丈夫想离婚：怎么挽回婚姻

 ruhewanhuihunyin?buzhidanglaopotingjianlelaogongmingquetichuliyideneiyike，huishinaxiedetihui。jianghuidouzaoyitarudaolaonianfuqidehuanjie，xiaopengyouyedongshile，ciketaweiheyeyaomingquetichuliyi，nandaoshuojiumeiyouzaiyiguoxiaohaizidetihuima?hunyindepojiubingbushimashangbaofade，jianghuifuqijianzaoyiyongyouxuduodenanti，zaojiuzhongxialehuohuan。suihoutajuedeneishihoulaidaojiutiaoxuanleyulaopohepingfenshou。keshi，dangnibingbuyuanyutaguanlianpolie，yingruhewanliulingyifangni?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、当婚姻出現了危機，怎样把风险化作机遇

 weijishuobaileyoufengxianyouhaiyoujihui，dandangmeiduanhunyinzhongchuxianleguanlianliekai，xuduorenpangguanzheqingzhijiandaolefengxian，quebumingbaibawojihuibangzheixieguanlianzhuanweiweian。suyushuo“bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan”，ruguonidelaogongyaopeinimingquetichuliyideneishihou，dajiadehunyinzaojiuchuxianlenanti，yizaoyizhongxialehenduodeanquanyinhuan，nilejienikeyiruhezuonenggoubawozhuweiji，bafengxianhuazuojiyuma?

 bubiguoduqingxubuwending。ganqingzhuanjiakangnashuo，danghunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，zuixianbixuyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，renqingweijizaochengdedajili，fangzhijiduanhuaxintaihepianjigerenxingweidezaocheng。richangshenghuozhong，xuduoderendaohunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，buqingchuzishengairuheban，zhixiangbamanhuaiyuanqifaxiechuqu，yincidongxiangxianghudepenyoubaoyuansuku，qulingyifangqiyemanhengwulizheixie。zheizhongzuofaquanshibukeyongde，budanbulinantidechulide，fandaohuibaduifangyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。yinci，jinji，fangzhiqingxubuwending，buxubicifenqishenhuaweifeng!

 fangzhilengbaoli。xuduofufurenweihunyinchuxiannantideneishihou，dahuoerxianfenlilizhiyixiaxiahuigengqiang，keyixiangqingxixianghudenantichuxianzainaer，younengfanyingzishenbaorongdaqi。wojuedetashizheizhongxiaochendefangshi，suyushuo“fufuwoshichuangdajiadououchuangjiaohe”，fuqizhijiandeqinmiwujianshizuifeichangdejiaowangfangfa，jiarudajiacaiyonglengbaoli，zongshijiajuweiji，suozaochengdepohuailiyincibizhengzhihaida，duilaopoeryan，guoshanghaorizilemeiyoulaogongdeshiri，fangfomeiyoulaogongbiyoulaogongzaishenpanggengqingqingsongsong，neixinhuiyouzhongshiluoxiaoji，wojuedeshijianyizhangtahaihuiyuanyiwanliulaogong，keshiduanqineineitabeizheileijuedesuomihuo。erlaogongneiyimianyefeichangrongyijibierencuowujihui，yincihuanshiyaoqinfenkaizhanlianggerendegoutongjiaoliuhuihua，fangzhilengbaoli。

 kaizhanhunyinpingding。kangnajiaoshishuo，hunyinpoliezaochenghou，pingjingxialai，lixingduicicideweijizuochupingding，bubiyouyuduociweijijiusuibiandefoudingdiaozishendehunyin。niqidaihunyinlaidaonaxiedechengdu?zheiyinantihenguanjian，bujinjinjianyidewenyiwen，zhishifufubicidouyingdangyaoyoutongyangdezongtimubiao。dangweijichuxianshi，nizishenyaolejiedajiarujindehunyinqingkuangdenaxiemoyangde，duihunyinkaizhanpingding，xiangzhexianghudeshenghuofangshi，gerenaihao，xingqingqiehedu，xiaohaizheixie，zaikaolvdaoshibushizuigailiyi。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?xianghulijie。kangnajiaoshishuo，zaimeiduanhunyinzhong，fufulianggerendesisuofangfa，yishizhuxingshengzhangxixing，baohanjiazhiquxiangyinweifenbiedeliangxingrenwujiaosedexianzhihechengcaibeijingtuqinshenjinglibuyiyang，shimeibanfachaoguoxiangtongde，zheiyejiushishuohunyinzhongmouxienantifeichangrongyichanshengmaodun，shijianyizhangbianweiweijideyuangu。yinci，shizhelizailingyifangdeshijiaoqukankannanti，xiangzhehuanweiniyizhizaineileibiaozhunxia，nihuizenmezuo，youmuyougengqiangdejiejuefangan。xuehaoqianjiulejie，wanjiuhunyinyefeichangrongyideduole。

