走不出老公背叛的阴影怎么办，走不出老公出轨的阴影怎么办

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一、调整心态，迎接重生

 huanjuhuashuo，zaihunyinzhong，dangyigenanrenchuguishi，shiyigenvrendezhongsheng，huolihun，zhongxinhuodeziyou；huozhezhangda，guoshangmeihaodeshenghuo！jirannixuanzeleyuanliang，nijiubixudiaozhengnidetaidu。

 zheibushinidecuo，nimeiyoucuo，nishishouhaizhe，tayinggaishoudaodaodeqianze。diaozhengnidexintai，jijimianduishenghuo，nihuibaituobeishang，ranhounihuizhongsheng，zhanfangchengyizhihudie！

二、改变自己，不要试图改变男人

 gaibianzijihenrongyi，dangaibianbierenquehenkunnan，youqishineixielijingpandaoderen！niyinggaizixifenxinanrenchuguideyuanyin。zhaochuzhenzhengdeyuanyin，ranhouzhaodaogaibianhejiejuewentidefangfa。zoubuchulaogongchuguideyinyingzenmeban？

 liru，nimendeguanxihenjiuyiqianjiuyouwentilema？haishinijiehunle？nibugoumirenma？jixing？buhaowan？shiyinweiniduiyigenanrentaiyangele，taxianglijiachuzouma？zhiyouzhaodaojutidewenti，womencainengjiejuewenti，zhaochunanrenchuguideyuanyin，conggenbenshangjiejuenanrenchuguidewenti！

三、让自己经济独立

 zhiyoudangnizaijingjishangdulishi，nicaiyouquandulijiaotan。fouze，nijiangbudebuyifuyunanren！ruguonixiangqulvxing，dannimeiyouqianmaipiao；ruguonixiangyaoqingnidepengyouheqinqiquyijiagaodangcanting，dannimeiyouqianzhifu。

 ruguonixiangmaiyijianpiaoliangdemingpailianyiqun，danyinweinimeiyouqian，nizhinengqushangdianmaibianyihuo。nimeiyouqian。niwanquanyikaoxiangnanrenyaoqian。dangnichaojiashi，nizhinengditouyiciyouyicidiyaoqian。nihuodetaibeiweilema？

四、多交朋友，认识几个好姐妹

 jiejiaogengduodepengyou，renshigengduodejiemei。ruguonibeiyuanwangle，zhishaoyouyigedifangkeyitanlunhekuodanideshejiaoquan。nihuifaxianniyudaoderenyueduo，nikandaodedongxijiuyueduo。

 zoubuchulaogongchuguideyinyingzenmeban？tahuimanmandibanicongnideshijiemenmianshanglachulai！niyueshangxin，nijiuyuebudaizaijiali，nijiuyueshangxin，nijiuyuebubizui，chuqusanbu，nijiuhuizhaodaolingyigeqiantuguangmingdecunzhuang！