挽回男友须知：真正的分手原因你知道吗

 zenyang wanhuilaogong ?zaimeiduanqingganzhizhong，xiaonvrenderenwujiaoseshijuedaduoshunanshengzuiaideduifang，niyelezhongchengdangtadexiaonvren。keshiwojuedeyiweizheninaxieshierbixuzuncongnanshengdezhufuhebixulingyifangzhaoliao，zishenyidianerzhuguanxingguannianyemeiyou，zheimoyangdenigenghaoxianglingyifangrichangshenghuodefulei。suirannibuyuanyunanpengyoufenli，keshiyinweijiaowangdetaixinku，tahuanshipeinijiangchulenizuibuyuantingjiandeliangzi——“tichufenshou”，guoduoyikaowanquanfenfengeledajialiang。zenmewanhuilaogong?

一、哪些称为过多依靠

 zenyangwanhuilaogong?jinanpengyoufazheitiaoduanxiaoxi：“qinaidede，wohaoaini!”keshiyiguoyihuierlingyifangmeiyouhuiduanxiaoxi，woyegangkaishixinji，gesanchawudifanyueshoujishang。niyeshizaibiaoshunidexinma?jiarushi，weishenmeyouzheibanzaodongbuanni?huanshiwojuedeniyeshidengdaitahuiduanxiaoxishuo“xiaobaobao，yinweiwohenaizheni!?”

zheijiushishuobashandaizijidangzuoleaitarenderen。pianyao，neiyangdexintaizhuangtaigengshiganqingdesixue——guoduoyikao。

 guoduoyikaojiushizhi，bazishenjiaojitaren，rangtarenlaizhaoguhaozijideyishizhuxingdezheizhongxintaizhuangtai。youbijiaoyanzhongguoduoyikaodenvxingyincihuijinanshengchanshengjidadegongzuoyali。meigerenshidandudechengren，zhenzhengdeaiqingliangrenhuxiangxiangyi，huxiangjili，huxiangwennuan，danbingbushizhaoliaonishenghuoqijurenhexuxuduoduodeshiqing，dangzuonibabamamaderenwujiaose。wojuedezhenduibeiyikaodereneryan，tamendoushiyongyuanaizhenide，keshibeitaiguoyikao，1renlaizhaoliaoliangrendeyishizhuxing，tamenyehuileide，yehuibeinide“guoduoyikaonongdepiantilinshang，zuihouzhiyoupobudeyitiaoxuanpeinifenli。neimajiuyingdangjiejuezheilei“guoduoyikao”。shidefangshishisuzao“pengyouxintaizhuangtai”。

 bubilejiebuzhengque，“pengyouxintaizhuangtai”bingbushijiaoxiangquroulinqinggan，zhishirangbanilingyifangzuowei1geyikuaierwanlederen，ermudijiushishuoliangrenyiqikeyigaoxingkaixin。danxuduorenhuiwen“nijiubingbushilianaile，bianweiyikuaierwanlele。”neimaliangrenxubuxuyaoyiqi?wojuedejiushishuoyibianhuodezijibukeyikaolvdekaixin，yincitexingshixiangtongde。

 zenyangwanhuilaogong?youzishendezhuiqiuwanmei。nvxingruguobushizishendezhuiqiuwanmei，xintaizhuangtaishiliefengde。youyudangzishenlaoxianshengzaiwaibiangongzuozhongchuangdangdeneishihou。niquehunhunee，chukaidenghoulaogongdeguijia，jiushishuodenghoulaogongdeguijia。nideyishizhuxingshiquzishen。niyingdangyouzishendelixianghua，zuohaozijixiaideshier，erqieqinfendijiangbaojishiergaohao。dangyoulenidezhuiqiuwanmei，woyeganjueyishizhuxingshifengfude，niyibuhuozaibierendeshijieli。“ nvxingyaodanduqilai，bubijiangzishenderenhedouyikaozaiduifang，wulunshiyibianduanlianzishen，huanshiyibiandajiajiankangpingandeganqing，guoduoyikaoquanshibukeyongde。”

二、“过多依靠”的主要表现有什么

 baquanbuqidaijiyuzailianrenshoushang。youyu“guoduoyikao”，nijuedelianrenyijiaolenideyishizhuxing，yincilianrenweilenizuorenheshierquanshiyingdangde。nidequanbuyaoqiudouguidingtaqubangnikaolv，niganjuetayouneiyangdegongzuonengli，yewubiyoubangnikaolvyaoqiudemeirirenwu。ruguotabukeyikaolv，woyehuijuedetazaoyibutaiainini。

 zenmewanhuilaogong?shiershineiyangma?zheizhiyoushibaniquanbudeqidaidoujiyuzailelianrenshoushang，niqidaitakaolvnirenheyaoqiu，niyebixutabaozheng，keshinineiyangbudanweibinengkaolvzishen，haihuishilingyifangjuedepijuan，zaochenglingyifangzaiganqingguanlianliyongyounanshoudejuede。yejiuyouyutaileileermeifazaiaizheni。

 yishilezishen。banizhongxindiandoufangdaolelianrenshoushang。jibianshishuangfangfumujianmianshi，nimuqinyehuiyiweishenzhangdishuo，“yaobangwohaohaodizhaoliaoguinv”。niganjuezheizhonglisuoyingdang，niyibiantashaolezishendeyishizhuxing，buyongzishendeshejiaomeiti，jianjiandiyishilezishen，zhiqiutahuozhu。nishaoletajiuganjuewuqu，shirilizhinengta。

 dangtabukeyipeizhenishi，woyeganjuetazaoyiyibuneimeainile，naizhilianpeizhenidoumeifazuodao。neizainidanshennannvdeneishihou，niyeshiruheduguodeni?wojuedejinjinhuoxuyishilezishen，yinciniyibiantabukeyipeizhenideshieryoukuyounao，tajiuyinerdujueni，ganjuenitaiyikaota，tahuilei，bale。

 shaolebenrenfengcai。yitiandaowanweizainanrenshenpang，nizuodeyiqieyibianta，nitahuiyijiaolenisuoyoudeyishizhuxing，niganjuezheilisuoyingdang。shubuzhi，taqueganjuenilejieerfawei。

