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1、情侣吵架是“视角”问题,而不是“是是非非”问题
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2、学会发散思维,找到造成婚姻危机的缘故
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3、要有效的沟通,学会聆听,让另一方把话说完
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4、接纳犯错的人,而不是个人行为
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5、灵便运用身体语言,向另一方意见反馈你的情意
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6、五十步笑百步,孝敬ta的父母
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