谈恋爱技巧：约会时的说话技巧（女生篇）

 zenmetanlianai?tan lianai jiqiaoyounaxie?laikankanlianaibaodianbajuzhuanjiazhichu，nanxingdeshuohuanenglizhijinvxingdeshifenzhiyi。youci，nvrentianshengaishuohuayejiuchengledajiagongrendeshishi。danpianpiannvrendebaibiqueshishuotaiduo。

一、引导男性成为说话主导

 ruguonixianglejieyigenanren，neimejiuxiangduifangpaochuxianglejiedehuati，yindaotachengweishuohuadezhudao，erbushidengnitaotaobujuedishuowanyidadui，zaifanwenduifangyiju：“neinini?”zhengrunixiangzhidaoduifangxibuxihuanxiaodongwushi，kaichangbaiyinggaishi“nixihuanxiaodongwuma?xihuanmaomaohaishigougou?”，yindaotataotaobujueditanduidongwudeyixiexiangfahexihuanchengdu。erbushiyikaishijiubanijiadexiaogougoubandaohuatiqian，beiporangduifangchengweinidelingtingduixiang，rangnibuzijuedifanleshuotaiduodetongbing。

二、对自己尽量含糊其词

 yuehuishijinliangshaoshuo。neime，ruguonanrenzaiyuehuishiyouhuonijianghuayinggaizenmeban?sizijizhiyue：“dingzhuyouhuo”。jiaruduifangwenni：“xihuankandianyingma?xihuankanshenmeleixingde?”neimeniwanquankeyiyong：“ewoa?hanjuba，neinidoukanguoshenme?”qiaomiaobahuatipaohuiduifang，neimebimianleshuocuohuozheshuotaiduodeganga，gengnengrangduifangzengjiaduinidehaoqixin，wuyiyetishenglezijidexiyinli。

三、适时制造话题氛围

 womenyebufouren，duifanghuoxushiyigejiantandenanren，jinguanbuyongwomenyindao，tayehuitaotaobujuedishuogebuting。neime，yudaozheizhongziwoshangshiduhengaodenanren，womenyaoxuehuishidangzhongzhibuganxingqudehuati，zhizaoyigexinhuati，rangtanhuadefenweibujiandetongshi，bicinengliaodegengtourukaixin。buguo，qiejizaibiaodazijideguandiandeshihou，fangmanyusu，jinliangjianjie，daidianxiaokeliandebiaoqing，huirangduifangduinidehaogandadazengjia!