失去真诚和信任的夫妻要不要离婚，夫妻合不来该不该离婚

 zhencheng、xinren、titieshifuqishenghuozhongzuikeguidedongxi。yiduanhunyin，libukailianggerendegongtongnuli，ruguozaizheiduanhunyinzhong，fuqishiqulezhenchenghexinren，yinggaixuanzelihunma？fuqihebulaigaibugailihun？

 zaiwomentanlunwomendeguandianzhiqian，womenyinggaimingque，shifuqishiqulezhenchenghexinren，haishizhiyouyifangshiqulezhenchenghexinren？

有两种情况

 diyizhongqingkuangshiwoduinimeiyouchengyihexinren，niduiwoyeshiruci。erqie，womenshuodeshisanfenzhen，qifenjia，huozhedoushijiahua。meiyouyigeshizhende，youqishinanren。hunqianhuayanqiaoyuqipianleguoqudenvren。hunhou，tamenrengrantongguogezhongfangshishiyonghuayanqiaoyu，daozhitamenyoubutongdeyitu。

 dierzhongqingkuangshi，zhiyouyifangshiqulezhenchenghexinren，zheiyiweizhe，woduinizhencheng，duinixinren，danniduiwomanzuipaohuoche，buxinrenwo。

情况一的夫妻

 zhongsuozhouzhi，zhenchenghexinrenshihunyindejishi。meiyouzheiliangduifuqi，tongchanghennanxingfu。xiangbi，hunyinyijingmingcunshiwang。hunyinmingcunshiwang，yiweizhemingyishangdefuqiguanxiyirancunzai，danshijishangyijingxiaowang，youqishiyulequandemingxing。nimenzhongdexuduorenkanqilaihenyouaixin，zaiwangshangbiaoyan。fensimenzhufugezhonggeyangdezhufu，danshishishang，zheizhishibierenxiangxiangnizhanshide。zhenzhengdeyuanyinzaoyimingcunshiwang。

情况二的夫妻

youshihou，zaihunyinzhong，zijitaoxintaofeiduilingyibanfuchuzhenchenghexinren，danduifangsihubumaizhang，gennibushuoshihua。

 biru：shenmedoutingmamadehua“mabaonan”，beizheqizibajialideqianjimuqin，muqingaosutabunenggaosuniqizi，tazhendebuhuishuo。

 woshenzhitingmamadehua，xiangxiaotouyiyangbaohuwodeqizi。tanbaishuo，nvrenhezheiyangdenanrenshenghuozaiyiqihenlei，meiyoutamadehao。fuqihebulaigaibugailihun？

zuizhong，qiwangbianchengshiwang，shiwangduobianchengjuewang，juewangzhihoujiushixinsi，bulihundaduoshijianghui。

hunyinzuidadebeiaishi:fuqishiquzhenchenghexinren

 zaizheigelihunlvgao、chongmanyouhuodeshidai，meiyouzhenchenghexinrendefuqifeichangbeishang，hennanjixuxiaqu。weishenme？yinweizaishiquzhenchenghexinrenzhihou，fuqihenrongyichanshengbeipandexiangfa。youxierenyexiangtaolitamendejiating，renweitamendelingyibanburuwaimiandehao，shenzhiwaimianzuodeshiwuyebijialidehao。

 jishiyifangzhishirenweitameiyouzheiyangzuo，zhishiyutarenchuixuhemolengliangke，danglingyibankandaozheizhongxingweishi，tahuiyouwujindehuaiyi、huaiyihebuduandejieshi。nixiangdetaiduo，yiyibuda。yuanyinshinijieshideyueduo，duifangjiuyuehuaiyi。

shiwen，nimeiyoubeipandexin，weishenmeyaozuoyixierangduifanghuaiyideshiqingni？

背叛有两种

1.精神背叛

2.行为背叛

 buguanshinayige，doubuzhideyuanliang，huidapozhiqianxinxinkukujianlidexinren。yidanxinrenbeidapo，jiuhennanxiufu，shenzhihuichufa“pochuangxiaoying”。

破窗效应是什么？

zheishiyishanwanzhengdechuanghu，dangmeiyourenzhudongdapotashi，tajiuhuiyongyuanwanhaowusun。

erdangyigerenzhudongdapochuanghu，yemeiyoujishixiufushi，bierenjiuhuibuyouzizhudiqumofang，dapogengduodechuanghu。

 fuqizhijiandexinren，jiuxiangzheigebolichuang，yidanyourenzaihunyinzhongpolie，henkenenghuiyouliansuofanying，daozhiduifangdemofanghuobaofu。

feichangxiaojidexingweishi：nibeizhewotou，woyebeizheni，womenlianggebanjinbaliang，sheiyebushuoshei。

shuoshihua，xianzai，sheidehunyinjueduiwanmei？

 meigejiatingdouyouzijidenanjing，zaihaodehunyinyeyouyixiewenti，danwulunshishenmeyangdewenti，doubunengrangfuqizhijiandezhenchenghexinrenxiaoshi。

 yinweizheishizuijibendehunyin，ruguonishenzhishiqulezuijibende，buyaotanlunweilai，yexucongyigejiatingdaolianggejiating，congqingrendaozuishuxidemoshengren……

 fuqihebulaigaibugailihun？zongzhi，hunyinbenshenjiushibicideguanxi“quedian”huozhe，dangzhenchenghexinrenchuxianwentishi，yaojishijiejuezheigewenti，qianwanbuyaorangtafazhan，neiyangduijiatinglaishuo，meiyourenhehaochu。