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我的回复：

nannvzhijian，congyiqiandeganqingdaohoulaizhishengxiaxing，nvrenyibandouhuishiqu，jishixingbenshennengjinidailaihendadeshentimanzu。

 chufeiniyizhiduizheigerenyoujudadeai，fouzenihenkuaijiuhuishiqupingheng。niduizheigerendeainengxiaohaoduoshaonian？ruguonizhendeaizheigeren，kenengxuyaosanwuniandeshijian，danshiguolehenzhangyiduanshijian，nizuizhonghuijileihenduoshiwang，youqishidangduifangzaihenduofangmianzuodebuhaodeshihou。

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