuogejijizhudongkailangwangshangderen，neimaduiwanliujiuhuiyouchuhuyiliaodeshijixiaoguo。

 suzaojijizhudongjijidexintai。wojuedefenshouzhihouhenduorendouhuiyidiebule，youshangdexintaizhanyoulezhengyigeneixin。yincixuduorenjiuhuihenyouyihuo，yaoxiangweichi1gejijizhudongjijidexintaiyouneimafeichangrongyi?wojuedexuduoneishihouxintaishiyouzishenqucaozongde。yinci，ruguoyitiandaowandouhuidianjizhetichufenshouzheijianshiqing，nanguojiuhuifeichangrongyidaozhixintaishangdeshiling，zaochengzuochuxiebulizishenwanliudeshierlai，buduanjilingyifanggongzuoyali，neimazongshiranglingyifanggengweixintaizhuangtaishangfourenni，juedetichufenshoushiduide，neizongshirangwanliugengweijiannanle。“xingfukuailedeweiyiguize，jiushishuodujuefumianqingxu，dangzishenyoufumianqingxushichulita，dangtarenyoufumianqingxushibangzhutarenchulita，jiaruqueshibangbushangnijiudujueta。”yinciyaoxiangsuzaoshenxinjiankangdexintaizhuangtai，jiuwubizhaoxiefenfaxiangshangdeshierlaizuo，fensanhuajizhongzhuyilirangzishenbubidianjizhetichufenshoudeshier。biru：qudengshan，genpenyouqugechangdeng，rangzishendexinqingyukuaiqilai。

 bashijianhuoliyongzaitigaozijideshoushang。lianqingshi，ganqingshangxianghudoushibazishenbixudeshijianhehuolizijintourudaolingyifangdeshoushang，youzhongzhuangkuangjiushishuozuoweiyaoqiugangaodelingyifang，jiuhuizailingyifangzijintourudaliangshijianhehuoli，yitiandaowanjinjinweiraolingyifangzhuandong，zheimianbuleburongyiranglingyifangshangxiazishen，zaochengzishenmeiyouhuashijianlaiyuanyuwojibenjianshe。yinci，cike，jiuqingbieqianxinwankuqidaolingyifangzaigenniyizhizaiyikuaierle，liangzhezhijianneimekelingdewanliu，haibibushangbaneifenqidaolingyifangdequdongliyongzaizishendejibenjiansheshang。zhinengchixudewanshanziwo，jiuhuigengweiyouzichan，gengweidiyouyouhuoli。yinci，ruguoqueshiyaowanhuidehua，benshendejibenjiansheshihenbixude。dangzishenbiandeyuelaiyuedehaokan，gengweideyoufengcai，jilingyifangzheizhongganjingzhengjiedejuede，jiuhuiranglingyifangzhongxindilejieni，duinizaiyicishiqixingquaihao，zheibimeitianzainaershangchunbeiqiuyeyaogengweiyouxiao。

 xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?tigaozijidelianqingdengji。youshi，lianqingdengjidetaidi，jiumeifalejiehechuaicelingyifangzaixiangganshenme，yuanyideyoushisha，erzheiyineishihouyincijiubuqingchuzenyanggenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliuhedafulingyifang。yinciruguoxianggenlingyifangjiaowangdehemu，haiyaotishengzijidelianqingdengji。nikeyizuodejiushishuoxuehaoqukexueyanjiuguanjiandian，jiushishuozixiguanchalingyifangdegerenxingweihezishi，zailijingzishendepouxi，bingzuochushihededafu。jiufangfoyixienvshengchangshuozishenmeiyouanquangan，neizuoweinanhaizidenihaiyaoqufajueshizenmehuishizaochengletaquefaanquangan，zhinenglejieshishenmeyuanyin，caihuigengweiyoumudexingdiyulingyifangjiaowang。ruguonizaiyilingyigelingyifangdeniantou，weilingyifangguanxindeneishihou，neimalingyifangjiuhuigengweiaixizheizheifenqinggan。

三、更改自身，再次吸引住

 zaimeiduanguanlianzhongbanizishendeshiyongjiazhizhuyaobiaoxiandetaidile，1gedishiyongjiazhiderentashimeifahelixingzishenzaizaiciwomenzaiyiqide。yuanyiwanliuta，zuogegaoshiyongjiazhidenvxing，tahuiganxinqingyuandihuidaonishenbian。

 zuogegaoshiyongjiazhinvxing，zuixiannikeyiguanlizijideyaoqiugan。shiyongjiazhigenyaoqiuganxiangguan。“rendebenxingbenjian，yuefeichangrongyihuodedewupin，yueduoburongyiquaixi。renmenhuiaixide，shidezhibuyide、huozheshizhongzhengdequebingweihuodedewupin，jiusuanneiyangwupinweibibinageshunshoubidedehaoxie，tarengjiuhuibianchengnide1gexiwang。”wanliushidoushineiyang，ruguonideyaoqiuganguogao，zijintouruguoduo，tawuxunulinaxiejiunengderenhe，lingyifangjiuhuijuedeniyeshishunshoubidede。guanlizijideyaoqiugan，jiangdiduitadezijintouru，zhongzhiniduitadesipilailianhedishengxiaqi，buzuozheizhongrangzishenshiyongjiazhijiangdidegerenxingwei，baocunzishendeshiyongjiazhi，caigengyouyiyuwanliu。

 xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?tigaobenshenshiyongjiazhi，tishengyouhuoli。shiyongjiazhiheyouhuolixiangguan，shiyongjiazhidegaoailijiweihaizheyouhuolideshiduoshao。gaoshiyongjiazhidenvxingyongyougaoyouhuoli，eryouhuolishitapeinifuhexingdezhongyao。yiqiyouyudajiaxianghuduilingyifangyouyouhuoli，keshinidedishiyongjiazhijiniduitadeyouhuolizaibuduanjianshao，ruguonideyouhuoliweilinshi，tajiuhuijijixiangfenshou。xuehaotishengziji，tishengzijideyouhuoli，zuohaozijiyingdangzuodeshier。nvhaizaiwulunzenyangdouyingdangshishikeshifangzhefengcaide，xuehaochuanyidapei，congwaiguanshejigaibianxianzhuang，xiyinzhubierendeyanzhu。duoqukanshu，duosisuo，gaibianxianzhuangdeyantanjuzhi，rangzishenyiyanyixingdoushifangzhexinxindefengcai，changkuaizhanxianzishenyazhipiaoliang、jubeigaoyouhuolideyibian。

 xiangwanhuinanyoudehuazenmeban?fenshouzhihouyuanyiwanhuinanyou，zuixianjiuduanzhengzishendexintaizhuangtai，jianshaoyaoqiugan，qinfengenggaizishen，tigaoshiyongjiazhi，neiyang，ruguoniyuelaiyuegengqiangshi，lingyifangcaihuiyouhehaoruchudejianghui，ershiyongjiazhibiandadeni，zaiganqingzhongdezhudaoquanyehuigengda。