tichufenshouzhenduimeiyigenvhaieryanquanshiyijianhentongchudeshier,huazhenqingganshizhengguidegongsima?dangnageshenaiderenyibuduizishenguanaiyiyuyanbiao,zhishilengdanyiduishi,nideaiyidingrudaozhabantongteng,youqishidangtadeshenpangchuxianlexindeqinglv。
dangshitaduinishiruhederenzhen,rujinduilingyigenvshengjiuhuiyouduomehao,kanjiantamenqinqinwowo,nizhenshitongkubukan。nandaoshuozhinengzheiyanglema?congcifangkaishou,kanjiantamencongcixingfukuaile,erzishenduziyirenbeishang?
shijishangbuyiding,pengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuangshi,yidingbiezheji,youyuzaiyunifenlideqianqi,nidenanpengyouhuiyinweiguduheduifu,ertiaoxuanhelingyigenvshengxiangchulaijianqinggangtichufenshouchanshengdebushihe,zirandoubuqingchuhuichuxianneimayixieqinggandecunyou。
zaishehuixinlixuedeshang,youyigezhuangkuangchengwei“tanlianaijiushenquan”,yisishi,yigerenzaibujiufenshouhoudeqingkuangxia,jiaruyouyigerenxiangtabiaoshuguanzhuhelejie,tabianhuiduilingyifangzaochengxiaideqinggan,keshiyidancongwaishangdexiannizouchuquzhihou,tamenbianhuichajuezijiyiranhuiduiqianrennvyouniannianbuwang。
cike,jiarunihuanshiwangbudiaolingyifangdehua,jiubixubixuzuochuqinfen,yongqiadangdefangshi wanliulingyifang,xiabian,jiuyaodajiakanyixiazaiyingduizaoyiyongyouxinganqingdedeqianrenshigairuhewanliulingyifangdexin?
1、反思自己的不正确,学习培训新感情的优势
dangliangrendeqingganzoudaozhongdianzhan,yidingshiyouyuxianghujianyongyounantihefenqi,erqieshizaoyizuodaolepobudeyichulidechengdu。wenyiwenzishen,tazenmehuiyunitichufenshou?weishafenshouzhihou,taxunsudejiuhetarenzaiyiqile。
weihedangshiainineimeduodeneigerennenggou zheimekuaidejiuzijintouruletarendehuaili?yigenanrenxihuanyigenvren,yidingshiyouyunidemouleitedianjianglingyifangxiyinzhule。
zhihoutichufenshou,shiyouyunizaoyishiquzheizhongshiyongjiazhi。yinci,ninengxiangxinganqingxuexipeixunbizhaokanyixiazishendaodishinalichulenanti,taxihuandeshiwenroukeaidenvshengzi,shibushinimanbujiangli?taxiaidaqileguandenvsheng,shibushinixiaodujichang?
ruguonidonglezishenhexinganqingzhongjiandechabiedeqingkuangxia,nijiuzhidaonixuyaozuodeshigenggaitigaoziji,rangnanpengyoujiandaonidegenggai,ruguonibianchengletaxinzhongzhongdemoyang,pingzhezhiqianduinideqinggan,hexinganqingbiqilai,niyidinghuizhanyoujiaodayoushi。
2、做回一般朋友,给他们适度的关注
xuduonvhaiganjuefenshouzhihou,lingyifanghuanshizishendenanyou,neiyangderenzhinenglijiubudui,youyucongdajiatichufenshoudeneiyikeqi,dajiadezhenshishenfenjiuzaoyishipingchangrenle,jishiyihoudajiadeguanliangaijinle,dajiahuanshizhishihaopengyoueryi。
yinci ,zaiwanliudequanguochengzhong,niyidingyaoshikejilaozheiyidian,jishiguanlianzaoyigaijin,yebubitaiguoqinmiwujian,youshihouliaoshangyiliangju,jiyunanshengneixinshangdefuwei。
lingwaizaitaxiangniqingtudeqingkuangxia,shidudejiyuguanzhuhetiexin,neiyangtahuizaiganshoudaonigenggaidelingwai,fajuenidefazhan,shitaduinidehaogandudadadetigao。
3、承认现实,减少本身的需求感
zaiqingganzhong,bixuwanliudeshiyigerendexin,erbushizheiyirenzishen。
jiaruzaifenshouzhihou,niyiranduitazhuyaobiaoxianchumingxiandexuqiugan,genjuyixiliebuzhengquedefangfaquwanliu,baohanjiuchanzhemeifang,yisunhaizishendefangfaweixielingyifang,tongdianhuafaxinxizheixie,doushihuiyizaidejianshaozishendeshiyongjiazhi,ranglingyifanggengweidedichuni。
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