wanhuiqizidezhengqueliaotianfangfa,yigenvrenduihunyinwanquanshiquxinxin,keyiwuqingdifenshou,yidingshizuoweiyigezhangfu,zuodebugouhao。xuduonanrenxiangzhidao,weishenmewozuolezheimeduo,dantakanbujianni?tayoushenmebumanyideni?
youshi,aitaxuyaorangtazhidao。jiuxiangzuijinliuxingdeju《30sui》zhongdechenyuyiyang,ninengshuotabuaitadeqizizhongxiaoqinma?dangtadezhiqizihuaiyunshi,jitayizhanxiaoyedeng,haipatashuaidao,meicichuchadoujidedailiwu,lihunyuanyijitayibandefangzi。
dangengduodeshihou,tahushilezhongxiaoqin。liru,dangtaxiangrangtajietaxiabanshi,tayijujueweijiekou;tashuolehenduocijialidemensuo,dantameiyouhuan;buguantadaleduoshaodianhua,tazongshibujiehuohuifuxinxi。
nvrenmingan,zhuzhongxijie。dangtajuedezijibugouzhongshishi,tahuiganmao。
shishishang,zhengjiuyigegaibianzhuyideqizibingbunan。nibixujianqineixienicongweizhuyiguodeji,zhuyitadeqingxu,batashuodehuafangzaixinli,yiqiedouyouhuiying。congxijiekaishi,shizhonghuotaxindebiyaojineng。
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1.学会倾听
wanhuiqizidezhengqueliaotianfangfa,zaixuduojiatingzhong,nvxingmeiyoufayanquan,nvxingdeguandianyemeiyoudedaozhongshi。tamenzongshitinghuaderen,nixianghuangdiyiyangfahaoshiling。xianzaihuixiangqilai,nidejiarenyeshizheiyangma?nimeiyoufaxianniqizixiangzainizuojuedingshitingzhishuohuama?
niyoumeiyouzhuyidaozenmebanshi,nizhuyidaotaqingxudiluolema?yexunikenengmeiyouzhaodaota。suoyixianzai,nibufanganxianidashengxuanbujuedingdexiangfa,huitouwentadeyijianheyijian,tingtadexin。woxiangxinhenduorendoukewanglingyibanshitamenzijideqingtingzhe,nenggoulijieziji,zunzhongziji。
2.及时变弱
zainannvguanxizhong,nanrenshiqiangzhe,shide,danzheibingbuyiweizheniyinggaiyongyuanbanyanqiangzhedejiaose。zhengrushangmiantidaode,nvxingyeyouzijidezhiyeshengya,tamenbinanxinggengyouhuoli。dangniyudaojiatingjiufenshi,nikeyishizhefangxianidenanzizhuyi,duinvxingbiaoxianchuruanruo。
dangshuangfangyijianbutongshi,nikeyitingquqizidejianyi,rangtaanzhaozijidexiangfaquzuo。jianeryanzhi,rangnimenxiangchudegengwenrou,buyaorangshuangfangdemaodunjiaju。
3.平等相处
ziguyilai,nvxingjiuxuyaonanxingdezunzhong,zairenheliyimianqiandouxuyaobatamenfangzaihenanxingyiyangdegaodu。nanzunnvbeideguannianzaoyibeixiandaishehuitaotai。zuoweitadelingyiban,niyinggaizhidaoruhezunzhong、pingdengheaishijitazuihaodeai。
zaizuoyixieyujiatingliyiyouguandeshiqingzhiqian,niyinggaixiankaolvtadeganshouheqingkuang。zaiyiqiedouwanchengzhiqian,buyaorangtazhidaojieguo。qingjitaheniyiyangdejuecequan、zhiqingquanhexingdongquan。
4.共同承担
wanhuiqizidezhengqueliaotianfangfa,buyaoyinweinishiyigenanrenerchengdansuoyoudezerenheguocuo,gengbuyongshuoyinweinanrenshidiyige,yaoqiunvrenchengdanyiqie,wulunnazhongqingkuang,douhuirangnvrenjuedejiatingmeiyoucunzaigan,dananzizhuyizhihuizainidewuzhihewuyishizhongeshanideai。biyaoshi,shuangfangfenxiangbeishang,yiqifenxiang,yiqichengzhang,lianggerendexinjianggengjialaogu。
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