怎么样挽回婚姻？如何拯救出轨婚姻？

zenmeyangwanhuihunyin？yidantaruhunyinshengdian，fufubiciyizhihuiduibicizhijianwujinshuipingderenshou，danweiyouqianshedaochuguideqingkuangxia，beichuguifangyizhiwufarenshoude，erhunyinlimaixiangzhongdianyemeiduojiule。yinciburongzhiyidi，chuguishihunyindejiaodaxiongshou。yinqihunhouchuguideyinsuxuduo，liru：fuqixingshenghuowufadedaodadao;zaijiatingshenghuozhongtihuibushanglaopo/laogongdewenxin;qianquexianghulijieguanai;jiatingdiweibuhexie...suiranhunhouchuguiduilingyifangdayashenda，danzhongjiufuqizhijianhaicunyouqinggan，bingqiehaiyaokaolvdaojiazhonghuoxiaohai，yincihunyinjishizaoshouchugui，yiranhuichuxianhenduorenyaoxiangzhengjiuhunyin，qidainengzhongyuan。genjuzheiyangdeshiqing，zenyangzhengjiuchuguihunyin?neiyangcaikeyiwanhuihunyin!

1.从认错心态上剖析这一段婚姻是不是真得非常值得挽留

wulunheshi，xintaiquanshihenzhongyaode，jiaruchuguifangzaizheiyangdeshiqingxiahaiyifu“tiandiweiwuduzun”deshenqing，neimenimeiyoubiyaozaixiaohaoxiangfale，lijigenta/tafenlicaisuanshizuiqiadangdejuece。cizhinixuyaolizhi，youkuyounaowujiyushi，nixuyaorenzhendicongjiabaolihunderencuoxintaizhongtingta/tashifouyouyishidaofancuowudeshizhishisha，bixutingjiantakenengruhejiuzhengruhetianbuzishendeguoshi，zhihoujiangyishenmeyangdexintaikandainigennimendehunyin，lejiedaozheizhongcaiyouzizhishuobeiraoshu，meiyouzheizhongderencuo，shifousuanshixiqujiaoxun，rencuoyequanshihuchefuzaibiaocengbale，yejiushishuo，jiushita/tabuchongzuzaiyi、buchongzurenketa/tacuo。

2.寻找出轨的因素并沿着它处理

suhuashuodehao，jielinghaixuxilingren。yaoxiangzhengjiuchuguidehunyin，jiupobudeyishizhechulizaochengfashenghunhouchuguideyixiewenti，duizhengzhiliao。ruguoshiyinweifufubiciquefagoutongjiaoliu，hebuduohuayidianshijianpeita/ta，weicizaicilajinbicijianju;jiarushinanxingyishimeifaezhizhuwaibuyinyouerzaochengdekuguo，nvxinghebujiyubaorong，zhongjiunanshengxinlihuoshigengweiaizheniyujiatingde，tadechuguijintuyishizhile……jiaruzaochengchuguideyixiewentidounenggouhuodechuli，neimaxiamianyaokaolvdaobianshiraoshulingyifangshifoujiqixiamiangongchuzhongbixuliuyidewentile。

3.尝试问一问自身的心

hunyinbingbushirenqing，chukaifufubicideqingganzuoqiaoliangweichizhezhiwai，yeyoujiazhong、qinqipengyoujiqixiaohaizidejiban，bingbushishuoduanjiunengduanneimafeichangrongyi。jiejuelezaochengchuguidewentiyihou，hebuchangshiwenyiwenzishendexinshibushihainengjienalingyifang，bubishouyiqieshehuiyulunhezhouweirentiyideweihai，yanzhezigedexinzou，jiaruxiangzhengjiuhunyinbianquxingdong。

4.不必一直挂在口边

zenmeyangwanhuihunyin？bicizhongguiyuhaohou，xuduofufuzaihoumiandegongchuzhongyibushunxinbianhuidanzhanxinjing，danxinchuguifangyouhuizaicimaixiangchuguizhitu，changchangyikoutoushangjingshiquanjieta/tayiqiandechuguigerenxingweizishenyiranhaijide，qidaijiecijihuizuodaofangzhilingyifangchuguidemudi。shishishang，zheihuirangchuguifangyoujiaodadegongzuoyali，gengweifeichangrongyizaiduchugui。jiranjueceraoshu，neimajiujilingyifangyicijihui，bubizongnayiwangdeshizairenjiaerduolimianbiantaolao，yaoburanshijianyizhang，yidinghuichuxiande。