突破前任内心防御，重新在一起的花镇教育挽回秘诀

dangganqingdaoshangcuobai，huazhenjiaoyu，chukaixinlixintaidezhuanbianyiwai，juedaduoshunvhaidouhuichiyishibushiyaotiaoxuanwanliu。

 wangwanghuizaochengneiyangdeyuangu，dayueshizaishizheyihou，quefajuetayiranailibuli，erdangzainijinghuangxia，buyouzizhudezuochulebulizhigerenxingwei，erzaizheizhongbulixingxingweizhihou，tazhujianyouyideshengshuni。

shibushiyaozaicijianchidaodi，tiaoxuanwanliuzheiyiduanganqingni?

 shijishang，zheigewentidehuida，chedizainideneineixin。ruonijuede，henyoukenengyihouhuichuxiangengqiangdeganqing，huoshiyezaidanyou，jibiannengwanliuzheiyiduanganqing，danzaiyihouyunyingzhonghenyoukenenghaihuijixuzoulaolu，neimejiuyingyongdetiaoxuansheqi;ziran，jiarunibushedezheiyiduanganqing，ganjuetabianshiduideren，yeshiyouxinxinnengzaicicaokongzheiyiduanganqing，neimejiudandadetiaoxuanwanliu。

ziran，tiaoxuanwanliu，bingbushijinimangzhuangqianxing，taiguodesaoraota，naizhikaizhanyixieweihaixingdegerenxingwei。

 shijishang，zaidangtagennimingquetichufenshoudeshihou，yidingyiweizhetashiyongxinde，nenggennimingquetichutichufenshou，yidingshijingguobuxiefendoushizhe，danzuihouhuanshifajuemeifazaicijianchidaodi。ruocikenitiaoxuanwanliu，jibianduinilaishuoshidixiatouchengrencuowu，neimaqingshen，danduitalaijiang，zheijinjinyizhongjiuchanbuqing，yezongshishitaxiangdaoganqingzhongzaoshoudesunhai，youzenmekenenglikejiutongyinilei?

 yinci ，huazhenjiaoyu，congcikekaishi，zhongzhisaorao，buyaozaicizaochengtadedichu，lijidaqiderenketichufenshoudekeguanshishi。zaizheiliyijieduanzhong，shitayouyigexingxianghuadefanying，yishidaonibingbushitaxinlisuogandeneimamanbujiangli。

挽留，从不是一蹴而就，只是一个由浅入深的全过程，绝大多数女孩在被分手后，意识到自身没法从这一段感情中抽身出来，就恨不能马上挽留另一方，不断的明确提出复合型要求，但最后都不可置否的不如人意。

 rujindeta，duinidefuwutaidudeyuangu，laiziyuduiganqingdefouren，danshijishangdajiasheidoulejie，dajiadeganqingjinguanyeshiyouguoshi，danzhongjiuxingfukuailechaoguozheixiebuyukuaide，bingqiechuxiannantiyejinjinyishide，zonghuiyoujiejuefangan。

 ziran，zuihouzaocheng dajiafenshoudeyuanyin，yeshichuxiannanti，sheidoubuyuanyichuli，zuihounantiehua，fenqimengzeng，zuihoucaihuishitamingquetichutichufenshou，erqiezaixinliduidajiadeganqingzaochenggehe。

zenyangxiaochutaxinlidegehe，xiaochuduinidefangyulixinlizhuangtai，zuihourangxianghujianmeiyoujiedini?

 xianbiezhejifuhexing，yebubizongdingzhufuhexing，ziran，nidezuizhongmubiaoshizaicilaidaoyiqi，danrujinyaoxianweizijizhidingyigexiaomubiao，jinyoubayigegegerenmubiaojinxing，caikeyijinxingzuizhongmubiao。

在这个环节，要重点关注大家中间的“舒适感”。

 jinguan，rujindetaduinishidichuxintai，danyejinjindichunimingquetichufuhexing，shijishangshizhishangtaduinihuanshimanshangxide，zhongjiuyiqianzouzaiyiqi，xianghuxiyinzhu。

 dangjinkanlai，nizuibixuzuode，bianshibutifuhexing，bahuatitaolunfangdaoyiqiqingqingsongsongdeshishang，lirujinqichanshengdeyouyisideshi，huoliaoyiliaoxianghujianyitongpenyou。

 ziran，niyaonenggou tiaoxuanshidudejihui，zhaoyigeshihedetuoci，zhaotabanggemang(tagongzuonenglifanchouyinei)，shitazaiqianyishizhongliganjue，niqueshishilibuletade，raneryoutadecunyou，huijinirichangshenghuoyuelaiyuegengchenggong……