发现妻子外遇，挽回离婚妻子的正确方法

 qizidehunwaiqingzenmeyang？woxiwangyudaoqizizuobidenanrennenglengjingxialai，xiangxiangtamenshifouzhangqihushileqizizaihunyinzhongdeganshou。ziwofansiduixiufuhunyinhenyoubangzhu。wanhuilihunqizidezhengquefangfayounaxie？

一、发现妻子的外遇该怎么办

1.冷静下来

 lengjingdikandaizheijianshi，renmenzaichongdongshizuochudejuedingwangwangshihouhuidekaishi。suoyimianduirucizaogaodeqingkuang，yidingyaowenwenzijidexin，shitamendefennuhaishizhenzhengdeyili。

ruguonibunengjieshouqizichuguidexianshi，neimejinkuaijieshuhunyinkenengshibicizuihaodejieguo。

2.了解原因

 mianduiqizideqipian，suiranhenxintong，dantamendexinrengranhenaita，tamenzhenxiduoniandeganqing，qizidecuowutaidugenghao，suoyibuyaoyinweinanrensuoweidezunyanhemianzierlihun。renmenbushishengren，dangaishanhenhao。wanhuilihunqizidezhengquefangfayounaxie？

 ruguonixuanzeyuanliangniqizidecuowu，buyaomangmukuanrong。shuangfangyingyoumingquedegoutonghegoutong，zhishaozhaochuqizizuobidezhenzhengyuanyin。

二、妻子外遇，如何挽救出轨的婚姻

1.自我反思

 cangyingbuyaowufengdejidanbingbucucao。shouxian，nidehunyinbixuyouwenti，ranhouhunyinzhongdeyigerencainengzhaodaohunwaideshiwu。yinci，woxiwangyudaoqizizuobidenanrennenglengjingxialai，xiangxiangtamenshifouzhangqihushileqizizaihunyinzhongdeganshou，huozhezhishigenjuzijideganshoumangmudiaita，dantamenjidebushiqizixiangyaode。

zheiyangxiangkenenghuijianshaoduichuguiqizidefennuheyuanhen。tongshiyehuiranglaopojuedelaogongnenglijieta，youzhuyuxiufuganqing。

2.更多的陪伴

 suhuashuo，qianchehouchedelaoshi，suoyizairichangshenghuozhongjinliangduopeipeilaopo。jishitazhishizaizuofandeshihouqingqingbaozheta，huozhehetayiqiguangjiewanxiaoyouxi，yehuirangtajuedebeizhongshi。

 wanhuilihunqizidezhengquefangfayounaxie？aiqingwangwangmeiyoudianyinglineimehonghonglielie。yigeqinmidedongzuo，yigewenroudeyanshen，yigetianmideshiyan，douhuirangnideqizigandaoxingfu。suoyibuyaolinsenideshijianxiangpeiniyibeizidenvren。