别把改变对方当成主业，挽回老公更需要正确的做法

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 zenyangwanhuilaogong?nulishihuxiangde，zhengqueyindaolingyifangzijintourugengguanjian。chuantongshidehaoqizixianeryijianzaoyijiubuxiangxianzaizheiyangshiqiduinvshidexuqiu，nihaiyaoweilewoyibianzinverhuoma?yanzhongneixinchukaitamenmeiyouzishen，zhangciyiwang，buqingchucongheshiqizheiyijiabianweilenizijideyiwu，nidenuliyibuyoushiyongjiazhi，youyutazaoyixiguanxing，taganjuelisuoyingdang，nineixindetianpingchenghuishidiao，ruguonixiangdikang，fajuewanle，youyutarongrubushangnideguiding，tadichunideguiding。ganqingfuhedashikangnashuo：“nvxingshiyinanshengshoushangquxiadeyileiguercheng，renmenyaobajiazhongyiwudezhongxindianzhuanjiaodaonansheng，zishengaohaofuzhujiuxing，fentanyiwushixianghude，yaoburanniyizhizaiyongjingcheng，zuizhongleidaobansibuhuoqiebuquyue。”xiaohaihejiawuhuotayedefentanbufen，neiyangtagengnengganshounidebuyi，tishengdajiaqinggandenianhedu。

 qinggandetianmei，jueduibingbushizigaozidadeyongzishendefangfaquduilingyifanghao，ranglingyifangrenke。neiyangdezuofa，lingyifangbudanburongyiganxieni，fandaohuizaochengtagengshenchendedichu，wanhuizhangfu，bixuqiadangdezuofa，duizhengzhiliaosuanshizuiconghuideshier。