挽回妻子得做些什么正确事情，男人应该怎样挽回自己的婚姻

 zairenmendeyinxiangzhong，beipansihushinanrenzaihunyinzhongdetequan，danshishishang，zaixianshishenghuozhong，nvrenzaihunyinzhongyouhenduobeipan，danxiangbizhixia，nanrenzaihunyinzhongyougengduodebeipan。wanhuiqizidezuoxieshenmezhengqueshiqing？

jinnian5yue，tafaxianjiehun12niandeqizizaiwaimianyouqitananren。

 qichu，tacong8suidenverneilidezhi，yigeshushuhetademuqinkaichequjietafangxue。tameiyourenzhenduidai。tayiweizijishiqizidanweidetongshi，shunbiandalegeshunfengche。

 danhoulai，tatingdaoleyixieyaoyan，suoyitakaishimimidiaochahegenzongtadeqizi。zheixiangdiaochaqueshirangtafaxianletaqizihenanrenzaijiudiankaifangdeshishi。

 dezhizhenxianghou，tameiyoufachushengyin，yinweitafeichangaitadeqizi、nverhejiaren。ruguotacichuanlezheizhangzhi，kongpazheigejiahuisankaide。

suoyi，taxinlihentongku，buzhidaoruhemianduihejiejue。tashuotaxiangwanhuiqizidexin，dantabuzhidaocongnalikaishi。

 congwuyuedaoxianzai，tayinweidanxinzhengtianshuibuzhe，tizhongxiajiangle20jin。ruguotajixuzheiyangxiaqu，tashuotakenengzhendehenjusang。

 tebienenglijieduzhedejiaolvduzhedejiaolv。wulunnayifangzaihunyinshenghuozhongbeipan，doushiweibeidaodedixiande。wulunchuyushenmeyuanyin，douhennanbeiyuanliang。

 raner，hunyinbijingshilianggejiatingdejiehe，yuyoueryouguan。yinci，ruguohunyinrengrandejiu，womenyinggaishouxianchangshihuifu。ruguowomenbunenglihun，jiubuyaolihun。wanhuiqizidezuoxieshenmezhengqueshiqing？

neime，ruguoqizibeipanlejiating，nanrenyinggairuhewanjiuhunyinni？

01.先冷静下来，理清思路

xiangxinrenheyigenanrenzaidezhiqizibeipanzijihou，douhuijuedezijidaizhelvmaozi，xinliziranshifennude。

danbuguanniyouduoshengqi，doubuyaoyundao，yinweirenmenjingchangzaifennuzhongzuoyixiefengkuangdeshiqing，zheiduiwanjiuhunyinmeiyouhaochu。

yinci，niyaozuodediyijianshijiushilengjingxialai，liqingnidexiangfa，xiangxiangnimenzhijiandeguanxihehunyinzhuangkuangshifoubukediaohe。

ranhouwenwenziji，zhidaozheijianshihou，nishixiangjixuheqizijiehun，haishixiangmashangheqizilihun？

 shuolihunhenjiandan，minzhengjukeyibanlishouxu，danruguonixiangwanjiuhunyin，nibixuzhaodaowanjiuqizixindefangfa，bingcaiquzhengquedefangfa。

02.坐下来和妻子冷静地交谈，听听她的想法

 shishishang，suizheshijiandetuiyi，renheyiduifufudeganqingdouhuizhujianbiandepingdan，biciyehuizhujianbuzaixiangyiqianneiyangfeixinquguanzhuduifang。

 henduoshihou，yexuzhangqidehushihelengmorangduifangwufarenshouzheizhongzhuangtaixiadehunyin，suoyitamenhuixiangbierenxunqiuanwei，daozhihunyinfashengbianhua。

 jiuxiangwozaiwangshangkandaodeyigegushiyiyang，nvzhujiaozaiwangshangyudaoletazuixihuandenanzhujiao。tamenzaiqqshangliaotian。liaotianhou，tamenfaxiantamenzhuzaitongyigechengshi，zhuzaitongyigeshequ，shenzhizhuzaitongyidonglouhetongyicenglou。

zuihou，tafaxianduifangshitadezhangfu。

 suiranzheijianshihenxijuhua，dantabixuyinqiwomendeshensishulv。zixixiangxiang，shenghuozhongyouduoshaolaofuqiyijinghenjiumeiyouzheiyangyiqiliaotianle，youduojiumeiyouyiqikandianyingle？

 yinci，yiqiedoushiyouyuanyinde。ruguoqizibeipanlezhangfu，zhangfuxiangjiuqizi，tabixuheqizitantan，tingtadexiangfa，wentashifourengranguanxinjiating，shifouhuikaolvhaizideganshou。

 tanhuajieshuhou，ruguoniquedingnideqiziyexiangjixuxiaqu，neijiuhuidaozhengti，wenwennideqiziweishenmebeipanni，yinweinitongchanghushita，huozheyinweiqitayuanyin。

03.原谅妻子，及时纠正自己的不足

 qizibeipanlezheigejiating，zheiduinanrenlaishuoshizuiyouhaide，danruguonixiangranghunyinhuidaoguoqu，nibixufangxiaguoqu，cainengrangweilaiderizihuidaozhengchang。

 yinci，ruguonixiangjiunideqizi，zainiyuanlianglenideqizizhihou，nijiubunengzaibeipanlaihuxiangciji，gengbuyongshuoyitongyangdefangshibaofunideqizile，zheizhihuirangnizaicixianrutongkuzhizhong。

ruguonixiangguoshangmeihaodeweilaishenghuo，nibixuchedifanshen，congxianzaikaishibuyaozaitile。

 ciwai，ruguonizuodebuhao，niyinggaiyouyongqichengrennidecuowu，jishijiuzhengnidewenti，gengguanxinpeibannideqizihehaizi，chengdannanrendezeren。

zheiyang，zheigejiatingjiukeyihexiele。

zhencheng，jinshiweikai，xiangxinzhiyaoniyongyikezhenchengdexin，quduidaizijidehunyin，yiqiedouhuimanmanhaozhuan。

wanhuiqizidezuoxieshenmezhengqueshiqing？zhiyoukuanrongdeaihexianghulijie，nimencainenghuxiangbangzhu，zhidaonimenbianlao。