挽回男友的心：男友心淡了如何挽回爱情

 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?ganqing，meiyouhongyundangtoudeneishihou。liangrenzhangqijiaowangyiqi，douhuiyouchanshengmaodun，zhengzhi，naizhiyuanyifenshoushi，neima，ruguonijuededaoqingganhaoxiangyaoxianrujuejing，nanpengyouduinixindan，naizhiyibuaizhenishi，nvhaigairuhezuonenggouwanhuinanpengyou?wanliudezuofabukeyitaimangmugenfeng，bixuyaoqingxizaijiaowangquanguochengzhongzishendenanti，suihouduiyunantiqugaibianxianzhuang，neiyang，wanliucaihuiyoushijixiaoguo。qingdehuazenmezuo?

一、造成男朋友心淡的缘故

 weihetabuhuiainilei?huoxutajiushishuodianxingxingdewaimaoxiehui，nibingbushitaxiaidezhonglei，yincitataoyanni;huoxushitaxinliyeshiwangbudiaoderen，yincibukeyizaikongchushineikongjianlaizhuangxiageni;huoxujiushinideyixiecengmian、quexiantahuijienabushang...neimeduoyuangu，wojuedenenggouyongyiduanhualaixiaojie：niyouhuolibugou。youyuyouhuolibugou，zaigangkaishiwoyebukeyijitamenliuyoukegumingxindeyinxiang，nibukeyijitamenchanshengyuzhongbutongdeganshou，yincitabuhuiaini。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?yizhizaizhengchao。nannvpengyouchaojiabingbushichedishicuoshi，youshinannvpengyouchaojianengrangqingganzhongdefenqihuodelijidejiejue，danglianggerendoubazishendexinlixiangfashuochuqu，nengranglianggerenjidianchulaideyuanhenhuodeshifangchulai，yiqihuodelingyifangdeyuanliang，rangqinggangenglaogu。keshilianggerenyizhiwujiezhidizhengchao，tashiqingganxiaoshideyuzhao，youshitiaodongshiduandelingyifangjinjinxiangranglingyifang“beitaotai”，nikeyifenbianzaochengqingganbuduanzhengzhideyuangushisha，conggenbenyuanyinshangchuli，fangzhiqingganmaixiangbunengwanliudechengdu。

 qinggandenulicuowudeng。youyimingnvshixuesheng，taduitadenanpengyouyizhititieruweidizhaoliao，bangtaxichuangdan、dasaofangjian、zuofan，naizhimeirizhuanchejiesongnanpengyoushangban，nvpengyougaizuodeshitaganle，nanshenggaizuodeshitayeganle，meiyounanshenghuihuijue1gemianfeiayi，dannanshengduineiwei“ayi”burongyiyouqinggan，youyutamenzhongjiandenulicuowudeng，qingganyingdangshihuxiangde，yaolianggerenxianghulaiweichi，bukeyidanfangyixindinuli，zhinengxianghufuchi、xianghuzhijiannulinenggouchouchumeihaodeaiqingzhihua。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?guofenyikao、guofendandudoubuliqinggandefazhanqushi。yixierendaolianqingzhongxiguanxingyikaolingyifang，naxieshierbixulingyifanglaijiejue，zhangqixingneiyanghuiranglingyifangjuedetinglei，eryixierendaolianqingzhongzhuyaobiaoxiandetaiguodandu，youhuiranglingyifangganjuenibingbuzaiyizheixieqinggan，yincilianqingzhongdeqingkuangshishidangyikao，weichidandu。rutongwanhuixueyuanshuoguo：“shidangdeyikaonengranglianrenjuededaoniduitadegaoduzhongshi，erxiangduixingdedandunengranglianrenlejieniyeshi1genengduizijifuzederen”。

三、如何修复关联

 zhenduiganqing，yiwangerenzongyouyiqianbaizhongdeniantou。keshi，yaotanqiuchuzuiheshibicideganqinghexintainianqueshibururenyide。renquanshiduomianxinghuisisuodexiaodongwu，bingqierenmendexintaiqifuzaishenghuozhongzhuanbiandetingda。neimazailiangxingzhijian，renmenyaoruhequkandaibici ruhequjiaowangnenggoubaochipingwenhezhangqini?

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?yuanyizhangqixingfazhanqushi，jiuxiandiuqicaiji。jianxinxuduonvpengyouchangyouduinanpengyouchiguocu，youxierenjianghuihuixinliananqifen burongyizhuyaobiaoxiandeguoduxianzhu yehenpashuochuqu;neiyangbushikeyongde，zheileiniantouhuizaochengnizishendanfangdexinfanyiluan naizhihuiweihaidaonizishendeyishizhuxinghelingyifangdeguanlian，caijishilianqingzhongde1gejihui。

 zhangwohaozishende“du”。 yeshixuduonvhaizaixianmubuzhideneishihouhuihuomaosanzhang，bashoujishang diannaoshangfangebian yaoshiyouyidianerzhenxiangjiulikecheshangguanlian tongma。zheileiniantouzeshihuibaqingkuangyuelaiyuejilie，badajiadejianjuyuelaiyueyuan。wojuede，xianmubuzhishinanrennvrenxianyoudezhipeiquan keshizhongyaoshiyaokanzheniruheshiyong，qianwanbietaiguodimanbujiangli hubianluanzao，yebubibiezhubuyongshuo。ninengshidudidiaozhengzishendexintai，zaizhaogejiyuhaohaohelingyifangliaoyiliao liaotianer，xintaibubiguoduqiangda，helixingdijiejuenanti，zhangwohaozishende“du”。

 mingbaixianghudeyaoqiu，shizhangjiufazhanqushidejishi。youderenjianghuijiaowangle10nian，20nianhuanshibukeyichedimoqinglingyifang，zheiwojuederenzuiquweide1getexingzhishou bianhuamoce。keshibingbingbuyidingderendounengjienaneiyangjiaowangfangshi，niyuelaiyueyueda lingyifangjiuganjueniyuenanjiaowangxialai zheiyejiyoukenengbianchengdajiafenlideyuangu。yinci，mingbailingyifangdeyaoqiushihenguanjiande，jiusuanjinjin1gebudadeguanjiandianlingyifangdoushiganjue;niruheneimezhangwowoya!neixinmianhuijuedehengaoxing。;“yaoqiuganshinenggoushijicaozuode。”yinciyoushiguanjiandiannenggongxianziji，yekeyihuileziji guanjiansuozainijiujingdongbudonglingyifang lebuzhangwolingyifang。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?yuanyigenggainanpengyouduinixindandejuede，nvhaizuixianyaozuodejiushishuoyaolejiezishendenantizainaer，suihouduiyunantiqugaibianxianzhuang，tigaozijideyouhuoli，erbingbushiyangqiu，sichan，huoshishibaoyuan，yifushouhairenzishi，neiyangzongshiranglingyifangganjuenideshiyongjiazhigengdi。