分手后挽回男友的方法：三招挽回男友的心

 xiang wanhuiaiqing dehuazenmezuo?yunanyoufenshouzhihou，nvhaixuduoneishihoudoushichuzaihenzhangguoduanshijiandeyoushangqi，tamenyexuhuizuochumouxielingrenkanshangquhendishiyongjiazhideshier，rusichanlingyifang，buduanjitamentongdianhua，faxiaoxi，naizhizinverenti，yibodetaduizishendeyisisilianmin，danshi，quzhaiyaogaosunideshi，conglingyifanggennijiangchutichufenshoudeyishungangkaishi，taduiwoyezaoyichuzaifourendexintai，niduitazairuheshebude，zairuhesichan，tazongshigengxiangtaochuni。yuanyitahuihehaoruchu，zuixian，nihaiyaoxuehao“fangkaishou”。wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?

一、英勇应对提出分手的客观事实

 meigerendianjizhezishendeganqingkeyibaitouxielao。danbingbushiqidairuhe，neimajiuhuiruhede，youshimouxieyuanguzaochengchuxianletaduinijiangchutichufenshouzheihua。wulunshiruhe，ruoniyaowanhuinanyoujiudejiejuefumianqingxu，yingyongyingduiqinggan，zuogejijizhudongkailangwangshangderen，neimaduiwanliujiuhuiyouchuhuyiliaodeshijixiaoguo。

二、再次改变现状

 fenshouzhihouhenduorendouhuihouhuimoji，shizishendecuomeiyouhaohaodiaixilingyifang，zaochenglingyifanghezishentichufenshou，yimianhouhuimojiyimiandianjizhewanliu。wojuedewanliulingyifangdeshifangfajiushishuoyeranglingyifangganjuehouhuimoji。tahuihouhuimoji，tahuiganjuezishengennitichufenshoudejueceshibuzhengquede，tacaihuixiangzaiciwomenzaiyiqi，nidewanliucaihuiqudechenggong。neimazaifenshouzhihou，yaoruhezuonenggouranglingyifangzaochenghouhuimojixintaizhuangtaini?

 tishengziji，zhanxiannigaoshiyongjiazhidebenrenfengcai。kaizhantishengziji，fanshengzijishoushangdebugou，suihouqujianquanta。duizishenrongmaoquefazixinjiuyaotigaozijidewaizai，duozuoyundong，xuehaochuanzhedaban。jianshenyundongnenggou genggaitixing，chuanzhedabannenggou tianbuzishenrongmaodebugou。kongxianshijianduoduhaoshu，duosisuo，tishengzijizhuanyezhishixiuyanghetigaozijideguanniangaokuanbi，tashizhongjiubuhuicuode，tebieshizaizhenduinvshieryan，zhishudaliqizihua。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?neiyangshifangzhexinxinhezhixingyouyafengcaideni，shenpangyidianerdouburongyiquefagaopinzhiyixingpengyoudezhuiqiuwanmei。tahuilejienidefengcaiyouduogao，xianshixinxichunidegaoshiyongjiazhi。dangtajiandaobeishouyixingpengyouqinglaideni，tahuizaochengbuganxinhejiduxintai，huanxiangshijiezhenijiaruhaiyaozishenshenpang，zishenhuizaoshoushiduoshaodujihejingxiandeyanguang。yuexiangyuezijintouru，yiqizaochenghouhuimojixintaizhuangtai，duinizaochengyaoqiu，xiangpeinifuhexing。

 kaolvlingyifangdebenzhiyaoqiu，zhanxiannidongdetadeyibian。“nanshengqidaizishenbeibixu，nvxingdedadong、rentongheqinpeinenggoukaolvnanshengdexurongxin，rangnanshengwufaquanshenertuierqu。nanshengdebenxingjueceletamenqipanhuodexingxianghuadefanying，jiaruduitamendegerenxingweikuaisubiaodarenke，tamenjiuhuizijintourugengduoai。”