 “yaoxiangbawozhudaoquan，nanshengzuodeshierjiushishuojinkuaiyijiaonvxingdeyishizhuxing，nvxingzuodeshierjiushishuocaozonghejiangdibeiyijiaosulvheshuiping;nanshengyijiaosulvtaimanhuonvxingtaikuaibeiyijiao，doufeichangrongyizaoshoupaoxia。”yinerniyuanyirangganqinggengzhangqi，nihaiyaoweichibenrenfengcai，bubiyou“guoduoyikao”，taizaotahuiyijiaonideyishizhuxing。

三、你该怎样更改过多依靠的习惯性

 zenmewanhuilaogong?wojuede，ganqinglichukailanman，yeyouyishizhuxing。ganqingcunyouzhe1gexingfudejianju，jiushishuozaifenbiexiai、ganlingyifangdeqiantitiaojianxia，nenggouzhaoguzijideyishizhuxing。zhenshideai，shijilingyifangchanshengkaixin，shijilingyifangchongzudesuiyi。ruguoaiqingruguokuayuezheiyijianju，jiuhuijirenyizhongpijuan，zuihou，lingyifangtiaoxuanlefangkaishou。yinci，yingduifenshouhoudeni，shoulongnideyanleiheyangqiu，nibixuzuodeshigenggaiyiqiandeguoduoyikao。

 fenshouzhihou，dahuoerzaoyigebendongxile，jibiannibuyuanrenke，danshishiruci。xuduorenxiguanxingzaifenshouzhihouguanxinlingyifangdedongtaixing，neiyangdegerenxingweizongshinizaishiliandetongkulibunengziba，gengweizhuiyiyiqianlianqingshizhuduodehao，jinerjiazhongduitadeyilaigan。yinci，zheishitichufenshoudeni，qingbiechangshiquguanzhulingyifangderenhe，nibixuzaicichuangjianzishendeyishizhuxing，xuehaodandu。

fujianyishizhuxingbaohanxialiehaoduogecengmian：

 zhaoguzijideyinshiqiju。yiqiandenijiaruxiguanxingbayishizhuxingshangderenhedoujiaodaotajiejue，neirujinnikeyixuehaozenyangquqingxizishendeyishizhuxing，pengdaonantibubizhidianjizheqiuzhu，zishenhaiyaoxuehaoxiangfangfachuli。birunizhiqianxiguanyigerentahuizhaoliaonidesancan，neirujinnikeyixuexipeixunpengzhi，xuehaozishenzuoliangsangecai。

 zenmewanhuilaogong?tuozhanweixinpengyouquan。xuduonvhaizailianqingquanguochengzhongyulaiyuyikaolingyifang，yiqiyeyouyunanpengyouhuijuepenyoudeyaoqing，rangzishenzhujiandujuepenyou，yishizhuxingyeyuelaiyuejiandan。rujin，niyibubixujinjinweiraotazhuan，nibixuzaicifanhuipenyoudehuaili，duoyulaoyoulianluo，yeduochupengxindepenyou。ruguonideshejiaoquanzizengdahou，nijiuhuifaxianzishendejizhongzhuyilimeiyouzhinengta，zhujianjiejueleyiqiandeguoduoyikao，erqieyewangdiaolefenshouhoudetongku。

 xuehaoxiangshourensheng。fenshouzhihou，nikeyixuehaobazishendeyishizhuxingfengfuduocaiqilai，quzuoniyaozuodeshi，qushizhexinxiandeshiqing。biruninengshizheyixiaxiajixianyundong：bengjitiao、panyanyundong、fuqianzheixie。zheileicijixingdejianshenyundongnenggounizaiyishizhuxingdegongzuoyaliheshiliandetongkuzhonghuodeshiwuqianlideshifangyali。huoshi，nihaikeyiyuesan、wupengyouqupinweitediandetesemeishi、shoukanxijupian、yingpian......xiangshourenshengdefangfayouxuduo，fenshouzhihoudeniqiewuzishenfengbishi，yaoxuehaojizijideyishizhuxingzengjiayanse。

 zenmewanhuilaogong?henxianzhu，ruguoyigenvrenhaibuzhengquerenshiguoduoyikaozhenduiqinggandeshanghai，zaibeifenshouzhihouyirancunzaizheileiqianjiaguannian，xiangwanhuinanpengyouhuishifenfeijing。tatichufenshoudeyuangudejiushishuonvxingyouyuguoduoyikaoguoduyikaonansheng，tayanfanshishikekezhaoliaonvpengyoudeyishizhuxing，bujiuzhengzheiyiwentizhonghuoganqingjiuzhiyoushihuanxiangshijie，meifabianhuaweishiji。jiaruzhenxinshiyiyuanyihenanpengyoufuhexing，jiuxianconggaizhengguoduoyikaogangkaishi，jianjiandirangzishenchanshengzhidebianhua，caikeyijiandaoganqingdeshuguang。