juedingquanzainishouli,yiwuzainideshenshang,huazhenqingganzixunkaobukaopu?nixuyaoxuanduiren。jiarujinixiangchudemubiao,bingqienishishangbiantidaodebazhongqingganzhiyi,quzhaokehoufudao,biehunrizi,yeyougengqiangdemubiaodengzheni。
一、你在意另一方比较多
niyizhizaichuduixiang,quebuquedingxinglingyifangdeniantou;nijuededajiahenshihe,tafangfobuyiweiyi;tameiyoushinitexiangta,nibuzaishitafangfomeiqubie,zheibiaoshishenme?
“errenruobuyiyangxin,qiketongxingyeni?”youshihuichuxianyifangailingyifangjiaoduodeqingkuang,ruoshizaiwanshandeqingganzhong,huichuxiangengtidezhuangkuang,lianggerenlunzheshiyanzhuiqiuwanmeihebeizhuiqiuwanmeiderenwujiaose;danruguoyouyifangyizhishiyanyixingpengyou,neiyangdeqingganbuwanshan,zhangqixialai,ninengduiainannai,ninengganjueshoulingyifangcaozong,ninengjuedenaonu、shangdangshoupian、tongchu。
二、你爱的是另一方的发展潜力
niaideshilingyifangdefazhanqianli,erbushilingyifangzhenshidemoyang,niaideshilingyifangjianglaihenyoukenengdemoyang,neitayagenbushinideairen,zhishinigengxingaizaodemubiao。
dajiameiyicizuojiehunqiankehoufudaodoushihuiwen,jiarulingyifangwushinianneidouburongyigaibian,ninenglingrenmanyima?jiaruniyizhiqidainenggaibianlingyifang,caiganjuelingrenmanyi,neimejiubingbushiai,zhishiduqian,yongbicidehuanlezuoweichouma。
nigenyigerenxiangchushi,yaoaihezhongshilingyifangdezhenxiang,erbushitajianglaidemoyang,ninengqidaitazaicifazhan,danniwubilingrenmanyitarujindemoyang。
三、你要想协助另一方
nichangganjuelingyifanghenkelingma?nijuedezishenyouyiwuxiezhulingyifangzhenzuoma?nishifouhuidanxinjiaruliqulingyifang,tahuichibuxiaoyanlidaji?ruguoshi,niyexushige“jiunankuang”。
“jiunankuang”burongyiquzhaoyigeshihedemubiao,zhishizhaoyigetasuolianmin、nenggouxiezhudemubiao。zhaoyigeshoudaowaishang、mingan、yikao、bushenai、biequderen,niyoulianshengai,tahuiduinixincunganxie,neiyangdeqingganhaoxiangyixiangyuanjiumeirirenwu,erbushiwanshan、junhengdeqinggan。
zheieryaomingjideguanjianshi“zhongshi”,niaideduixiangwubijiushinikeyizhongshideren,niwubiyilingyifangweirong,nideairenbubinideyuanjiu,zhishixiangyaonizhenshizhangwota。
四、把另一方作为钦佩的目标
nianqingdenvxingmishangdianyingdaoyan、xueshengmishangzhuanjiajiaoshou、wenmimishanglaozong……,mishangsuoqinpeidemubiao,zheileiqinggannanyibaochiyiqiezhengchang,youyulianggerenzhongjianmeifagongpingkandai。
shuangfangwubiyaogongpingkandai,bushiwozhiyingxiangli,zhishixintai,bukeyiguoduoqinpeilingyifang。huimishangsuoqinpeimubiaoderen,yibanxinxinxiaochen,tamenganjuezishenhencaogao。
五、你仅仅被另一方表面吸引住
meigerendouneiyang,duibudui?jiarunichajuezijibeilingyifangdemouyitexingshenshendixiyinzhu,yaowenyixiaziji,ruolingyifangmeiyouyishuangshenlansededayan、cixingdeshengyin……,ruolingyifangbingbushimote、burongyidalanqiu……,wodouhuigenta(ta)zaiyiqima?
六、短暂性无话不说的机遇
niyulingyifangfentanmouyigongzuozhong,jingchangyaoyiqijiabanjiadian,yincinijuedeaishanglelingyifang……。niqudujiasanzhou,lejieyigeyelaixiuxiandujiadenanren,nijuedehaoxiangzhuiruaihe……。duanzanxingdewuhuabushuo,jiushizhizaiteshuqingkuangxiacouzaiyikuai,bingbingbushijiben,zheileiqingganbukeyizhangjiu,youyuduanqineidewuhuabushuo,meifashinichedizhangwolingyifangdegexinghua。
七、为了更好地判逆才挑选这目标
babamamalaoshigennizhuzhong,yaozhaoyigefuyoudemubiao,pianyaonimeiyigenanyouquanshiqiongren;zixiaobabamamajiuduinijiaodaoyanke,pianyaonimeiyigenvyoudouhensuiyi;zixiaobabajiubuzuweixun,chuanxiangzhushizuiguanjiandeshi,pianyaonidenvyoubingbushibukeyisheng,bianshibuyuansheng……huazhenqingganzixunkaobukaopu?
jiarunixuandingdemubiao,laoshilingbabamamafahuo,henkenengnijinjinxiangpanni,nijuedeyidingyaozhengshinaxielaihaiji,ruguonibukeyiguanlizijidetiaoxuan,nibingbingbushizhenxinshiyiailingyifang,zheiyiduanqingganzhongjiumeiyoujieguo。
八、另一方并不是随意身
wojiangzheiyidianliudaozuizhong,shiyouyuzheiyagenbukeyisuanzuoqinggan。tiaoxuanlinghunbanlvdediyigeqiantitiaojianshi——lingyifangshi“suiyishen”。“suiyishen”bianshinenggousuiyiyunixiangchu,meiyouwanhun、meiyoudingqin、meiyougudingbudongdexiangchumubiao、meiyouhetarenfashengguanxi、danshen,zhiyunixiangchuderen。
jiarunimishangdenagenanrentongyihuijinzaohelingyigenvrentichufenshou;huozhetashuodaotabuxihuannagenvren,taaideshini;huozhetayuanxiandemubiaojienanidecunyou,tamenbuzhunbeitichufenshou,dantaxianggennizaiyiqiyizhenzi;huozhetagangtichufenshou,danhenyoukenengpojingzhongyuan……,zheizhongdoubingbushisuiyishen。
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