想和前男友成功复合，你要先理解否定心态

 wanhuiaiqing mijiyounaxie?sangshideganqingjiarukuaisufanhuizishendeshenpang，neijianghuishizuiwanmandexiachang。kexiangquwanliubuyiweizhebierenjiuhuidafusuonulideqingyi，jiuhuitongyiyunifuhexing。youxierenhuihaoqixinqiufuhexingweihezhongtuhuizaochengzhongduozulan，ruguobushizheizhongzulan，mingmingjiunenggou xunsuxiubuyunanpengyoudeguanlian，qingganhuijinerzhuanhao。keshini，pianyaolianggerenzhengzhongjianhaoxianggezheyimianqiang，meifatiejinlingyifang，erqiangxiujiandemudijiufangfoyaofourenzishenbujimairulingyifangdexingyeyiyang。xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

一、分手之后做下列的事情会他会对你的否认加重

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?tichufenshouyizhihuilingrentongchu，zheileilianqingdetianmeihetichufenshoudejimosuodaozhidejidaqifu，douhuilingrenjuededaoshouzuwucuo。zongxuduorenyuanyiwanliu，keshibuqingchugaizenyangzuo，tingpingzishendejuede，hemanqiangrexuedetiaosuo，gensuizishendejuedequzuo，quwanliuta，yincihuihuoxudecuowuzuofa，jiangniwanliudeqidaitongtongqiamiele。fenshouwanhuizhong，younaxieshiershibukeyizuode，nishibushidoufanle?

 dangduifangweinimingquetichufenshoushijiuyiweizhezhetazaoyiduiniderenhedouduofangmianfourenle。zheiyineishihou，tatingbudaonixiangtasuozuodeyiqiebiaoshuhuofuwuchengnuo，youyuzheishiniyizhizaitaneixinzaoyimeiyoudeyoushikexun，tajiandaode，yequanbudoushinishoushangdequexianyuzaijiaowangquanguochengzhongfanguodeguoshi，niduitasuozuodeyiqiebiaoshudouzongshijiajutaduinidezheileifourenxintaizhuangtai。fenshouzhihou，buyaozaixianggoupigaoyaoxiangtongsichanzhelingyifang，yaojiyutachongzudeshineikongjian，yaoburan，tahuiduinibieryuanzhi。yiner，wanhuiganqingbixucaiyongqiadangdezuofa。

 shouxian：zhaodaotichufenshoudeyuanguhezishendenanti，erqiebubixiangtazuoyiqiedebiaoshuhuofuwuchengnuo。zaitichufenshouzhichuzuibixuzuodejiushishuopingjingxialai，suihoupouxidajiatichufenshoudeyuangu，duocongzishenshoushanghaonanti，zhinengneiyangnenggouchanshengercixiyin。fenshouzhihoudangnideyaoqiuganzhuyaobiaoxiandetaigao，jiushishuozuiyumeidezuofa。nibixudeshilengchuliguoduanshijian，bubiranglingyifangganjueniduitayouguogaodeyaoqiugan，naizhitahuiganjueniduitameiyouyaoqiu。neiyangyexunizaoyicijixingdaolingyifangle，yexutaduinifanyaoqiule。

 qici：renkezishendenanti，suihoucongtadequanqiuzhongxiaotui，duanqineiqingbiejijideyutayouyiqiedelianluo。ranglingyifangyepingjingxialai，zailengchulidequanguochengzhong，tahuihuoxudeshuyuanbiciersisuo：shifouzishennaerbutaihao?weihebuhewolianluo?dangtajijixiangqinideneishihoucaihuiduinihenganxingqu，dangtaxiangyaonideneishihounideshiyongjiazhicaihuijinertigao。nisuoxuyizhuyaobiaoxianchuqudediyaoqiugan，shishishangshijinideguanlianhuanjieyali，neiyangzuodeshijixiaoguoyincihuitigaolingyifangdeyaoqiugan。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zuihou：jiejuehaozishendexintai。suzaokailanghuodadadudejiankangxintai，bamuguangkanxiangjianglai，erbingbushidanxinyuyanxiadeganqingcuobai。huoxu，lizhidipouxifenshouhoudeyuangu，jiqumouxiejingyanjiaoxun，youliyuxinqingyukuai。fenshouhouyaoshanyuqingchuzishendetongchu，huiyingyongdujialvyou、liuda、tingge、qukanshu、chuangzuo、herenqingtu、renzhengongzuodengfangfalaifensanhuajizhongzhuyili，zishentuolikuhai。zaizishenchendingzhongfengfuduocaizishendeganqingshenghuo，rangqichangcongeryuelaiyuechengshuqi。