 zaixianliaoshizhanxianchunidongdelingyifangdeyibian：tayuanyihuodexiezhushidechuhelidetiyi;zaitamishishijitamenkuanweihexinlai;zaitaqudechenggongshidechunidezanyangherenke，tahuiganshoudaliangganqing，yueganshouyuemilian，yuemilianyuezijintouru。dangtatihuidaodefanmianxintaidouheniyouguan，zhinengnikeyimibutaganqingdekumenhekaolvtayuanyidezizunshi，neimadongtadeni，tayouweishenmehuidongdefangkaishou。dangtaduinizaochengyaoqiu，yufaganjuezishenyuelaiyueainishi，tajiuhuihouhuimojizishendangshidejuece，danxinzaidusangshi，yincijijizhuiqiuwanmeini，wanliuni。

三、以异性朋友的方法交往

 dangnizhenxiangzhewanliulingyifang，neima，fenshouzhihoujiarulingyifanghaixiangyaopeinizuoyixingpengyou，niyingdangdaqijiena;jiarulingyifangbuxiangyaopeinizuoyixingpengyou，nihaiyaojinkenengzhengdehelingyifangweichiyixingpengyoudeguanlian。weihefenshouzhihouyaohelingyifangzuoyixingpengyouni?

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?youyu，jiarufenshouzhihoulingyifanghaixiangyaopeinizuoyixingpengyou，biaomingniwanliutadegailvtingda。youlianluojiuhuiyouqidai，tazaoyirangnikaiguoneishancemen—lianluozhichuang，quankanniruhelakaita，zouruqu。qingganzheileiwupin，jianbuduanlihailuan，meirennengqingyiwangdiaolingyiren。tapeinitichufenshou，huoxubingbushiyouyuruguobuaile，zhishizhaobuzhejianchixiaqudeyuanyin。youyuenaiyizhitaijianyi，jiaowanghennan。tichufenshoudeyuanguqianwanzhong，dajiadoudezhankainenggoukanqingchushiqing。erchangyandao，julichanshengmei，yinci，linshituihaiyixingpengyoudebuwei，yemeiyoushenmebutaihao，fandaonenggou jiganqingfanggejia，rangzishenzhongliangongdu，suihouzaicixiyinzhulingyifang。

neima，fenshouzhihouruhehelingyifangzuoyixingpengyouni?youerdianshihenguanjiande。

 shouwei，bukeyidajiaolingyifangdeyishizhuxing。youyudajiazaoyifenshou，rujinjinjinyixingpengyou，guanlianbuyiyangzhiqian。yincinibukeyixiangzhiqianxiangtong，xiangtashijiuyaozhaota;pengdaokunnanlequzhaota;shoulebiequyequzhaota，rujindetaburongyixiaibeinineiyangdajiao。dangnishizhongneiyang，fandaohuizaochengtadeyanfan，jiangtayuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。yincinikeyixuehaoguanliziji，linshimeiqudajiaotadeyishizhuxing。

 qici，bukeyixiangzhiqianneibanguidinglingyifang。zaiwanliutadedaoshang，huoxunikeyinuli、yaochengdanxuduowupin，tahaibuyidinglingqing。bubiganjuebiequ，youyuzheijiushinizishendetiaoxuan，yincinibukeyiduitaguidingguoduo，bukeyixiangzhiqianneibanguidingta，gengbukeyiguidingtagenniyiyang。buyaojitamengongzuoyali，zhinengjianshaotadejiebeixin，tacaihuizaidupeini，yuezouyuejin。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?fenshouzhihoububidanxinbukeyifuhexing，zhengshuobailexiaobieshengxinhun，jiarubanitichufenshoudangzuoshilinshidexiaobie，tuijudaoyixingpengyoudebuwei，zaiqinfengaibianxianzhuang，xiyinzhulingyifang，congtoukaishideqingganhaowuyiwenhuibizhiqiandegengqianggengjiangu。