花镇教育这种挽回技巧，比你一昧地哀求前任要有效得多了

zaiwanliudequanguochengzhong，youyibufenrenzongxiaibaqingganzhongquanbudeguoshiquanlandaozishendeshenshang，huazhenjiaoyu，suihoukukuwanliuqiannanyouhuijiazaiweizijiyigejiyu。

danneiyangzuo，qudechenggongdeshiliquzhikeshu。youyuwanliudeshizhi，shiercixiyin。suirannixiangyaojiuzhengzishenquexiandezheiyidianmizuzhengui，kanshangquhaoxiangshiyigenengxiyinzhuqiannanyouhuishoudeguanjianhuanjie，keshishishangfeichangshaoyouxierenqueshinengbaozheng。

youyujuedaduoshudelianren，quanshiyinweiyicicidezhengzhihuozhemocacaizaocheng hunyinpoliede。zaizheigequanguochengzhong，dajiazaoyishizheguoyiciciqugaijinzishendequedian，kejieguorengshilanbuzhufenlichulaidejushi。

zheijiubiaomingle，yixiefenqibingbingbushiduanqineineinenggou chulide，youhuoshishiyagenjiumeifachuli。

jiarudajiashiyouyuzheileiyuanguertichufenshou，erniyizhizaiwanliudequanguochengzhongquezuochunenghuajiemaodundefuwuchengnuo。xianeryijian，qiannanyouduiwojinideaidexinrenganyouduoda。

jibianlingyifangqueshijianxinleni，dannimeibanfabaozhengdezheiyifuwuchengnuobianshidajiazhongjianqinggandezhadan。

bansuizhefuhexingdeshijianyuezhang，tafashengbaozhadegailvhepohuailibianhuiyueda。

yiner，wanliudequanguochengzhongqianwanbiezuozheileifuwuchengnuo，yebubiquguitiannanqiannanyou。youyuneiyangzuo，shifenjiangjia，zongshirangqiannanyougengweichaoyuezijidangshijuecetichufenshoudeniantoushiqiadangde。

而相比苦苦挽留和随便许过服务承诺，明白用推拉技巧的人才更非常容易挽回前任。

youyutuilamennengtuidonglingyifangdexintai，shitayouyizhonghusiluanxiangdejinzhang，eryibuyoujinjinbawoyiqiedewendinggan。

yiner，tahuizhujianchuaimonidesixu，naizhizaishejiaowangluopingtaishangyanshijianguannideyijuyidong。

tuilajiqiaoyongdehaoderen，zaitarendeyanlijiuhaoxiangyigemimian，huirangbierenjiqiedixiangyaozhidaomimian，yinci tayouxiurencaihuiyizhibazhuanzhulidoufangdaonidedeshenshang。

shijishangtuilajiqiaozaidajiarichangrichangshenghuoshishifenchangchangcaiyongde，jinjinjuedaduoshurenyemeiyouzhuyidao。

biru，ruguonideairenjiniganleyidunfan，danqueyouyutabuchangzuozheijianshiqing，yinci zuodebingbuhaochi。

jiaruzheishinijuede，“ruheneimenanyixiayan?”neilingyifanghenyoukenengzhihoudouburongyizaijinizhufanle。naizhizheileizhongleidehuiyingpinciduolezhihou，lingyifangjiuyibuxinganqingyuantourule。

danjiaruzheishinijuede，“jinguanzuodeyibanban，danyouyuzuoderenweiwozhufandeqingyi，worenweiwonengmishangzheiyiweierde。”

zheishi，lingyifangdexinlizhuangtaibianhuiyouyigejiangshengdequanguocheng，cushiniduitadechengzantingqilaigengweidibaoguihezhenxinshiyi。

fanguolai，jiarunizhimingbaiyimeidichengzanlingyifang，huazhenjiaoyu，youkenenghuiranglingyifangganjuenidehuahenfuyanleshi，youhuoshijuedenidehuameiyoushiyongjiazhi。

在挽留的全过程中，也是一样的。你不能一昧地把情感的过失揽在自身的身上，即便你确实做不对很多事儿，但另一方毫无疑问也是有做得错误的地区。

jiaruniyizhidihuizishen，zongshiranglingyifangganjuenishiweilegenghaodiwanliutaerzaishuohuang，erqiejuedenidewanliuhaowuchengyi。

jiarunixianrenkezishenfancuodeshier，suihouzaiyirouhehuozhemaimengdeyudiaoxianglingyifangshuo，“niyeyouzuodecuowudediquya。”

neiyangjijilelingyifangjietixia，youranglingyifangganjueniqueshishiyourenzhendisisuolianggerenzhongjiandenanti，yishunjianduinidehaogandubianhuizengjiaxuduo。

danshi，jinguantuilajiqiaokanshangqufangfofeichangrongyi，dancaozuoguochengyeyouhenduobixuhenxiagongfukexueyanjiudediqu。

liruzaiyingyongtuilajiqiaoshi，niganwanbukeyifourenzheixieshizhishangdewupin。

biru，nibunengqianyimiaoshuolingyifangxiangsihua，houyimiaobianshuotaxiangmeiren。zheihuirangtarenganjueniyuwulunci，luojisiweiwuyuanwugu。