花镇情感和前任这样聊天，让他重新爱上和你接触

zaifenliyihou，huazhenqinggan，xianggentagoutongjiaoliu，kebujiuzhangkou，quebeitalengdandexiaobiaoqingheyuyanhepao。

talijihuijueyunigoutongjiaoliu，yincinineiyangxiang：tayidingshibuaiwole，wanliudabufenshibukenengdeshiqingleba?

 ziran，xiangheqiannanyouxiufulianluo，dangranyaobaochilianghaodegoutongjiaoliu，shitayishidaonidegenggai，shitajiandaonixiajuexinjianchibuxiedexinxin，danxianjieduantaduinijinyoupaichi，youzenmekenengjinyibuxiufulianluoni?

想修复联络，最先要消除他对你的槽糕印像。

shishishang，zainanshigennimingquetichufenshouzhihou，huilijingsangehuanjie：paichihuanjie、sikaohuanjie、zhuiyihuanjie。

zaiqingxizheisangehuanjiehou，juedaduoshunvshidoushihuineiyangxunwendao：neitayijianshidepaichiqihuichuxianduojiuni?

 xiangqingxizheijianshiqingdeshijiyiyi，ziranshixuanzaitayibupaichideshike，paichujingong，shitayishidaonidefuhexingmingxianxinyuan。

排斥期時间的长度，取决于他心态的修复速率，但更取决于你的心态。

 ruozaizheigeqinei，niyizhisipilailian，buduanzaidisanxiasiqiutafuhexing，naizhishengsilijiedaoyongxingmingweixieta……neitakenengyizhizaipaichiqizhong，nanyijindaoxiayigesikaoqi，gengbietijindaozhuiyihuanjie。

 shijishang，huazhenqinggan，zainiliangdediyicishijianduanchupeng，jiuyingdangzaoyiyishidao：tahenpaichini，wulunnizenmejieshi，wulunnizenyangfuwuchengnuo，tadoushihuilisuodangrandejuedenijiushicuode。

jiranzaizheigehuanjieniyuetiejinta，tayuedichuni，neihaiganshenmeyaotiejinni?

yinci ，zaizheigeshijianfanweili，jinliangbimianhetadechupeng，rangshijianxiaochuyiqie，xunsudejindaosikaohezhuiyihuanjie。

 ziran，youshihounanyidingyitashibushizaoyibaituopaichiqi，jindaosikaohezhuiyihuanjie，danzaizheigehuanjie，ninenganshixinglianluota。

 shuobailedeanshixing，ziranshihanyoujiechuandemudi，danbulijitanfuhexing，gengbubilijibiaodasinian，huofalaosaoshuozaifenshouzhihouzishenduotongchu，nizhibixuweizijigejietixia，zhaoyigeyixiaolezhidehuatitaolun，shitaganjuenijinjinzaigentajianyidegoutongjiaoliu。

liru，zixunyixiatazhuanyetezhangdehuatitaolun，qiujiaogenanti，zongburongyizaochengtadedichuba?

huoshi，zixunxiadangshitazongrangnimaide，mouyinixihuandeshiqing，shinagedianmianmaide。

自然，不仅这一点，如果你所抛出去的话题讨论有理有据，不容易造成他的抵触，又能再次让大家修复联络，便是最适合的。

再次修复联络，有二点避讳：

 1.qiewugangxiufulianluo，jiulijimingquetichufuhexing，neiyanghenyoukenenghuishitazaiyicijindaopaichihuanjie，zhongjiuyishangqujiujiangnidexuqiugan，jiqizheigewentidejuecequanpaojitamen，zongshishitazaiyicishengangongzuoyali;

2.qiewuyishangqujiubaxianliaopinlvzhidingdetaigao，yizhaohuati，paochuquxuduohuatitaolun，shitawufashanbi。

 shijishang，yaoshibalingyifangdangzuoyigeyibanpengyoujiukeyi，bubitaihanyouzhenduixing，yebiemeixiuzhidexianliao，jijizhaoxunhuatitaolun，zaixianliaozhongtishenggongmingdian，goujianyizhongshushidu，shitazaierrumuranzhong，ganjueyunichupeng，henshufu，henxiangyouzheiyiquanguocheng，neimataduinidepaichijiuzaoyijiangzhizuishaole。