三、运用二次吸引协助你挽回感情

 ercixiyinzhijieeryanshinifenshouzhihouzaiduxiyinzhuleta，fenshouzhihouercixiyinhenguanjian。huoxuzhinengbaozhengleercixiyin，nicainenggou zaicihuodetadeguanxin，cainenggou zaidugangkaishidajiadeganqing。ruhebaozhengercixiyinni?

 jianshaoyaoqiugan。yaoqiuganyuegao，nideyingxiangliyuedi，guogaodeyaoqiuhuijinixinfanyiluan，jinbuzhusichanta。zhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnashuoguo，“ercixiyinzhuzhongzhudaoquan。ruguoniyaoqiuganyuedideneishihou，zhudaoquanzainishoushangbianjiushishuowodezuijindeneishihou。”yincizaiquanbuwanliuquanguochengzhong，yaoqiuganshi1gegenbenxingdeyaosu。jianshaoyaoqiugan，taduiniyaoqiuganfandaohuitisheng。niwuxujijilianluota，dannenggou changchang“bujingyi”dechuxianzaitadequanqiuli。dangdajiayoulianluodeneishihou，ninengbatazuoweiyixingpengyou，liaoyiliaojinqideshi，liruniyizhizaimangnaxie，xuexipeixunxienaxie，younaxiezhunbeizheixie，danjiushishuobukeyitanfuhexingdeshier。nijinqidegenggai，tahuijuededao，daziranhuixiyinzhudaota。suihounidebujijihuitahuiyaoqiugandanizhuan，neiyangniduitadeyouhuolijiuqiangle。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?youliangdepinpaixingxianggengxingaizao。renshishijuexingxiaodongwu，changyoubeimeixiyinzhudeqingxiangxing。yizhededang、weixiaocuicandeni，huidadadetigaozijidefengcai。nizhiqianruguoyizhebuxiubianfusuibian，nihaiyaoliuyigaizhengguolaile。meirenhuixiaiyizhebuxiubianfu，kanshangqumeipinweideren，nikeyiquebaomeiyicichuxianzaitayanqianquanshiganjingzhengjiedaqidedangde。niruguozishenbutaiaichuanzhedabandehua，nenggou genjuzixunshishangzaoxingshirangnijianyi。neiyangdaoshihoutajiandaonideneishihou，jiuhuibeinilingrenzhenjingdegenggaisuoxiyinle。

 jingcaideyishizhuxingzhanxian。fenshouzhihounibixubianhuazishenzhiqianbutaihaodeshenghuofangshi，nikeyiduochulaichuangjianshejiaomeiti，feichangshigennvxingpengyou，jiqiduoquzuohaozijizhiqianxianggandeshier、duochulaidujialvyoushifangyali。zuiguanjiandeshiyaohaijidetahuilejienihuodefeichanghao。ninengzaiweixinpengyouquanduofaxingzishengaoxingdexiangpian，jiqiyouyixingpengyoudexiangpian。nikeyixiangtazhanshichuniyishizhuxingdefeichanghao，hengaoxing。neiyangtashunlichengzhangjiuhuiguanxinnini。youyutahuidanxinweiheliqutahou，haineimekaixin，tameifahelixingzheiyigerenxingwei。zheishihou，tahuifeichangdezhuyini。zheishihouwoyeyouzhebixudezhudaoquanle，wanliutajiufeichangrongyiduole。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?youyuyoufourenxintaizhuangtaidecunyou，yincigangkaishidewanliubianbukeyiyuqiannvyouyouguoduotaimianduidechupeng，ninenggouzuodeyingdangshijinliangtigaotaduinidehaogandu，tuidongduinicanyuchayinxiangdebianhua。jiarutanengyuelaiyueyibuxiangtichufenshouzhichuneimadichuni，xiangyaogangkaishirongxunijindaotadeshiyefanweizhinei，bianruoletaduinidefourenxintaizhuangtai。jiusuanlinshibukeyiyutamashangfuhexing，danniyezaoyiweijianglaidefuhexingtiqianzhunbeilemaixiafubi，xiangxinweilailangsongshinenggou henanyougongxuwaiyuande。