挽回他不等于讨好他，如何走出挽回无效的怪圈

 ruhe wanhuinanpengyou ?xuduorendaoyingduibeifenshoushi，kudeshengsilijie，meiridouhuidianjizhezenyangzaicixiufugenlingyifanglianluo，huozhilingyifangdexinxineirong，suihoubuduandianhuahongzha，faxiaoxi，fanlingyifangdexinlangweibo，weixinpengyouquan，wangtukeyixunzhaogenlingyifangdalianglianluodefangshi。danjieguodebuchangshi，lingyifangmeiyouhuoxusuozuochudezheizhonggerenxingweierdadong，fandaogengguoduandigentashuobingbushiyiqile。zenyangwanhuinanyou?

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?zaimeiduanqingganguanlianli，niyizhizailingyifangshoushangnulileshijianhehuoli，danglingyifangxiangfenshou，juedequanbudenulidoufuzhidongliu，nijuededaohenshiluohentongchu，tashiyizhibaoyuan。keshiyuanyiwanliu，quebuqingchuconghexiashou，renweidishengxiaqilingyifangjiunengranglingyifanghehaoruchu，jieguozongshibuduanyixinquyuelingyifang。bujinranglingyifanggengweihaowuyiwengennitichufenshoudejuece，naizhigangkaishitaobini、dichuni。

二、挽回感情的你应当干什么

 renyincizaiguannianmingandeneishihouhuizuochubulixingdegerenxingwei，jiarucikenizhunbeiyongdajiadeqingganjibendadu，zuochudishiyongjiazhideyangqiugerenxingwei，feichangrongyicuihuidiaomeiduanzishen keyiwanliudeqinggan，neimawanhuiganqinggaizenyangzuoni?

zhongzhiquyuegerenxingwei，jiangdilingyifanggongzuoyali

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?zaigenlingyifangfenshouzhihou，buduanxianglingyifangzuochugezhonggeyangsichangerenxingweijiuxiangdangyuranglingyifangzaochengzishenhaowuyiwenxintaizhuangtai，zheileixintaizhuangtaihuihuoxudedishiyongjiazhigerenxingweihaowuyiwenzaijinyibuqianghualingyifangduinizuochudefouren，juedegennitichufenshoushiqiadangdetiaoxuan，yexusuozuodequyuegerenxingweizhibuguoshiyouyutazuochule1geqiadangdejuece，shinizaochenghouhuimoji。

 danglingyifangzaochenglezishenhaowuyiwenxintaizhuangtaihou，huijiangnisuozuochudequanbuwanliugerenxingwei，douzuoweishizheizhongnishifangdegongzuoyali，jinerquduobi。yinci，zhongzhiquyue、yangqiudedishiyongjiazhiwanliugerenxingwei，wojuedejiushishuozaixiezhuniweizhihouwanliuzuodemaixiafubi，erqiejianshaolingyifangdegongzuoyalidian。

xintaidiaozheng，xuehaoxianghulijie

 zaoyufenshoushisuozuochudebulixinggerenxingweinenggoulejie，danjiarufenshouzhihouhaixiangwanliutadeni，haijinjindianjizhezishendebiequ，zishendebuyi，lingyifangcuoguolezishenzheixiedeniantou，wojuedejinjinzaitishengnidexiaojiqingxu，weihailezishenlixingdefenbian。jirandianjizheyaowanliu，ganwanbukeyijiangnideyangqiuzuoweijiushinidenuli，zuoweishitaliyingdangdaoyaojienade。

 zenmewanhuiqiannanyou?nixianpingjingxialai，xuehaolizailingyifangdeshijiaosikaozheixieqinggandeqinshenjinglihebuzhengque，shibushibaozhengle1genvyougaijindeyiwu。wojuedexuduolianrentichufenshoudouyouyuxianghushiyongjiazhicuowutong，zaochenglezaiqizhonglingyifangjuedelianggeren“sanguanbuhe”dejuedeermingquetichuletichufenshou，xianghulijienenggouxiezhunizhangwolingyifangdexintaizhuangtaihejingyu，nenggoujinkuaixunzhaoqiadangdemudexingwanliufangfa。