shuangzizuoxinggejinglingguguaidexingzi,yihuiernuqichongchonglingrenkehenyoukebei,yihuierchuanchuyinlingyiyangdeweixiaoshenshendixiyinzhunidejizhongzhuyili,yihuierzhouzhemeitouzhuangdichen。jiujingna1gesuanshizhenshidetani?shuangzizuoxinggezenyang?shuangzizuoxinggetedianyouyounaxieni,wangbianrangnijieshi!
shuangzizuoxinggezenyang,tongchangrenjuedejuxiezuoshishuangmianren,jubeishuangzhongxingge。zheiyouyutongchangrendaoguancharendeneishihou,jiuquezhuanbianguanchashijiaodegongzuonengliyinfa。1ge「jianrenshuorenhua,zhuangguishuoguihua」dejuxiezuo,bijubeifeichangqiangdeyuyanbiaodajiqiaojigoutongxiediaonengli,talingwaizhangworenyugui,quebukeyiyinerguandiantashijirenqiegui,huoqiaolikegui,naizhishuotaburenbuguide。tazhiduicunyouyuyuzhoukongjianzhongjiandeshiqing,bipingchangrenduoyifenyinhaoqixinerhuodedelijienengli。yiner,yaozhangwojuxiezuo,nideqiuzhiyuyulijienenglidoubukeyihencha。
一、在干脆利落中有很多无法切分的层级
shuangzizuoxinggetedianshichayanguanse,shijuxiezuorendecongmingcaizhi。zaijiatadeyanjiangkoucai,tayizhixunsubiannenghelizhangwozhutarendesixu,bingshuodonglingyifang。
juxiezuorendemeimuhetadeshouhejiaoxiangtonggancuililuo,danzaigancuililuozhongyoudaizhuhenduowufaqiefendecengji;gangzhongdairou,xiertailuan。shicehuayuguanlifangfadanweinannengkeguideyouxiurencai。bingqietadeshixinggongzuonengliyiqiang,jinjinjiaobuxinrentaren,ningyuanduziyirenjienatiaozhan。biewuhuitashineileixiailangongzaishenderen,tajinjinsuojieshouyinggaideshulieryi。
juxiezuoderenaiming,danyoubukenlangdexuming,taxiaizishenbianchengtarenxinzhongzhongde「shilipaiyanyuan」renyuan。taxiaixueqishilaihuishenghuise,suiwuxubixuyaodushuyizhi,queyejuebixujianchibuxiezishendeyuzhongbutongshejifengge。tafeichanggaoxingyuanqinjinlinlejietashi1geyoushande、xiangyaoxiezuode,queburongyiyibiansuoyourenbiequzishen,shizishenkanshangquyongsu、xiangyuan。
二、求生信念与取胜心,使他患上冠军
gonggongchanghehuozhuoxiabiandekangzheng,juxiezuodoubuganxinjuxiafeng。yaoshibixu,gouxindoujiao,talaizhebuju。danshi,tabujuededouzhengshigaojirenmensuodangwei,yaoshibeichejindidengrenmendezhengduozhong,tayejuebunengxiucaibeibingqi;qiushengxinnianyuqushengxin,shijuxiezuohuanshangxuduoguanjun。yexuwubizhongshitazheixieguanjunlaizhibuyi。
juxiezuoderenyuanweiyicanzhongdegongzuojingyanlaihuodezhenguidejingyanjiaoxun。taoqianjingyanjiaoxun,doushijingchangchuxiandeshi。jiarutazaishuodongnideneishihou,banlitadeqinshenjingyan,yexurengmiandaiyisehuobuxundeshense,tabizaiyijuzengsongniyiduanhua:「nitingdaolaonianrenyan,chidakuizaiyanxia。neishihouruhekedoubuqingchu,bingqiesiyouyugue!」tabuyuanganyunideshi。danniruguoyizhaoshangtafalaosao,taquanni,nitingdao,tabianhuiyangediweixiagekongbudeyuyan。zhunjinzhi?neixukanjiniduobudongshicailejie。
三、好玩儿、爱动、好奇心,注重共通性
juxiezuoderen,caihuayangyizhe,bingjubeikangyaqiangdudeganzhaoli。youyutamenshanyuyouxizhongdefenweizhong,qinmijiechuni,fenlienidejunshi,zhengqueyindaonikaifashejizishenyinnidekaixindegongzuonengli。
haowaner、aidong、haoqixin,shijuxiezuoxiangyikezhandongnanxiudehuomiao,shiqiangshiruo,quejuebuchuimie。tamenjinglichongpei,duigongzuozhongyongxin,duipenyoujiangaiyi,duigongzuoliyuxunxin。keshitadelianren,quechangbeitanongdepibeibukan,tadeqinrenyejingchangyinweitadexintaigaodejiquanbuning!zenmehuishi?juxiezuonanyirenshouyonghengbubiandeguanlian,gudingbudongdeshiqingshitashuaituidehenkuai,yeshitasuoaideduixiangshuaituidehenkuai。
seshuaiaichi,tashiqueshi。duijuxiezuoeryan,jingshenshizhijiushise。yejiushishuowomenzhongguorenchangshuode“qi”。yizhilishangxialezijidechenggongyushibai,taguidingzishen,yeguidingtaren。danshi,bingfeihendaiban;youshitaduizishenhuisongyidianer,duitarenyanyidianer。
“qiongzebian,bianzetong,xizeda。”tashikonglaofuzishuode。queyezhengqiaoshijuxiezuodeweirenchushiguan。tamenxiai「huidongnaozi」deren。
四、放宽情绪人生如梦
kanke、guiyideqifenzhong,juxiezuoderenwendaoganqingdezujile。tagangkaishifanfutuiqiao,xiangdao,buduanfenbian。tatiaodouni,nideyangchu,burongyixunsuduinishuozhenshidehanyi。nidejingdeqitadetiaodou,youchushibujing。zhizhitashuoming“laibalaiba,jingongwo”,nicainenggouzhenshigongjian。danbiegaoxing,taburongyineimesuibianbeigongzhan,jibianmanxiangbeinigongzhan,tayexiangyaonipeita“wan”shangmeiduan。nihenjianghuiganjuetazaichaimoni,bibushangfangkuanxionghuai,ninongqingchurenshengrumeng,jiuburongyineimayuantale。
juxiezuoshizuiquweidelianren。ganqingdeshoujiyouxi,tabaiwanbuni,erqiehuashiwuhuabamen,zhiyaonibukeyiyutayikuaierxiangyouzheiyizhongleideganqingweidao,bibushangjinzaodatuitangguba。
hunyinshenghuo?zheileibeifalvfaguiquebao(haikeyishuojushu)deganqingguanlian,duijuxiezuoderenlaijiang,queshikuzao。dantabingbushineileizixiaojiubaodushenzhuyideren,zhibuguoshiruguolihunlejiumeibanfaerhuneryi。
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