发现男友跟前任女友交往频繁，你该如何挽回男友

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一、男生讨厌女性常常又哭又闹

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bubiyouyuyishirexue，ershengchanzhizaodaliangdefenqidian

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二、碰到感情危機时的解决方式

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三、提高使用价值，做他的理想化爱人

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