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 woheyigepengyouliaotian。zaitandaotazhangfudechuguixingweihou，tayuanbenjihuayutalihun，dantadezhangfujianjuebutongyi，bingxiangtachengnuo。tafashi，zhiyaotabulihun，tajiuhuigaiguozixin，wanquanhuitoukan。chuguinanrennengzhenzhenghuitouma？

 congneishiqi，tajiangbaochizijideanquan，zhangfuheqizijiangguoshangmeihaodeshenghuo。zaizhangfuderuanmohekusedeqitaoxia，zaijiashanglianggehaizidenianling，wodanxinlihunhuiduitamenzaochengshanghai，buliyuhaizidejiankangchengzhang，suoyiwoquanhenglelibi，sansierhouxing，zuihouyuanliangleta，jiletayigegaiguozixindejihui。

 suiranfeichangtongku，danworenweiruguoduifangsuoshuodeshizhende，neimejingguoshuangfangdegongtongnuli，suizheshijiandetuiyi，yiqiedouhuibiandegenghao。worenweishijiankeyichongdanhegaibianyiqie，danshishiyuanbushiwoxiangxiangde。

 chuguiyuqitashanghaiwanquanbutong。ruguonixiangwanquanfangxiata，zhenzhengyuanliangduifangbingburongyi，yongyijuliuxingyulaishuo“tainanle”jinguanyonggezhongfangshibuduandianshihetixingzijiwanquanyuanliangduifang，danshihennanzuodao，bunengzhenzhengyuanliang。

 suiranwomendeshiqingyijingguoqulejinian，suiranmeigerendoujinlezuidadenuli，danrengranmeiyoudadaoyuqideyuanwang，shouxiaoshenwei，“hehaoruchu”chuncuidehuanxiangheshechi，gengbuyongshuo，“ruchu”，lian“hehao”wobunengtanlunta。

 shenghuohenjiannan。zongyougezhonggeyangdetongkupeibanzhewo。tingwantadehua，“suku”bixuchengren，hennanwanquanyuanliangchuguixingwei。xuduoshoushangdefunvyizhishuoyaoyuanliangduifang，danninengwanquanyuanliangnanrendechuguixingweima？zheikenengbushinisuoxiangde。

tongchangyousanzhongtongkuwufabaituo，zheihuikunraohezhemoniziji。

第一就是“关联”痛苦

 yidanyigenanrenchuguibeipan，duiyigenvrenzaochengshanghai，neimezheizhongtongkujiangyongyuanliuzaixinli，zhiyaochumojiangshiweiruodetongku，danxinhehaipazheifangmian，zhiyaoshejiyidian，jiangyuzijilianxi，jiangshixintong。

 liru，meidangnitingdaohekandaobierenchuguirenheshiqing，huitongqing，bushufu，dangbierentanlunzheiyangyigehuati，jianglijiyutamendenanrendewufarenshoudejingli。

 zheiyiweizheshuohuazheshiwuyide，tingzheshiguyide，zheirangtagandaofeichangbushufuhebushufu。jishishiwenxue、yingshizuopinhewangluoxinxiyehuijiangqiyuzijidecankaoziliaojinxingbijiao，shitatongkubukan。

 raner，zaizheigeshihou，tayouyizhongqiguaierbuzhengchangdexinli，neijiushi，tazhidaorenheyuchuguiyouguandeshiqing，zhiyaoyouyucixiangguandexinxi，jiuhuiyuzijidejingliyouguan，zaochengtongku，dantawufabaituo。tatebierezhongyuheguanzhuzheixieshiqing，tebieguanzhuheguanzhuzheixieshiqing。

 zuizhongmubiaoshicongzheixielizizhongxuexiduizijiyouyongdedongxi，kankanqitarenruhemianduihechulizheixiewenti，yijiqitarendejieguoshishenme。raner，zaizheigeguochengzhong，ruguonibuduandichujinineixindeshanghai，rangzijigandaotongku，jiuhennanfangshou。chuguinanrennengzhenzhenghuitouma？

 nidexinlihuichuxianyichang，yincihennanzhenzhengjieshouduifang，tongshi，yehennanyijijidetaiduduidaiduifang，yeburongyiyizhengquedefangshiduidaiduifang。zheiyang，shuangfanghennanxiangchurongqia。

