花镇咨询投诉你是怎么一步步在爱情里走上绝路的？

dajiachangshuo：weirenchushi，huazhenzixuntousu，yidingyaozuoyigeshanjierenyideren。

keshi，niganleshanjierenyiderenyihou，huodeleshenme?

huoshineiyanglaiwen，niyizhizaiganqinglishanjierenyile，jieguojiuyidingshihaodema?

不一定。

我举个事例而言：

 haozhangshijianyiqianyouneiyangyigeshili——ahebzaiyiqimingqueqinglvguanlianyoudabannianshangxia，dabannianyihou，adeqianrennvyouczhaodaoaheb，shuozishendelaolaoshiriwuduole，xiangzaibishangyanyiqianzaikanyixiaaheczaiyiqidemoyang。youyucyizhimeiyougaozhizishendelaolaotazaoyiheatichufenshoudekeguanshishi。

 yinci，zailijingyiduanshijiandedanxinyihou，byuanyilecdeguiding，rangzishendenanpengyoualinshidangzuoyixiacdenanpengyou。danshi，xiangbudaoqueqinzirangzishendeganqingtarulesilu。yihoudeyigeduoyueli，achangchangwangcdelaolaoneibianpao，hecyeyulaiyuqinmiwujian。yigeyueyihou，ahecliangrenxuanbulingjiehunzhengjielehun，yuangushicdelaolaoxiangzaizouyiqianjiandaoliangrenwanhun。

zuizhong，zheiyiduan3gerendexiaogushili，zhiliuyouleyilianmengbideb。

zaizheigeshilizhong，bbianshiyigekendingshanjierenyideren。zaizheiliduanqinggandangzhong，bshinageyizhititarenkaolvderen。

keshi，niyizhititarenkaolv，nizijini?

谁又来替你考虑呢?

huanjuhuashuoeryan，zaiganqingliyiweishanjierenyi，zongshirangzishenbianchengbeipaoqidenage。

为什么呢?

 ganqingzishenbianshiliangrenzhongjiandeshier，shimeiyoudisangerentianjiadehenyoukenengde。keshi，jiarunitaiguo“shanjierenyi”le，babenyingliangrendeguanliandakaileyigedaikuankouzi，rangdisangerenyizhengciyandetianjiajinqu。wojuedebianshiyinlangrushime?

 yinci，zaiganqingli，liangrendoushiyouzhudongquan，bingqie，douyingdanghuxiangzunzhongxianghudezhudongquan。zuoyigezaiganqingzhongyoudaodedixianderen，bichengyigeshanjierenyideren，gengguanjian。

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你的界线在哪儿?

dajiadouzhidao，meiyigerendangjinshijiecunhuo，quanshiyoufenbiedejiexiande。

dangzishendejiexianbeitishengdeqingkuangxia，kendingshibeinanshou、naonu、dichuzheixieyiqiexintaibaoweizhede。

keshi，niqingchuma，jiusuanshizaihunyinguanxizhong，liangrenyeyingdangyouxianghudejiexian。

henduorenbulijiezheiyidian，meishier，dajiajugeshilikanlai：

 huazhenzixuntousu，ahebzaiyiqihenduonian，congtanlianaizourulehunyin，congerrenshijiebianchenglesankouzhijia。danshi，yijianshieryizhirangashifennanshou。neibianshi，bchangchangrangzishenhetayiqizuoyixiebingbuyuanzuodeshier。liru，benlaizishenjinrifeichangleile，bquepianyaoyaolazhezishenjihaizizuoshougongwanju;huoshi，zongsuanpandaojiaqi，xiaohaizaizhangbeineibianguo，benrenweinengxiexijiri，queyaobeiblazhejuhuihuodong、chupenyou。

 zhangqixingchulai，ajuedezishenshenxinpibei，fumianqingxuyeyulaiyuduo。zongsuanyouyitian，ajinbuzhugenbtanpaile，shuozishencongcichibuxiaoneiyangderichangshenghuole。byilianchayidehuifudao：“yuanyiweinihenxihuanzheileishenghuoxiguanni?yiqianwomenbingbushichangchangneiyangme?”

zaizheigeshilizhong，bianshiyouyuliangrenxianghuzhijianmeiyoujiexian，caihuidaozhizheileiqingkuang。

 shijishang，hunyinguanxizhongliangrendejiexian，shigengyingdangkeshouzhude。zhengyouyuwoliangshixianghuzuiqinmijiechuderen，jiugengyingdangqingxixianghujianshenmejiaonenggou zuode，shenmejiaobunengzuode;shenmejiaoxiangyaozuode，shenmejiaobuyuanzuode。

jiaruhunyinguanxizhongdelianggerenmeiyoujiexian，huizaochengerzhongjieguo：

yaobu，liangrenyannianyizhongkunfuguanlian;