我跟男朋友之间越来越无话可说了，该怎么办？

 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?shangduocitapeinikaihuaidaxiaodexianliaoshiheshi?shangduocitagennigongxiangjianglaidefanganshiheshi?shangduocitagennigongxiangyishizhuxingpengdaodeyouqudeshishiheshi?xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

 buqingchucongshenmeshihouqi，nigentazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliubiandegengjiashao，shaodaonigentadulijiaowangshizhiyouqingjingdeqiti，meiriyikuaiershangxiaban、yikuaieryongcan、yikuaierkandianshiju、yikuaierrushui，danquewojiuzhaobuhuidangshilianaishiwuhuabushuodejuede。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?minglejiexianghujiaowangdenantishisha，queyiciyouyicidiyouyuzheizhongnantierzhengzhi，zhaobuzhefangshiquchulizhiyoukanjianganqingmaixiangtichufenshoudebianyan。neima，chulizheizhongdenanti，gairuhezuo?

一、学好相互理解标准

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?lianggerenzaigoutongjiaoliushangbukeyidachengxieyi，doufeichangrongyichanshengzheizhongxintaizhuangtai，xianghuyebulejielingyifangdejianjie，manmanzaocheng“sanguanbuhe”dejieding。shuobailexianghulijiebiaozhun，jiushishuobicichuzaibuyiyangdeshijian，dizhi，jingshenshizhihuanjieshibixucaiyongxianghulijiebiaozhun，zebazishendairulingyifangdeluojisiweizhonglaidulisikao，jinerzhaodaolingyifanggengweibixuchaoguodemudibingjinxing，yichaoguoyouliangdeshijixiaoguo。

 xianghulijiebiaozhunshuobaileshijinilizailingyifangdebuweishanglaisisuo，dangnijuedenidehuhuanbuyiding keyihuodexiangduixingyingdelingyifangdegenggai，budui!yiqieshierquanshixiangduilaishuo，hekuangshimeirijiaowangyiqideliangren，ruguoniquzuochuzheizhonggenggaideyiqi，lingyifangwojuedezaoyigangkaishiduinimanmanhuanjiexintaihegensuizhinisuochuangjiandejiaowangfangshi。

二、撇开具有的交往方式，增加神秘感

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?dangliangrenjiaowangguoduanshijianchanshenglegudingbudongdeyishizhuxingfangshi，xianghujiuhuijindao1ge”shushiquan”，erzheiyi“shushiquan”huijinichanshengzheizhongsiweidingshi，zheileiluojisiweijinijuede“renmenjiuzheiyangyishizhuxingjiaowangde”，danwojuede，zheileibuhuigaibiandejiaowangfangshigengfeichangrongyizaipengdaonantideneishihoubicichanshengmaodun，juedeniweicengduiwomenganshenme，tarenjiadenanyoushiruhezuodezheixie，yinci，baituoneiyangdesiweidingshi。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?liruzairichangshenghuozhongduozengjiamouxiehudongjiaoliudekuaile，zaiguojiafadingjiariyiqibaomingcanjiazhutihuodongzheixie，dangliangrenmanmandiyouyubuduanzairichangshenghuozhongtishengshenmigan，huatitaolunmanmanbiandegengjiaduo，daziranbaituoxiangduiwuyandejiongjing。