三、探讨幸福婚姻的必需要素

 zaidangdaihunlianjiaoyouzhong，jinguanyixiefufukanshangqushifenbanpei，tamennancainvmao、jiatingqingkuanghewenpingdoufeichang，zhoubianderendoujuedetamendehunhoushenghuohaowuyiwenhuihemuxingfukuaile，keshishirenchengmujieshedeshitamenjuranlilehun，yuangushisanguanbuhe。wojuede，sanguanbuhejinjintamenliyideyuanyinbale，jingyinghunyinbixufufubicixianghunuli，eryixieyaosushixingfuhunyinbukehuoquede，yuanyihunyinzhangjiuxingfukuaile，nibixumingbaizheizhong。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?mingbaikaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu。weiheyixiefufuchangchangzhengchao，laopohuimaiyuanlaogongjihudoubuqingchutayuanyinaxie，erlaogonghuichizelaopoyizhimanbujiangli、decunjinchi，wojuededaozhineiyangdejushiyouyufuqijianmeiyoukaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu，biruzaihunyinzhongnanshengdeyaoqiushixinlai、jiena、ganxie、zanyang、rentong，ernvxingdeyaoqiu：zhongshi、guanzhu、lejie、tiexin，fuqijianyaoduoguanzhulingyifang，zhangwolingyifangdeniantou，jiyulingyifangzhenshiyuanyide，hunyinnenggougengpingwen。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xianghudounengchangshuangliaotian。zaihunyinzhong，yixiefufudangyouniantoudeneishihouquelinyugenlingyifangshuo，palingyifangduizishenyouqitaguandianhuowuhui，jineryayiganzishendeqingtuyu，neiyangshibulihunyinweichide。youxierenguo：haodehunyinjiushishuoxianghudounengzailingyifangyanqianchangshuangliaotian，xianghudoulejiezishenshibeilingyifangsuojieshoude，erwuxudanyoulingyifanghuiwujiezishen。tashihunyinzhongzuihemudeqingkuang，fuqijiandoushilingyifangjizijihaopengyou，xianghujiaowangshishufuzidede。

 xianghuxieshoubingjiangongtongjinbu。dangdaihunyinquanshichangkaishide，hunhoudeyouhuonaizhibijiehunqianyeyaoduo。erbuguannanrennvren，jiaruniyizhizaihunyinlimeiyouyouhuanyishi，shifangyaliduizishendeguanlifangfa，erlingyifangsuizhinianjidetigao，yanjiehuihenduo，yehuiyulaiyuchengshuqiyoufengcai，shenpangdeyinyoujiuhuihenduo，ruguoniluowuairenguoduodeneishihou，nideairenjiuhuiganjuedajiazhongjianmeiyougongtonghuati，hunwailianyeruqierzhi。xingfuhunyinbixufufuxianghuxieshoubingjiangongtongfendouchengcai，yikuaierlizaixiangtonggaokuanbi，jiandaoyiyangdejingse。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?congbierendeshijiaoshangkan，meiyounantidehunyindaziranburongyilaidaoliyidechujing，daziranshihunyinzhizhongdenantiweihailejiazhongdebuju，ranglaogongdexinligangkaishiduihunyinzaochengxinhandexintai。bukezhifoutaqueshixianghelaopoliyi。zheishilaopodeyiyanyixingdoushiweihaizhelaogongxinlidezhuanbian，sheqiqingxubuwendingdekangzheng，zhaodaodajiazhongjiandenanti，xianjieduanzuiyingdangchulideqingkuang，caikeshiniyulaogongdeguanlianyouzaishengdezhuangkuang。