第二就是“猜疑”困难

 suhuashuo“yichaobeisheyao，shinianpajingsheng”，yidanyigenanrenchugui、beipanheshanghailetadeqizi，tadexinrentixijiuhuibeifuqichedicuihui。

 haowuyiwen，tadeqizihuiwanquanshiquduinanrendexinren，zheikeyishuoshixiaoshile。ciwai，youyuzheizhongxingweizaochengdebuchengshihennanxiufuhezhongjian。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，dangyigenanrenhuilaichuguishi，tadeqizibiaomianshangshiyuanliangtade，danduinanrendebuxinrenshiwufaxiaochude。

 congneishiqi，woduinanrengandaobuan，meiyouanquanganheanquangan。nvrenhuiduinanrenbiandeminganheduoyi，bingqiehuibuduancaiyi。tamenzhengtiandouzaizhuafengzhuoying，duoyi，shenjinggaodujinzhang。

 tamendanxinnanrenhuizaiciyoubuzhengdangdexingwei。tamenjingchanghuaiyinanrendeyanxing，buzaixiangxintamendexingwei。nanrenshuoshenme，shengpatamensahuang，ruguonixiangyinmanshenme，nizongshixiangnongqingzhenxiang，buduanzhiyinanrenzaijialidezhengchangqingxubodonghebianhua。

 tamenhuixiangdaowaimianshifouyourenguanxin，suoyitamenhuizuolibuan。tamenhuiguaiwanmojiao，shituzhidaoyuanyin。dangnanrenzhengchangwaichushi，tamenhuidanxinzijishifouzaiwaimianzuorenheshiqing，bingjianchashishiqingkuang。

 jishishiwanshoujihediannaodenanrenyehuicaicetamenshifouyuneigenvrenyoulianxi。tamenzongshiyaozixidiaocha，jishizaizheigeshihou，jishishinanrenduizijidetaiduhebiaoxianyehuichanshenghuaiyi。ruguotamenxiangzhidaozhenzhengdeyuanyin，duizijihenhao，tamenhuikaolvzheijiahuoshifouzaiwaimianzuocuoshi。

 zaiwomianqianjiazhuangreqing，yanshiheyinman，guyimabiziji，danruguoyigenanrenduizijibuhao，tahuilikexiangdaozheigemeiyouliangxinderen。tazaiwaimianyoumeiyouxinqingren，kaishibuxihuanziji。

 suoyouzheixiedourangnvxingzaigegefangmiandouhuaiyi、huaiyihetongku，ernanxingshenghuozaizheiyangyigezhangqibushouxinrendehuanjingzhong，tamengandaojusanghefannao。fuqizhijianyidingyouhenduomaodunhechongtu，suoyihennanhexiexiangchu。

第三就是“疏离”悲伤

 duiyunanrenchuguidehuigui，womenkeyibatadingyiwei“pojingzhongyuan”，er“pojingzhongyuan”jieguoshishenme？buyaneryu，jingziyijinghuaile。

 pinjiehou，suirankeyishiyong，danliefengzongshicunzaide，wufaxiaochu。neimenanrenchuguiyouhuilaiyeshiyiyangde。nanrendeshanghaixingweidapolefuqiguanxi。suirantadeqiziyuanliangletadexingwei，dantazaicijieshoulezheigenanren，zhongxinkaishi。

 zheigeguochenghepinjiejingmeiyoushenmebutong。suirantamenjixushenghuozaiyiqi，dantamenzhijiandeqingganliehenrengrancunzai。zhiyaoyouliefeng，wulunliefengdedaxiao，doubiranhuiyoufengxihegehe，yongyuanbuhuizairongweiyiti。

 zheiyang，shuangfangjiuhuiyouyizhongwuxingdeshuligan。tamenzhijiansihuyouyigekanbujiandezhangai，wufatupo，raner，tazongshirangrenwufawanquanjiejin，tebieshiyidantamenxiangdaohuoshejichugui。

 zheihuirangrengandaofeichangbushufu，jiaqiangzheizhongshuyuangan，shuligangengjiamingxian。zheizhongnanyijiejinheyuanlidejinglishifeichangbushufude。mianduimianhexinlingzhijiandebuhexieshibukejieshoude。

 chuguinanrennengzhenzhenghuitouma？tamenbiaomianshanghenhexie，jiazhuangheaikeqin。tamenzhishixuxinyingdui，zheishiyizhongxingshi。tamenjiuxiangyanxi，dantamendexinhenshuyuan，ruguonizhangqishenghuozaizheizhongguanxizhong，nihuigandaowuliaohebeishang。zhiyaonibunengwanquanbaituozheizhongshuligan，jiumeiyoubanfashuokuanshu。