ruhe wanhuinanpengyou ?tichufenshoudeyuanguyouhenduozhongduoyang,tichufenshoujiubixuyouyulingyifangdeyiqingbielianerzaochengdema?youdenvxinghuibatichufenshoudenantiqiangjiazailingyifangshoushang,juedezishenzaizheixieqingganshangbingmeiyoufancuonaxie,bushiyingdangchanshengtichufenshouzheijianshiqingde,meiyouduizishenyouguoqueliderenzhinengli,fandaoshizaixinfanyiluan。neiyangdegerenxingweihenrongyirangnanpengyouganjuetichufenshoushizuiqiadangzhiyoudeshier。yinci,lizainvxingdeshijiao,niganwanbukeyizuoguoduoshashiquzaozhixinyibodedichu,fandaobixugaibianxianzhuangdedaoqinlai。zenyangwanhuinanyou?
一、分手之后不必把自身精准定位受害人人物角色
zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?fenshouzhihoububizhaolingyifangdepenyouqingtu。mouxierendaoyulingyifangfenshouzhihoushifenxinji,henyihuo,yincixiangxunzhaolingyifangpenyoudexiezhu,kongxianglingyifangnenggou penyoudequandao,zhaodaochengrencuowufanhuizishendeshenpang。
zenyangwanhuinanyou?caiyongjiduanhuafangfa。nizhuyaobiaoxianchudeyaoqiuganyuegaoshi,tadewuyishihuitanbaizheigerenshifenjiduanhua、shifenjubeiweixiegan,neimatazongshiduiniyulaiyudichu,naizhihuiganjueniduitadexingmingyouweixie。“yincizheijianwujianzhuiqiurenmendeneishihou,huoshirenmenbeizhuiqiudeneishihou,renmendoushiqianzaixingdejuede,renmenzaizaoyufengxian;yiqiewujianzaxiangrenmendeneishihou,renmenhuijinbuzhudibikai。”buduandinaoren、shuaiwupin,naizhiyisiweixielingyifang,nidegerenxingweiyuejiduanhua,zongshitahuigengweixiangtaochunishenpang。
yongtadeqinrenweixieta。tapeinitichufenshoudeyuanguzhishoujiushinidailaitadeyalida,tachengdanbushangyinciguanbiwangzhan。zheishihoudenigengbubibadajiadetichufenshoutanbaideqinren,naizhiqutajiazhong,wangtuyongtadeqinrenweixietahuijia。rendoushiyouqingchunqipanni,yuebeiyapoyueduodikang。yongtadeqinrenweixieta、bitahuijianishenpang,chixujitamentishenggongzuoyali,zhizaomaodun,nizhongjiushiquniyuanyideshijixiaoguo。fandaohuitahuigengjiandingbuyipeinitichufenshoudexinxin,helixingzishenlikainishiduide,rangnidewanliutishengnanduxishuzheijiuyinxiaoshidale。
三、分手之后要变得越来越出色更为顽强
burongzhiyi,hezishenzuiaiderentichufenshoushizheijianhentongchudeshier,keshi,dangniyouyutichufenshouyizhirangzishenqinpaozaiyoushangli,zheizhenduinidejianglaieryanshimeishenmexiezhude。fenshouzhihou,zhiyaonibizhiqianbiandeyuelaiyuechuse,wanliulingyifangdegailvcaigengda。
zenyangwanhuinanyou?weihefenshouzhihouyaoyuelaiyuegengchuse。renmenfenshouzhihou,neixinhaibiezhuyidakouyuanhen,zheikouyuanhenjinizhanzhuannanmian、shibuzhiwei,nibuduandizaixiang:weihetayaotaoliwo ?weishanulilezhenxinshiyiquehuanbudaohaodejieguo?yinciniyuelaiyuexiaojibeiguan,wangzifeibo。neiyang1gefumianqingxudeni,huoxubingbushiwanliunidezhiai。yuanyiwanliulingyifang,nihaiyaotishengzijideqingshangzhishanghegongzuonengli。
zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?yiqi,chuwaizaicengmianhaiyaojinertigao,youyuwaizaijiushinidexingqingdezuixingxianghuadebiaoshu。meirenyouzheiyishijianquchuantounicaogaodewaizaiquzhangwoniquweidebenzhi。ruguonideneiwaiyiqitigaole,jiubiaomingniyuelaiyuebiyiwanggengchusele,zheiyineishihouquwanliulingyifang,qudechenggongdegailvhuidadadetigao。
ruherangzishengengchuse。jibenjianshe1gedeziji,haiyaocongneichuwaizaiyiqixiashou。benzhicengmian,yuanyibiancheng1geyougongzuonengli、gaoqingshangderen,nihaiyaoduizishenyougaodeguiding,duogenrenchupenggoutongjiaoliu,mingbaizaibuchenggongzhonghuodegongzuojingyan,changchangsikaofanshengziji,rangzishenmeiyikechangyouyidianerfazhan。waizaicengmiandetigaoshifeichangjiandandetigaoniyizhizaitarenyanzhongdeshiyongjiazhidefangfa,nvshichuanzhedabantiyiwangwenrouxianliangshudedefangweiquchuanzhedaban,ernanshengzeyingdangwangjingruifancengmianchuanzhedaban,youyuzhei2gecengmianshizuikeyixiyinnvshengdeyanguangde。
ruguoniyineiyangdepinpaixingxiangzaicichuxianzaitayanqian,neitabeinizaiduxiyinzhushihenrongyideshi。waizaijibenjianshenenggou tishengshenkeyinxiangdeyouhuoli,erbenzhidetigaozeshibaochiyouhuolidebenzhi。yinci,yaorangzishengengchuse,zheiliangcengmianbibukeshao。
zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?fenshouzhihoudebudiaozhengqingxufeichangrongyishinipixinggenggai,mituzaiwanliudeluchengshang,bumingbaihainengfouzhenshiquwanhuinanyou。wojuede,ruguonilejieshenmewanliuwandaobushikeyimairudeneishihou,woyehuifajueguishuyunizishenzhenshidewanliuzhitu——gaibianxianzhuang,yongzuiqiangdeyouhuolirangnanpengyouweinizhuanshenbeinixiyinzhu,nidewanliucaihuiyuelaiyuewuxiekeji,yincikeyihuodeshijixiaoguo。
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